Magician Boyfriend Keeps Making Things Disappear, But One Final Trick Makes His Relationship Vanish

Dating someone with an unusual job comes with its own quirks. When your partner is a magician, you probably expect card tricks at dinner parties or the occasional bouquet appearing out of thin air. What you probably don’t expect is for the magic to follow you everywhere, including into the bedroom.

One woman found herself in exactly that situation. Her boyfriend of over a year kept pulling tricks she never asked for, and his latest stunt during an intimate moment left her horrified. Now, she’s wondering if it’s time to pull her own vanishing act and leave the relationship behind.

The woman was dating a magician who regularly pulled tricks throughout their relationship

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But when one of them made its way into the bedroom, it left her horrified

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Pranks only work when everyone involved finds them funny

Chances are, most of us have dealt with a person like the woman’s magician boyfriend at some point. They’re the type who loves cracking jokes or pulling pranks that only they find funny, while everyone else is just standing there wondering when it’ll end. 

And when you tell them their sense of humor has gone too far, they simply say they were kidding or accuse you of being too sensitive. No matter how clearly you explain your feelings, they refuse to listen. That is exactly what happened in this relationship.

In the beginning, the boyfriend’s tricks were mostly harmless, although they were still annoying. He would make the woman’s keys disappear when she needed to leave or hide the cleaning rag when she asked him to help around the apartment. Things became much more serious once he started bringing his “magic” into the bedroom, and not in a good way.

After the first trick made her uncomfortable, the woman asked him to stop. He respected her request for a few weeks, then pulled another stunt during an intimate moment. This time, he placed a magic prop inside her without telling her what he was doing.

She was horrified, while he found the whole thing hilarious. He continued treating it like a harmless prank and could not understand why she was so upset. At that point, the issue was no longer whether the trick was funny. She had clearly asked him not to do it again, and he chose to ignore her.

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According to Dr. Kathleen Pike, a professor of psychology at Columbia University, jokes and pranks can be great when they land well. They may help people bond and give them a funny memory to look back on together.

However, that only works when everyone involved is enjoying themselves. When one person is laughing while the other feels hurt, the prank has failed. Brushing off that reaction then gives the prankster an easy way to avoid responsibility. Suddenly, the problem becomes the other person’s response rather than the behavior that caused it.

It is certainly convenient for the prankster. They can argue that they never meant to hurt anyone, so they could not possibly have done anything wrong. But good intentions do not erase the effect their actions had.

Dr. Pike explains that some pranks can be forms of aggression or bullying disguised as harmless fun. The woman in this story made it clear several times that she was not amused. Her boyfriend kept going anyway and refused to take her feelings seriously.

Eventually, she decided that she had had enough and ended the relationship. A year later, she followed up to share that she was doing much better and felt happier without him. It seems that walking away was the right call after all.

How do you feel about this story? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

While readers acknowledged how absurd the situation sounded, they agreed that the boyfriend ignoring the woman’s boundaries was a major red flag

In a follow-up, the woman revealed that she had spoken with her boyfriend, but the conversation soon took a disturbing turn

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Readers were relieved to hear that she had ended the relationship

A year later, she shared another update on how life had been going since then

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This time, readers were happy to learn that she was doing well

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