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Hey Pandas, How’s Your Relationship With Your Siblings?
Tell things about your siblings that you need to vent, and get feedback on how to handle things. Maybe you’ll find situations like yours, and find a solution while you do that.
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Well, my brother is making my life a living hell. Just last night, he walked into my room to tell me to turn my light out. We live on opposite ends of a hallway, and both our doors were closed. The day before, he started yelling at me for half an hour, because I had my phone on for ten seconds, to change a setting, and half of that time was logging in! I can’t go to my parents for help, because they never punish him enough, and the tiny bit that they do punish him just makes him hate me more! He’s scaring away all my friends, and making everyone hate me. Plus, whenever I try to complain to my parents or get away from him, they call me a drama queen, which makes me rethink if I’m the problem, or he is. It’s getting to be so bad that I don’t even feel safe curled up in a ball under a blanket in a locked room, in an empty and also locked house, on the other side of the continent. I’m seriously considering running away, but I don’t have anywhere to go, and even if I did, I’d be too chicken to actually leave.
s’ok i guess. she’s five but an absolute menace.
She's 6 years older than me and ignored me until she moved out, we still don't have a classic sibling relationship and idk if we ever will. The only thing we have in common is our parents. It's not that I dislike her, she's just more like a cousin, and I have way more of a sibling relationship with my actual older cousin (3 years older)
It’s weird. They are fun to be around sometimes, but I don’t feel any special relationship with them. Kinda like those kids in middle school that you hang out with and then when school ends, you never talk to them again.
My older brother can be mean sometimes, but he understands me the most of everyone in my family. He might be mean sometimes, but he always defends me against my parents when he thinks I’m not listening, and he supports my decision to be atheist.
My sister is nice, but she is super religious so it’s hard to have a close relationship with her because Im atheist, and she doesn’t know.
My other brother is severely autistic and annoys the hell out of me. Im very mean to him, but recently I saw a different autistic kid being treated horribly and I realized that autistic people do have feelings, and now I feel horrible
Well I have 3 half-brothers and 2 full brothers. All 3 half brothers left me when I was 7. I didn't even really realize they weren't my full brothers, just thought it was normal for them to be gone every other week. Back then they were like the coolest people ever to me. They were the cool older brothers who were fun, cool, and played with me. I don't know what happened. One day they just left and never came back. It crushed me. I actually thought they loved me and cared about me. No goodbye no nothing. I was just sitting on the front steps waiting for them to get dropped off like every Friday. And they never came. So half the time I absolutely hate them, how could they just leave their little sibling?! And the other half I'm just really sad and miss them and start blaming myself. Sorry that kinda turned into a rant :/
Then I have my two little brothers(3&10) and I love them so much. I work really hard to be a good older sibling, I refuse to ever put them through anything remotely similar of what I had to.
our relationship is actually pretty good, I don’t see him a whole lot but when i do its really fun. we’ll stay up watching shows and playing video games and sometimes we’ll go out driving and blasting music
