“Oh, My Girlfriend Was Hungry, So She Ate It”: Guy Gives Roommate Ultimatum
Living with a roommate can be a mix of fun and frustration, and a lot depends on various factors. Are they tidy? Do they respect your personal space? You could have a fantastic relationship with your roommate, but sometimes their partner can introduce unexpected tension into the mix.
For instance, a man shared his growing frustration with his roommate, whose girlfriend frequently stays over and helps herself to his groceries, leading to a confrontation about boundaries and expectations in their shared living space.
When living with a roommate, it’s important to respect their personal space and belongings, including food
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A man expressed his frustration after his roommate’s girlfriend continually helped herself to his snacks, but the last straw came when she finished off his nice takeout without permission
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People love the convenience of ordering whatever they’re craving, even if it isn’t the healthiest choice
We’ve all experienced those days when you walk through the door feeling ravenous but utterly drained of energy to cook. Whether you’ve had a grueling day at work or just finished a gym session, that intense hunger hits the moment you enter home.
When life gets hectic, it’s easy to opt for quick takeout or ready-made meals, which often aren’t the healthiest options. In today’s fast-paced world, many people gravitate toward the convenience of online food ordering.
After all, isn’t it fantastic to get exactly what you crave with just a click? In fact, the global meal delivery market was expected to soar to an impressive $436.50 billion by 2024. And by 2028, the meal delivery market is projected to attract around 2.5 billion users, highlighting a significant shift in how we approach dining.
When you are juggling a packed schedule and multiple responsibilities, healthy eating can often take a backseat. But imagine coming home and, within minutes, enjoying a healthy home-cooked dinner. Amidst the whirlwind of hectic weekdays, meal prepping or meal planning can help you stay on track with your healthy eating goals.
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On the other hand, meal prepping can offer significant benefits for maintaining a nutritious diet
While meal prep does require some planning, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. For some, meal prep could involve preparing a hearty casserole that can be portioned out and enjoyed over several days. For others, it might mean cooking a big batch of brown rice and pairing it with different proteins and veggies each day.
Typically, people start by crafting a plan and shopping for groceries accordingly. Basheerah Enahora, RDN, the owner of BE Nutrition in Charlotte, North Carolina, highlights, “When we put some thought into it, we’re more likely to pick up really nutrient-rich foods from the grocery store. We have a list that’s decided in advance.”
Next, you need to choose a specific day to tackle your meal prep. And once everything is prepped, all you need to do is efficiently store the food. Registered dietitian Elyse Homan, MS, RD, LD, says, “I suggest using microwave-safe containers for those hot lunches. Mason jar salads are a fantastic option for keeping ingredients fresh for several days in the fridge.”
Not only does meal prepping save you time, but it can also help you save money in the long run. Plus, it reduces food waste and makes it easier to stick to your nutrition goals. Think of all the benefits: you have meals ready to go, you’re less tempted to indulge in unhealthy options, and you gain peace of mind knowing you’re fueling your body right.
Now, since meal prepping certainly requires time and effort, it can be incredibly frustrating when someone takes all that hard work for granted by stealing your food. Have you ever prepped your meals only to find them missing? How would that make you feel?
Many people online felt the author should take firm action against their roommate
Others believed it wasn’t the author’s place to dictate who their roommate could bring home
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Forget rent. Forget all about that. Someone walks up to you in a picnic takes your lunch and moves on like it was nothing. Some of these YTA ppl making this about landlord and rent stuff are missing the point. When you reduce it to the fundamentals. It is simple,classic,old reliable...STEALING!
people in reddit see someone owning property and automatically assume he is an a*****e. It doesn't matter if the story is "I rent a room to someone and they stabbed me cause they were mad", there will be replies like "it's your fault for being a landlord"
Load More Replies...I really can't get why people steal other people's food. When the roommate's girlfriend is hungry, the roommate has to go grocery shopping and prepare for her visits, order some food or take her out. And at least ask and offer to replace. Or she could bring her own food. Simple as that. There is absolutely no need to steal someone else's food.
I'd kick him out with that attitude. Or start taking his stuff and using it/eating it. See how he likes it.
I'd ask both of them when you notice that she's there if they've gone to the grocery store. Because he's going to get evicted if your food gets stolen again. I'm also very territorial, so I'd probably say something along the lines of thieving beotch right to her face. But seriously, the roommate needs to go, he has no sense of respect. He should have stopped her, but he let her steal instead.
I would never dream of stealing someone elses food out of a fridge. Not after they'd been drooling and slobbering all over it. Might nick a biscuit or a beer. Nice cold beer and a chocolate biscuit. Lovely.
So you're a liar. You would dream of stealing someone else's food out of a fridge. Sucker.
Load More Replies...Reiterate "don't touch my food AT ALL, i'm following some new diet trends" and text it to roommate for proof, then buy non-perishables for a couple of weeks and keep them in your room, stock the fridge with food you purchased but add the world's hottest spicy sauces, laxatives, chocolate covered brussel sprouts, caramel onions, oreos with toothpaste between them instead of the sugary white bit, mix cheese powder into orange juice etc. When she starts suffering side effects from the stolen food, start laughing hysterically in her face and pointing at her, reminding them you said you're eating new diet trends and not to touch your food. Then tell roommate you've compiled a list with costs and receipt of everything she's stolen, will be reporting it to the police and opening a civil suit on them both. Or, roommate can move out and OP never has to see either of these losers again. Get crafty, people!
Add some of the most powerful hot sauce to one of your meals then put it in the fridge. Wait to laugh a while!
You’re been taken for a ride here and they are doing a merry dance around you. I’ve rented.. back home in Ireland… under no circumstances does that mean a flatmate invites a friend over and eats everyone’s food. They should be buying and cooking their own. So what if he is paying rent.. that’s meaningless to believe it means Miss Entitlement/ Miss leech can just take what she wants. You really should ask for compensation.. local supermarket voucher etc. her own boyfriend isn’t even taking care of her. They both need to leave .. also it’s 2 weeks is encroaching.. next it’ll be , we need the living room tonight for a romantic night in, could you go out or stay in bedroom for a few hours. They are quite the pair
Forget rent. Forget all about that. Someone walks up to you in a picnic takes your lunch and moves on like it was nothing. Some of these YTA ppl making this about landlord and rent stuff are missing the point. When you reduce it to the fundamentals. It is simple,classic,old reliable...STEALING!
people in reddit see someone owning property and automatically assume he is an a*****e. It doesn't matter if the story is "I rent a room to someone and they stabbed me cause they were mad", there will be replies like "it's your fault for being a landlord"
Load More Replies...I really can't get why people steal other people's food. When the roommate's girlfriend is hungry, the roommate has to go grocery shopping and prepare for her visits, order some food or take her out. And at least ask and offer to replace. Or she could bring her own food. Simple as that. There is absolutely no need to steal someone else's food.
I'd kick him out with that attitude. Or start taking his stuff and using it/eating it. See how he likes it.
I'd ask both of them when you notice that she's there if they've gone to the grocery store. Because he's going to get evicted if your food gets stolen again. I'm also very territorial, so I'd probably say something along the lines of thieving beotch right to her face. But seriously, the roommate needs to go, he has no sense of respect. He should have stopped her, but he let her steal instead.
I would never dream of stealing someone elses food out of a fridge. Not after they'd been drooling and slobbering all over it. Might nick a biscuit or a beer. Nice cold beer and a chocolate biscuit. Lovely.
So you're a liar. You would dream of stealing someone else's food out of a fridge. Sucker.
Load More Replies...Reiterate "don't touch my food AT ALL, i'm following some new diet trends" and text it to roommate for proof, then buy non-perishables for a couple of weeks and keep them in your room, stock the fridge with food you purchased but add the world's hottest spicy sauces, laxatives, chocolate covered brussel sprouts, caramel onions, oreos with toothpaste between them instead of the sugary white bit, mix cheese powder into orange juice etc. When she starts suffering side effects from the stolen food, start laughing hysterically in her face and pointing at her, reminding them you said you're eating new diet trends and not to touch your food. Then tell roommate you've compiled a list with costs and receipt of everything she's stolen, will be reporting it to the police and opening a civil suit on them both. Or, roommate can move out and OP never has to see either of these losers again. Get crafty, people!
Add some of the most powerful hot sauce to one of your meals then put it in the fridge. Wait to laugh a while!
You’re been taken for a ride here and they are doing a merry dance around you. I’ve rented.. back home in Ireland… under no circumstances does that mean a flatmate invites a friend over and eats everyone’s food. They should be buying and cooking their own. So what if he is paying rent.. that’s meaningless to believe it means Miss Entitlement/ Miss leech can just take what she wants. You really should ask for compensation.. local supermarket voucher etc. her own boyfriend isn’t even taking care of her. They both need to leave .. also it’s 2 weeks is encroaching.. next it’ll be , we need the living room tonight for a romantic night in, could you go out or stay in bedroom for a few hours. They are quite the pair






























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