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“Are You 6?”: Woman Ruins Her BF’s Proposal Because She Was Hangry, Splits The Internet
Many couples want their proposals to be perfect. And what’s the best place for that? According to the majority of American couples, it’s some sort of ‘scenic’ spot. 14% of U.S. couples, for example, have gotten engaged during an outdoor activity. But there are some practical things to consider when proposing outdoors.
Snacks can be one, as this couple found out the hard way. The boyfriend planned a seemingly perfect proposal, but failed to consider that his GF might get a serious case of the munchies. His romantic evening thus turned into a disaster when her stomach started growling and her mood turned sour.
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The woman started wondering whether she was too mean or if her BF picked the wrong time and place
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A good proposal needs to resonate with both partners and be unique to their love story
It’s natural to want the day of your engagement to be special. It’s about celebrating love, commitment, and your relationship. Sadly, some couples don’t experience the much-wanted engagement bliss.
A recent survey by Talker Research found that only 39% of American couples would give their proposal an A+. What’s more, only half of the respondents said they wouldn’t change a thing about their proposal.
A proposal doesn’t have to be perfect, but many couples will still want to come as close as possible. For that to happen, the proposal should reflect the relationship itself and the couple’s love story.
In a previous article for Bored Panda, date planners and proposal experts at The Heart Bandits emphasized how important it is to make the day meaningful and relatable for both partners.
“Brainstorm things about your relationship that may be unique to your love story,” Michele Velazquez of The Heart Bandits told us then. “Think about how you first met, how you fell in love, shared hobbies that brought you together, moments in your relationship that made you stronger, etc. Then circle those ideas that you think could be used as the central theme in your marriage proposal.”
Her husband and partner, Marvin, also told us how one can recover after an unsuccessful proposal. “Make the proposal something that the partner truly wants,” he said. “For example, if the partner loves nature, the proposal can happen on a scenic hike with some romantic setup ready.”
“The proposer would really need to learn if their person wants certain things like being the center of attention, a private or public proposal, something elaborate or intimate, romantic or adventurous, etc.”
“The proposer would then need to take the time to truly plan out something amazing that their partner would love to ensure their partner feels special and makes the moment more meaningful.”
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An outdoor proposal is not a bad idea, but there are some details to consider
There are many different places that people choose for proposals. Depending on what their partners like, some choose to propose at restaurants; others do it during concerts or sporting events. Nature lovers often opt for a picnic or even a hike.
When planning a proposal outdoors, there are more things that can go wrong, since nature’s ways are sometimes unpredictable. Seattle-based elopement and wedding photographer Joe Tobiason notes that for hiking proposals, you need to consider things like:
- Choosing the right trail. Depending on fitness level, scenery preferences, and time constraints, different hiking routes may interest you. If you’re looking to propose in a protected area, you might even need permits!
- Prepare clothing. Even if the forecast says it’s going to be sunny, it’s always best to come prepared.
- Other provisions. This includes things like food (especially relevant for the couple in this story), a camera (or even hiring a photographer), or even a pet.
However, the most important thing to consider might be coming up with a Plan B. Wedding photographer Clarissa Wylde agrees: “Even with the best-laid plans, things can sometimes go sideways.”
“Weather, crowds, or unexpected obstacles can pop up, especially in outdoor locations. Always have a Plan B so that you’re not stressed if something doesn’t go as expected.”
“How was I supposed to magically know I was walking into a surprise proposal while running on fumes and one granola bar?” the woman defended herself
Some people thought this was just a big misunderstanding caused by a lack of communication from both of them
Other sided with the woman: “He shoulda brought snacks”
Some, however, thought that being hungry did not warrant ruining a special moment
Similar proposals have happened to other women, and they shared their stories
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DrBronxx 5 months ago
ESH here. *Really* poor planning on the BF's part, and didn't listen to her. On the other hand, being hangry is never an excuse. Also, she said she complained a lot - she lowkey complained about him at the start of the d**n post with the "if you like everything covered in hot sauce" and Taco Bell comments. Also, "cute-sassy grumpy"? That sounds like such a chore. Lastly, if you know that you get hangry, eat more than half a d**n granola bar for lunch.
BeesEelsAndPups 5 months ago
The complaint about his cooking right at the start was it for me. Why throw that in? This is a relationship where nothing this guy does will ever be good enough. It's best to just move on.
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Ace 5 months ago
The whole idea of the "surprise" proposal is ridiculous, but these days it sees to be taken to even worse extremes. This guy's clearly felt pressured to do something special and doesn't have the life experience to make a proper job of it. Food timing is more or less important to different people and I assume he just didn't think about it. But then to leave it hanging is stupid of both of them. He was going to propose, they both know that, and presumably if she was not going to accept she would have told him by now, so can't they just agree that they are by now de-facto engaged? Just give her the ring already.
Binky Melnik 5 months ago
The thing is he had an event planned at dinner time, so my first thought would be it’s a dinner! But since the plans went wonky because she didn’t feel well from hunger, ALL he had to do was to take her for something to eat. He didn’t hafta tell her that bed planned to propose and she ruined it. (Because she didn’t; he let her think she was gonna be fed when she wasn’t.) Had he kept his stupid mouth shut, he coulda done it a different day,and *that* time he coulda brought a picnic basket with him. There was no need to tell her about the missed half-assed surprise. Since he opened his pie hole, though, now there’s finger-pointing, blaming, and whatever else they came up with. All he had to do was to STAY QUIET, and then try again, but this ti e with adjustments! That’s all! She didn’t ruin anything; he did! (And by proposing when she has a good, normal blood sugar level, it means she’ll be able to REMEMBER he proposal!)
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DrBronxx 5 months ago
ESH here. *Really* poor planning on the BF's part, and didn't listen to her. On the other hand, being hangry is never an excuse. Also, she said she complained a lot - she lowkey complained about him at the start of the d**n post with the "if you like everything covered in hot sauce" and Taco Bell comments. Also, "cute-sassy grumpy"? That sounds like such a chore. Lastly, if you know that you get hangry, eat more than half a d**n granola bar for lunch.
BeesEelsAndPups 5 months ago
The complaint about his cooking right at the start was it for me. Why throw that in? This is a relationship where nothing this guy does will ever be good enough. It's best to just move on.
Load More Replies... Ace 5 months ago
The whole idea of the "surprise" proposal is ridiculous, but these days it sees to be taken to even worse extremes. This guy's clearly felt pressured to do something special and doesn't have the life experience to make a proper job of it. Food timing is more or less important to different people and I assume he just didn't think about it. But then to leave it hanging is stupid of both of them. He was going to propose, they both know that, and presumably if she was not going to accept she would have told him by now, so can't they just agree that they are by now de-facto engaged? Just give her the ring already.
Binky Melnik 5 months ago
The thing is he had an event planned at dinner time, so my first thought would be it’s a dinner! But since the plans went wonky because she didn’t feel well from hunger, ALL he had to do was to take her for something to eat. He didn’t hafta tell her that bed planned to propose and she ruined it. (Because she didn’t; he let her think she was gonna be fed when she wasn’t.) Had he kept his stupid mouth shut, he coulda done it a different day,and *that* time he coulda brought a picnic basket with him. There was no need to tell her about the missed half-assed surprise. Since he opened his pie hole, though, now there’s finger-pointing, blaming, and whatever else they came up with. All he had to do was to STAY QUIET, and then try again, but this ti e with adjustments! That’s all! She didn’t ruin anything; he did! (And by proposing when she has a good, normal blood sugar level, it means she’ll be able to REMEMBER he proposal!)
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