Hey Pandas, Ask The Opposite Gender Questions You Always Wanted The Answer To (Closed)

Wait I never thought about that ._. One time I heard a guy talking to his friends, and one of them said “Bro you have feelings for *insert female name here*?” Have feelings- Don’t they just say crush like the rest of us

In my experience, not really

Either one can make the first move! If you wanna make the first move, go for it!

Go for it guys think it’s pretty cool if a girl makes the first move 👍🏽

So, the thing is, at that age (12-13 right?) we boys are basically idiots. And to completely truthful with you, yes a lot of boys will go by looks at that age. Not all, maybe around half. I personally didn't have a 'type' at that age, but I did have a 'standard of beauty' and here's the funny thing, most of the girls I thought were pretty, my friends thought were ugly and vice-versa, with a few in the middle ground. EVERY girl feels the way you do at some point, that they are not pretty enough to be asked out! But here's the secret, so does every guy! Also, quite often he's too scared to ask you out because he thinks you wouldn't like him. Oh, and the law of the universe says the more you want a boyfriend/girlfriend the longer you'll be single, so just enjoy life and if an opportunity comes along (or you feel brave enough to ask sum1), go for it.

I recommend just being your natural self and focus on enjoying hanging out with your friends, learning as much as you can about the world around you, and developing your unique personality. There'll be plenty of time when you're older to date and to have boyfriends; at your age, just enjoy being who you are.

If someone focuses solely on looks, you probably don’t want to be in a relationship with them. At least for me, how someone looks is less important than who they are as a person.

From my experience (although for me it was with girls) if they flirt with you (play tag, try to be funny or get your attention often) they are likely attracted to you. If they bully you like "Donkey boi" mentioned they're just an A-hole. Call em out, embarrass them, dust leave but don't stay there and allow them to do that crap to you. You're too valuable to take that crap from somebody.

No. The boy is an A-hole! We can be irritating, but not bullying no!

Honestly if someone likes you, they should be doing everything they can to make you feel good. For example, if I were to try to get a someone to like me, I would not want to bully them. That would make them feel bad about themselves and they would avoid me. Also if your dating someone who’s bullying or abusing you, I personally wouldn’t want to have anything to do with that relationship

Well, lots of pockets are nice and I think it’s stupid that only guys generally get pockets, as they are good to have regardless of gender. As for “beauty standards”, I recommend a documentary called “The Mask We Live In”, as it does a pretty good job of looking at some of those male standards.

Don't be beating yourself up Cassie. Beating yourself up doesn't do anything positive for you so just keep movin.

Sometimes, and sometimes not. Usually if you are in a group you wait for everyone. But that is not allowed at my school, so I just take longer to fix my hair

sometimes we hangout,other times we wait for our whole group to finish while touching up our make-up

Some people talk, but I'd say the big 2 time burns are 1) Having to sit down to pee and 2) Fiddling around with pads/tampons.

Heck yeah! I love ‘em, and it usually shows.

It is a societal issue. The truth is, girls mature much sooner than boys. Adolescent boys are just as emotionally confused as the girls are, but are taught to hold in their feelings and tough it out rather than talk about their problems. I am in my 50s so I imagine it is more acceptable for boys to express feelings now, but things may not have changed that much. But you can bet that the hard case tough boy is just as emotionally fragile as the quiet kid who sits by himself that no one seems to notice. They both need support and help dealing with their emotions, but rarely get it and are expected to not be a (insert derogatory slang word for weak male) and just get on with it. Boys don't cry after all.

Ok as a dude that cross dresses and use girl clothes. That s**t is comfy as hell. I foocken love my leggings and skirt

i love wearing leggings and an over sized t-shirt that covers my butt it is soooooo comfortable

No it’s just really comfy

It's comfortable, it makes you feel more at ease, and it sort of feels like you're more attractive, not noticeably, but it gives me confidence. I also like jeans and shorts and t-shirts though. Depends on my mood.

I don't generally wear skin tight dresses, since they reveal a belly I'm trying hard to conceal XD. If I were thinner, I probably would wear stuff like that just to show off that I can. And it'd probably just be for me, I doubt others care.

i think its just a personality thing because my teacher does it and hes straight (he told us im not assuming)

I feel nude with out one ;—;

People around me expect me to wear bras and now I’d feel self-conscious without one.

I can answer the girl ones! Some females prefer to speak about how they look because they need tips, or they are just interested in the subject. For example, if you really liked art, and you spoke about it a lot, YOU know it’s because it’s a topic you love. I, for one, am on the shopping side! I like seeing new things, and testing them out, or even making fun of the things I would never buy.

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Everyone has their own likes and dis-likes, and it also depends on what is considered "tall, short, thick, thin...". Just depends. I guess that's not really the answer you are looking for though. Also, I would say for myself, who the person is and how they treat others is much more important than how they look, although it does help to be attracted to someone.

Really depends on the guy

I think they easiest way to say why guys like boobs is to say "they have magical powers". Honestly not sure why we like them so much but we do. As far as size, to each their own.

As a girl who doesn't wear makeup, idk. Maybe other girls like feeling safe and protected and concealing their flaws, and the process of putting on make up and feeling nice is supposedly relaxing too. Besides, people like dressing up. Make up is another individual way to do so.

I think that while both genders are equally intelligent and empathetic as a whole, their brains still form different ways (different hormone ratios, etc) and girls can bond easier in that way with other girls than they can with boys and vise versa.

I don't talk to anyone about anything I am going through, since every time I've tried they've told their friends and their entire family. "Raven told me such-and-such, she said she's not happy with so-and-so," etc. Then again, my parents have messed me up nine ways from Thursday, so I guess it's just me. Boys, in my experience, mostly just listen to whatever I say bc they're trying to get on my good side, so I'll let you know if I find one that's nice to vent to.