Is life treating you good? Or bad?
Either way I’d love to hear all about it!
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well i'm super excited cause i have my musical tomorrow but umm i kind of relapsed last night i'm sorry...
I'm assuming you mean SH. I'm really sorry, if you ever need help, please contact me. I might take a bit to respond, but I care about you and I'll help as much as I can. Even if you just want to rant about something, I'm here for you. Good luck with your musical, I know you're going to rock!
:( at least i joined bp.
aww don’t be sad!! speaking for all pandas here, including me, we wish you all the best! here’s a quote that may or may not help, but just remember: instead of getting upset over all the things that are wrong, try to be thankful for all the things that are right. <3
Not well Bc I did not get the best sleep last night there’s a power outage currently and my brother keeps trying to talk about Poultry Man from hermitcraft
Not too well. I feel sort of hollow rn. I know it's my possible bipolar/mood disorder/whatever flaring up again and I'm leaving my high period, but it's still sort of painful. I just feel like I'm not myself, which sucks because I love myself. I'm just not as excited as I usually am, I feel tired of being alive and I'm more self critical about how much I hurt the people around me. I want to tell someone about how I'm feeling but my boyfriend is the only person who I trust enough (other than a few people on this site) and I don't want to hurt him with my problems, especially since his are a hundred times worse. I know I'll be fine in a few weeks, but it feels like I'm going to kill myself. I know it won't happen, but it's exhausting and I just don't want to go through this again. I don't know what I did to deserve it.
i’m so sorry to hear that. you don’t deserve what you’re going through. hopefully it’ll all pass soon, and both you and your boyfriend will be alright, trust me. if you need to talk, i’m right here. and don’t worry, you can trust me. (not pressuring u to tell me or anything) just what makes u comfortable. :)
Life has been kicking me in the a** the past few months. My hours were cut at work drastically for winter, I work in a restaurant. So money was tight already without surprise expenses. Had to get work done on the car, vet visit, medical bills, etc. But, things are getting better. My boyfriend and I are slowly digging ourselves out of the hole. I'm getting more hours at work, and while we're still living off rice and pasta this week there is finally light at the end of the tunnel. A few more paychecks and we'll be able to start saving again. 😁
Not to great. I feel really confused in a lot of ways, but won't articulate, don't really want to bug y'all. I really feel like I need to see a doctor about my mental health but I can't. I feel like I'm like life's anger management, like it puts me away for a while and then takes me out and beats me up when it's mad
oh no you’re not bugging anyone. i literally asked you to bug me because i’m always here if you need to talk about anything. yes life can be stressing but it won’t always suck. it’s like a roller coaster - it goes up and down, and right now, if you’re going down, you’ll be going up soon because the roller coaster isn’t just going to stay down. if it does then that roller coaster is boring. life will always hand you challenges and you will have to put up with them, and so i’m here exactly so i could help you do that. i’m so sorry life has been treating you badly but if you’re going through some bad days, good days are to come
Great haha *eye twitch *
Pretty good. I've had some difficult times, like going through war and almost becoming a refugee with my family twice, but we've always gotten through it.
red lotus, just wanted to say this - ur an amazing person. keep going. and i’m right here if u need anything! <3
Not great, but not terrible either. First, the bad: I’m struggling with some mental health issues and I’m having a lot of trouble trying to get treatment for those issues. I’m trying to lose weight as well, which has always been an issue for me and isn’t going great so far, but hopefully will get better once I deal with the mental health issues. I’m constantly tight on money, not quite paycheck to paycheck but not much better either, so I can’t really go out and do anything right now. I also get the occasional bouts of loneliness since I’m living by myself for the first time in a few years and I’m just generally not that great at socializing. Now, the positives: I just bought my first house on my own in my early 30s (I got really lucky on a weird/old house that was on the market for a long time) and have been living there for a few months now. Work at my new-ish job is going well so far and we’re supposedly doing better this year as an organization financially even with the current global economic issues. Also, I’m still alive, relatively healthy, and (just barely) keeping my head above water.
i’m so sorry to hear that. for the mental health issues, i hope you get well soon. for the weight loss thing, i know exactly what you mean. impressing people with a perfect body is impossible because, well…NO ONE is perfect! don’t pressure yourself to look a certain way, instead, take it one step as a time, allow the occasional cheat day, and use the time in which you exercise as a fun period of time where you get to listen to music and let the time pass. find a sport you like to do and do that regularly, so that you can have fun while losing both weight and any stress you might have. don’t cut off any food groups, just decrease the quantity of the fatty foods and increase the amount of healthy foods such as fruits and vegetables. and as for the money issue, i’m sure you’ll be able to save money over time and will hopefully have enough to do whatever you want with it. and finally, as for the socializing thing, you’re not alone. all pandas are on this site because we’re antisocial irl!
Life is treating me fine but I don’t feel fine
oh i’m so sorry to hear that! hopefully you’ll be fine soon! i’m right here if you need talk about anything. literally ANYTHING you need to get off your chest, i have too much free time so don’t be scared of bothering me. you’ve got this <3
Life keeps throwing me a constant stream of mental and physical health problems. I think it's mad at me. But at least I have bp and, like, 2 irl friends
