Woman Who Was Invited To Bachelorette Party Out Of ‘Pity’ Sends Out List Of Insane Rules All Girls Must Follow

I would have said this was fake or a joke, except I knew people who were just like this.

And this is why people who are strongly religious get a bad name! Before screaming at me...consider: you are free to believe what you wish to believe. You are free to worship (or not) as you see fit. I have utmost respect for diverse religious opinions and practice. I do not have any respect for those who automatically assume any of the following: that those who do not share your beliefs are morally, ethically inferior. That those of other faiths are doomed and will never be acceptable. That those who do not believe in any deity are "damaged;" "inferior;" or "ethically challenged." The idea that someone would force others to attend their church, worship in their manner or force their morality onto another person is insulting, arrogant and very, very wrong.

And here is the fasted way to be uninvited to a wedding/bachelorette party.... Quite pompous of her if you ask me. I thought only the maid of honor laid down the ground rules for the bachelorette party with the bride being the only one with veto power.

NO ONE goes to Vegas to attend church!!!! I can't believe this girl, badgering her way into the wedding and bachelorette party then laying down insane rules. If they wanted a behaved bachelorette party they wouldn't be going to Vegas!

I don't doubt it's real, because I had the same thing happen. I was part of a bunch of guys from work who decided to take what we dubbed The Male Bondage Trip in an RV to California's north coast. We didn't have solid plans other than to play some golf and have a good time. One of the guys insisted that there be no drinking, drugs, or womanizing on the trip. The organizer basically told him that he wasn't going to impose any terms on anybody, and we were all expected to be responsible for ourselves. Mr. Puritan chose not to go. That was over 30 years ago, and we still talk about how great that trip was.

I'd tell her to f**k off.

Here’s the problem that’s bigger than the crazy women making the demand. It’s the wimp bride who on two separate occasions was intimidated by others into doing some she didn’t want to do. If she’s old enough to get married, it’s time for her to grow a pair and stop being such a doormat.

Surely this can't be for real. Do people like this really exist?

This could be a nice kickstarter for a movie. Either a comedy one in the lines of "Braidsmaids", or a horror movie when the religious girl lost its mind and go rampage with an axe against her "friends" for not follow her rules. I think I´ll start scripting right now.

just.WOW. the nerve of some people never ceases to amaze me! glad I'm not the kind that is easily intimidated into inviting people to MY get-togethers--let alone a bachelorette party & wedding!

Bride sets the "rules". If you don't like her rules, don't go. Plain and simple.

If this is the script to the trailer of the "Hangover 4 – the female trip" I think I would like to watch it. Otherwise: let's just ignore Taylor.

OMG what a narcissist. This girl made the brides wedding and entire bach party all about her and her views and what she wants them to do for her so she feels okay about going to Vegas. News Flash you're not the bride! It's not about you and what you want! What a freak, who acts like that. I can't even believe she thought it was okay to send that email, you're not even in the wedding, you weren't even supposed to be invited yet you think that every needs to follow your rules for someone else's bachelorette party?? WTF is this girl on?!

In a separate email to everyone but her... "Party's in MY room !!!!"

now she's suing! https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/bachelorette-party-guest-shamed-email-demands-viral-180025453.html

Sounds Mormon. Lol Utah is the right place.

You all realize this is not real right?

What the hell! This is just a bridesmaid, not even maid of honor or the bride! And she's taken it upon herself to tell others what the rules are???? Oh helllll no, that wouldn't fly with me or anyone I know. That's incredibly rude.

it sounds fake, some of the wording -"foul drinks" just sounds odd. but in any case, she is not the host, she cannot make the rules

This can't be real? Why did the bride allow herself to be bullied into inviting her to her wedding and bachelorette?????

I don’t believe one word of this.

I can't believe this is real.

HA she sounds like my overbearing dad. People like this need to chill out nobody likes them.

I am a Christian and love God very much but I would never act like this about someone else's life or bachelorette party. She sounds so incredibly immature.

I'm astounded at her insistence that the one girl leave her Adderall at home. Oh, my!

That bi#@h would have been uninvited so quickly her head would be spinning days later! Eee-gads, that chick has to be crazy!

This is a joke on all of us.

You can call me mean but i would drug her and enjoy the show! Let her ride mike's Tiger and all that s**t. Ppl with a rod uo their bum are usually going all nuts with only a sip of wine- repeting/explaining how drink they are.

I'd just say "... Oh honey, but in my family we f*****g worship Satan so God is not welcome on this drug-tequila-f**k-fest... Please bring all dead animals you can find. Also- I think Vegas is a great detox place for virgins. I was thinking male strippers, female strippers, how would you feel about a h%rse d%ck after the robbery when we head out into the desert.. Oh, and just so you know, there will be heroin in the wedding cake... Heil...""""

Wow, what a lunatic. Uninvited. Send order for 5150 .

I'd disinvite her and tell her to get some like minded friends because no one else is a bible thumping downer.

This headache could have been avoided by the bride sticking to her original decision to not invite Ms.Oblivious Control Freak in the first place: "Sorry, but all invitations have been issued and thanks for calling, bye" should have sufficed to all but the intentionally obtuse. Since that was not the case, message her and insist she forwards her credit card info to the hotel and every other venue on the brides "to do and go" list, with the explanation that if she is going to be running the show, she is going to be paying for it, and paying for it in full, as well. Don't concern yourself with embarrassing or hurting her feelings, she never took anyone else's into consideration and doesn't deserve the courtesy. Better to ruin her plans (and get her off her high horse) than to ruin the weekend for the bride and all 17 welcomed guests.

"Oh, did I say the party was in the beginning of May? My mistake; I meant the end of May! We'll meet you there..." (while she and her friends are driving home from Vegas)

Ha ha, I would break her rules! :D people got the right to choose what they want to do n have fun at their parties lol. I agree with Gareth, if the person wasn't invited, they should accept they were not invited.

Does she also want the brides blood soiled sheets to be paraded around publicly after the wedding night?

When I started reading, I thought that the bride has set some ridiculous rules. But why did a guest decide it was her place to make any rules for the party that not even hers?

I don’t know about you but I want her to go! They need to have a stripper over and go crazy.

I want to track this woman down and set her on fire, extinguish it with lemon juice then dump her in a vat of salt.

So person who is clearly not stable contacts the bride and throws a fit about not being invited tot he wedding...so then you invite her to the bachlorette IN VEGAS and then b***h about it online when she acts crazy.

I would have got everyone else to agree to say they didn't get the email. ignorance is bliss

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Thank Goodness female robbers don't exist:)

This is not real.

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i cant say that these rules were really all that bad. The "no liquor rule" was a bit extreme and none of the other guests should be told they were going to church but honestly..if it was ANY religion other than Christianity no one on this thread would be saying to uninvite them. If the girl were muslim all of you would be too scared to be called intolerant to speak negatively. Get a clue. Hypocrites!!

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Obviously this list of rules for a party that isn't even your own is ridiculous. But, at the same time, I feel really sorry for this girl! She obviously viewed herself as being a respected and valued member of the friend group, or she wouldn't have Sent the email in the first place. And then, the whole bunch of girls are completely disowning her, making her out to be a desperate hanger-on. So, her ex-friends come across as 'mean girls', while she just made a harmless faux pas.

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The first 4 were acceptable, assuming going to the church was optional. 5 seems like a lot of money per person for groceries. I wouldn't be surprised in the least if there were going to be other uses for that money. 6 would have been ok, if not for telling someone to leave their prescribed meds behind. Overall, these are not an “insane list.” Maybe a little uncalled for and extra, but not insane.