Hey Pandas, Ask A Question That You’re Insecure/Confused About (Closed)

Non binary usually means you dont feel like you’re a boy or a girl and always feel the same, genderfluid usually means sometimes you feel like a boy, a girl or neither and it can change, hope that helps explain?

No idea. Confuses me too.

If you haven't already, check out the book Educated by Tara Westover. Queen of religious family trauma. Your situation isn't nearly as rare as you may think. Look for people who have gone through similar things to find a support system outside of toxic family.

No! If you don’t want to live with people that force you to do things that make you uncomfortable and don’t believe you have mental issues, then that’s okay! It’s your life, and if you don’t want them to be a part of that, it’s your choice. They might feel like you should talk to them after all they have done for you, but it sounds like they need to think about what’s important to them.

No. You are amazing and valid, and its their own fault if they cant see that

Yes. I typically think of a person of color as someone not Caucasian.

I think so 🤷. I don't think you're considered white, but probably not colored either.

It took me so long to figure that out ], i eventually decided i was a biromantic lesbian but you don't have to pick a label.it really helps me, but for some people, they prefer not to choose. One other possibility is Omni, for what you are describing which is the same thing as bi, but you have a preference towards one gender. I hope this helps.

It just takes experimenting. It's alright to be confused, it's nearly impossible to figure it out exactly for a while. Experiment with both guys and girls, and you'll find yourself. As for coming out, I say just tell people. If they don't like it, you don't need them as a friend anyways.

sex is what ur born as gender is what you actually are

Because USUALLY when people say that, it's them being transphobic to us. I have no problem knowing that I was born a female. I have problems when someone says "BUT you were born a female" when I tell them I don't identify as a female

My best advice is to think about it for a while. I definitely know what you’re talking about, but I’m that situation, for some reason I just thought of them differently. If you want to know for sure, become friends with them first, and see if you still want more.

I have no friends. Only romantic interests. But if you spend more time with them/talk to them more it should become more clear.

for me dating is another level of friendship

yes ofc being bullied is never ok

Gynesexual I think (attracted to women/females/femininity no matter what identity)

I think you would be trixic https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Trixic