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Woman Fractures Two Vertebrae, Parents Have One Response That Leaves Her Partner Furious

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There’s no such thing as a perfect parent but there are some non-negotiables for anyone raising kids. It goes without saying that parents should care for, care about and protect their children. And the caring part can’t stop once they leave home.

What was meant to be the beginning of an exciting, new chapter has turned into a nightmare for one woman. She and her partner had just bought their first home together when she fell down a flight of stairs and broke her back. The partner has told how her own family rushed through to help after the accident. But the badly injured woman’s parents seemingly couldn’t care less.

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    They’d just bought their first home together when she fell down a flight of stairs and broke her back

    Image credits: Anna Tolipova / Magnific (not the actual photo)

    Her partner’s family rushed to help after the accident but her own parents couldn’t care less

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    Image credits: DC Studio / Magnific (not the actual photo)

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    What it’s really like to break your back…

    Recovering from spinal fractures is no child’s play. It can take between six and twelve weeks for the bones (or bones) to heal but full recovery can take several months.

    Spinal fractures can be caused by trauma, like a car accident or falling down a flight of stairs, or by osteoporosis. Either way, it’s painful and you’ll likely have to spend a lot of your time resting.

    “Immediately following a vertebral fracture, pain can be intense and debilitating. This acute phase typically lasts from a few days to several weeks, depending on the severity of the fracture and the individual’s overall health,” explain the experts from the Atlanta Spine Institute. You’ll probably be given medications such as analgesics and anti-inflammatories to manage the pain.

    You might also need to wear a brace that holds your back in place until the fracture has healed. As you can imagine, wearing a brace will make it difficult to move as freely as you’re used to.

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    According to Atlanta Spine Clinic’s team, some people still experience residual pain or discomfort, even after the healing period. In these cases, physical therapy can help to strengthen the back and improve mobility, but they may have to make some changes to their lifestyle as as well, to be more comfortable.

    “Severe fractures — especially unstable fractures — can damage your spinal cord and affect your ability to stand or walk,” notes the Cleveland Clinic site. “This damage might be permanent and irreversible.”

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    GatorGran
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    12 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whether or not the parents approve of their relationship, their daughter is seriously injured! How can they say they love her and then not help? I couldn't stand by and let my child and their partner suffer. Love sometimes means putting your differences aside for the common good. Shame on them.

    Noe Pruitt
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    11 hours ago

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    My last salary was $8750, ecom only worked 12 hours a week. My longtime neighbor yr estimated $15,000 and works about 20 hours for seven days. I can't believe how blunt he was when I looked up his information, This is what I do..... 𝐉𝐨­𝐛­𝐀­𝐭­𝐇­𝐨­𝐦­𝐞­𝟏.𝐂­𝐨­𝐦

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    Kate Johnson
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    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The parents are toxic and must be cut off entirely. I would not want anything to do with them going forward. Just disgusting.

    HelyerT
    Community Member
    43 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow they sound like my parents. I had gall stones due to anorexia through their bullying and when I needed help they were like no we don’t have time. They are retired and just watch tv all all day. Needed them to look after cats for a few days as I was away. No. So had to get inlaws who live far away and in their eighties to do it. So unbelievably selfish. I don’t talk to them any more.

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    GatorGran
    Community Member
    12 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whether or not the parents approve of their relationship, their daughter is seriously injured! How can they say they love her and then not help? I couldn't stand by and let my child and their partner suffer. Love sometimes means putting your differences aside for the common good. Shame on them.

    Noe Pruitt
    Community Member
    11 hours ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    My last salary was $8750, ecom only worked 12 hours a week. My longtime neighbor yr estimated $15,000 and works about 20 hours for seven days. I can't believe how blunt he was when I looked up his information, This is what I do..... 𝐉𝐨­𝐛­𝐀­𝐭­𝐇­𝐨­𝐦­𝐞­𝟏.𝐂­𝐨­𝐦

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    Kate Johnson
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    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The parents are toxic and must be cut off entirely. I would not want anything to do with them going forward. Just disgusting.

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    HelyerT
    Community Member
    43 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow they sound like my parents. I had gall stones due to anorexia through their bullying and when I needed help they were like no we don’t have time. They are retired and just watch tv all all day. Needed them to look after cats for a few days as I was away. No. So had to get inlaws who live far away and in their eighties to do it. So unbelievably selfish. I don’t talk to them any more.

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