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Woman Who Was Invited To Bachelorette Party Out Of ‘Pity’ Sends Out List Of Insane Rules All Girls Must Follow
Woman Who Was Invited To Bachelorette Party Out Of ‘Pity’ Sends Out List Of Insane Rules All Girls Must Follow
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Woman Who Was Invited To Bachelorette Party Out Of ‘Pity’ Sends Out List Of Insane Rules All Girls Must Follow

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In reverse ‘Bridesmaids’ one bachelorette party guest is getting dragged on the internet for a list of ridiculously strict rules she created for the other attendees. Unlike Megan in everyone’s favorite hen party rom-com, she didn’t suggest the girls do anything as wild as start their own fight club, but the exact opposite. The party rules – sent out in an email – was instructions on how to keep the weekend as wholesome and frankly dull, as possible.

The screenshots were posted online and as you can imagine people were in shock at the militant-style instructions for a weekend in ‘Sin City.’ (Facebook cover image: Bob Dass)

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    Image credits: Viv Lynch (not the actual photo)

    The Vegas party story was initially posted by the user Ursula on Reddit. She explained that the buzzkill, ‘Taylor,’ hadn’t even been given her party invitation originally because she was such a “downer,” and because while they were sorority sisters in college, they had never actually been friends. According to the post, the bride, ‘Emma,’ was guilted into inviting her to the wedding and then the bachelorette celebrations.

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    Well, Emma found out the hard way just how big of a mistake it was to invite her sorority sister after all the girls on the guest list were emailed the following list of Christian life “moral codes” to uphold to “keep us all out of trouble” – because who would want that?

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    To keep everyone “aligned with the church,” she went ahead and did some research so the group could attend services after their trip in “Sin City.” While her list was designed to keep anyone from getting too crazy, she explained church would be “a nice way to cleanse us of our sins.” It’s hard to imagine there would be much sinning as the next part of the list clarified there would be no hard liquor, no sex in or around the suite, and of course no random men. In motherly fashion, she said she would provide groceries for the room so each girl should venmo her in advance to contribute. And in case you thought they would be consuming anything other than snacks, she gave a stringent no drugs policy, including Adderall.

    People in the comments agreed the list warranted an un-invite

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    Gareth Graham
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, this is why you don't cave to others for YOUR wedding, If they don;t like it they can f@@k off

    Mike Crow
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have said this was fake or a joke, except I knew people who were just like this.

    Carney
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why people who are strongly religious get a bad name! Before screaming at me...consider: you are free to believe what you wish to believe. You are free to worship (or not) as you see fit. I have utmost respect for diverse religious opinions and practice. I do not have any respect for those who automatically assume any of the following: that those who do not share your beliefs are morally, ethically inferior. That those of other faiths are doomed and will never be acceptable. That those who do not believe in any deity are "damaged;" "inferior;" or "ethically challenged." The idea that someone would force others to attend their church, worship in their manner or force their morality onto another person is insulting, arrogant and very, very wrong.

    Amberly Middlemiss
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    totally agree with this! As a strong christian and firm follower of Christ, I hold to many beliefs and moral rules, but i would NEVER try to force those on someone else who doesnt share my beliefs! By trying to control the group she gives christians a bad name.

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    Carol Emory
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And here is the fasted way to be uninvited to a wedding/bachelorette party.... Quite pompous of her if you ask me. I thought only the maid of honor laid down the ground rules for the bachelorette party with the bride being the only one with veto power.

    Remy Ellis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like Percy Weasley after he moved out of the Burrow and before the Battle of Hogwarts, expect 20x worse.

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    Yaz Cam
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm where is the response??? I’m dying to know the conclusion of this. Additionally, I believe I read they went to college together so, um I hate to be the one to break it to her but you’ve already been in “an environment with prevalent drinking”. You can’t make rules for a trip that 1. You weren’t even originally invited to 2. Did not plan/arrange/organize 3. Are so unreasonable that you shouldn’t even go

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fully agreed. And I really want to know how it continues, too. They could invite her but she'll probably throw a fit (again). Since she knows all their plans, is she going to stalk them if they uninvite her? Do they still have time (and money) to cancel all the plans and reservations and make new ones in order to avoid her? Or are they planning on simply ignoring her (it seems it didn't work so far)?

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    Elizabeth
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO ONE goes to Vegas to attend church!!!! I can't believe this girl, badgering her way into the wedding and bachelorette party then laying down insane rules. If they wanted a behaved bachelorette party they wouldn't be going to Vegas!

    Adam Cantor
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you're going to Vegas to get married at an Elvis themed Chapel...but then again, that's not really a "church"

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    Kusotare
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't doubt it's real, because I had the same thing happen. I was part of a bunch of guys from work who decided to take what we dubbed The Male Bondage Trip in an RV to California's north coast. We didn't have solid plans other than to play some golf and have a good time. One of the guys insisted that there be no drinking, drugs, or womanizing on the trip. The organizer basically told him that he wasn't going to impose any terms on anybody, and we were all expected to be responsible for ourselves. Mr. Puritan chose not to go. That was over 30 years ago, and we still talk about how great that trip was.

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    Gareth Graham
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, this is why you don't cave to others for YOUR wedding, If they don;t like it they can f@@k off

    Mike Crow
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have said this was fake or a joke, except I knew people who were just like this.

    Carney
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why people who are strongly religious get a bad name! Before screaming at me...consider: you are free to believe what you wish to believe. You are free to worship (or not) as you see fit. I have utmost respect for diverse religious opinions and practice. I do not have any respect for those who automatically assume any of the following: that those who do not share your beliefs are morally, ethically inferior. That those of other faiths are doomed and will never be acceptable. That those who do not believe in any deity are "damaged;" "inferior;" or "ethically challenged." The idea that someone would force others to attend their church, worship in their manner or force their morality onto another person is insulting, arrogant and very, very wrong.

    Amberly Middlemiss
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    totally agree with this! As a strong christian and firm follower of Christ, I hold to many beliefs and moral rules, but i would NEVER try to force those on someone else who doesnt share my beliefs! By trying to control the group she gives christians a bad name.

    Load More Replies...
    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And here is the fasted way to be uninvited to a wedding/bachelorette party.... Quite pompous of her if you ask me. I thought only the maid of honor laid down the ground rules for the bachelorette party with the bride being the only one with veto power.

    Remy Ellis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like Percy Weasley after he moved out of the Burrow and before the Battle of Hogwarts, expect 20x worse.

    Load More Replies...
    Yaz Cam
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm where is the response??? I’m dying to know the conclusion of this. Additionally, I believe I read they went to college together so, um I hate to be the one to break it to her but you’ve already been in “an environment with prevalent drinking”. You can’t make rules for a trip that 1. You weren’t even originally invited to 2. Did not plan/arrange/organize 3. Are so unreasonable that you shouldn’t even go

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fully agreed. And I really want to know how it continues, too. They could invite her but she'll probably throw a fit (again). Since she knows all their plans, is she going to stalk them if they uninvite her? Do they still have time (and money) to cancel all the plans and reservations and make new ones in order to avoid her? Or are they planning on simply ignoring her (it seems it didn't work so far)?

    Load More Replies...
    Elizabeth
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO ONE goes to Vegas to attend church!!!! I can't believe this girl, badgering her way into the wedding and bachelorette party then laying down insane rules. If they wanted a behaved bachelorette party they wouldn't be going to Vegas!

    Adam Cantor
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you're going to Vegas to get married at an Elvis themed Chapel...but then again, that's not really a "church"

    Load More Replies...
    Kusotare
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't doubt it's real, because I had the same thing happen. I was part of a bunch of guys from work who decided to take what we dubbed The Male Bondage Trip in an RV to California's north coast. We didn't have solid plans other than to play some golf and have a good time. One of the guys insisted that there be no drinking, drugs, or womanizing on the trip. The organizer basically told him that he wasn't going to impose any terms on anybody, and we were all expected to be responsible for ourselves. Mr. Puritan chose not to go. That was over 30 years ago, and we still talk about how great that trip was.

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