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“A Huge Tattoo On Her Chest”: Mom Left In Tears After Seeing MIL’s Gift To Baby
Close-up of a huge chest tattoo with floral and geometric designs on a woman wearing a magenta top and gold necklaces.

“A Huge Tattoo On Her Chest”: Mom Left In Tears After Seeing MIL’s Gift To Baby

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When a couple brings a new life into the world, it’s not just their lives that are forever changed, but even aunts, uncles, and grandparents now have someone new to love.

This excitement, however, can blur boundaries and make some people forget what’s appropriate.

How involved should relatives be in the baby’s life? Do they need to consult the parents before making any decision that might affect the child?

Below, you’ll find a story that was originally shared on Reddit by a woman who was frustrated with her mother-in-law’s new tattoo that featured her baby but was done without asking for permission first.

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    Woman with a huge tattoo on her chest wearing gold necklaces and a pink top, highlighting the large chest tattoo.

    Image credits: David Kouakou (not the actual photo)

    But when the surprise turned out to be a large tattoo, it didn’t go over very well with the family

    Text showing a woman questioning if she's wrong for disliking her mother-in-law's huge tattoo gift for the baby.

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    Text describing MIL's attention-seeking behavior during Christmas causing tension around a huge tattoo on her chest.

    Text message describing MIL insisting on spending Christmas Eve together to keep family united despite disagreements.

    Text about opening a significant envelope from MIL, with mom emotional over the tattoo gift for her baby.

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    Family decorating Christmas tree together, father holding baby, festive ornaments on green pine during holiday season.

    Image credits: Yan Krukau (not the actual photo)

    Text about a mother-in-law’s huge tattoo on her chest as a surprising gift for the new mom and baby.

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    Text describing a huge tattoo on a woman’s chest featuring a heart-shaped necklace, roses, and a baby’s name.

    Emotional reaction of new mom after seeing a huge tattoo on her chest caused by MIL’s unexpected gift to baby.

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    Text message from new mom explaining she can't get a huge tattoo on her chest due to breastfeeding, feeling upset about MIL's gift.

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    Mother sobbing and pleading to stay after a huge tattoo on her chest causes a dramatic scene with MIL's gift to baby.

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    oktopus
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From the title I thought the MIL had arranged a tattoo on the baby's chest.

    Nils Skirnir
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I despair even more for the future of sapiens sapiens after reading stuff like this. Just so many levels of wrong. Taste, jealousy, waste of money, narcissism on all sides, emotional immaturity, etc, etc, etc

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree, but to me this is very much a case of first-world problems. Nobody was hurt, and the baby is allowed to still be born in June, and still keep her name. Nobody took anything from anybody, nothing was stolen. Mom can still get a tattoo. MIL can still keep hers. At some point that child will decide that they hate their name (which is probably something like Tramberleigh), and go by their middle name, Beth, and both moms will have a tattoo that nobody wants or likes.

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    AndyR
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It not like MIL has a monopoly on tasteless tattoos.

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    oktopus
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From the title I thought the MIL had arranged a tattoo on the baby's chest.

    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I despair even more for the future of sapiens sapiens after reading stuff like this. Just so many levels of wrong. Taste, jealousy, waste of money, narcissism on all sides, emotional immaturity, etc, etc, etc

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree, but to me this is very much a case of first-world problems. Nobody was hurt, and the baby is allowed to still be born in June, and still keep her name. Nobody took anything from anybody, nothing was stolen. Mom can still get a tattoo. MIL can still keep hers. At some point that child will decide that they hate their name (which is probably something like Tramberleigh), and go by their middle name, Beth, and both moms will have a tattoo that nobody wants or likes.

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    AndyR
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It not like MIL has a monopoly on tasteless tattoos.

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