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Dating later in life brings its own unique challenges, the good news is that there are some 21st century solutions. The bad news is that these solutions are mostly limited to dating apps, for example, Tinder.

So if you were morbidly curious about what a dating app looks like in the forty-plus range, we’re here to satiate that feeling as we’ve gathered some of the best posts from the “40 and Dating” IG page. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own experiences in the comments section down below.

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#1

Wild Tinder bio stating current relationship status is eating dinner meant for two alone

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Mike F
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2 weeks ago

Goals

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    Tinder bio of 26-year-old bricklayer with mediocre guitar skills and mullet

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    Space Giraffe
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    2 weeks ago

    Now here's something we can work with!

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    #3

    Tinder bio describing bilingual computer builder with quirky personality

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    Dating apps feel like a permanent fixture of modern life now, but Tinder wasn't always the giant it is today. It started as a scrappy side project inside a startup incubator, and the road from there to becoming a verb in its own right is full of twists most swipers have no idea about.

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    The story begins in early 2012 at Hatch Labs, an incubator in West Hollywood owned by IAC. Sean Rad was actually there to build a different app entirely, something called Cardify. During an internal hackathon, he pitched an idea for a dating concept called Matchbox, built with engineer Joe Munoz. The name got scrapped fast once someone pointed out it sounded a little too close to Match.com, and by the time the app officially launched that fall, it had a new one.

    #4

    Funny Tinder chat highlighting preference for brainy girls

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    Ugh, do I have to?
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    2 weeks ago

    Adults are not supposed to date children because their brains aren't fully developed. I think the same logic applies here.

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    Wild Tinder bio describing an overweight, twice divorced father who loves karaoke

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    Space Invader
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    2 weeks ago

    Now kindly elucidate us as to why not one but two women saw fit to part ways with the kindest, funniest and [most, I assume] caring dude on the planet.

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    #6

    Funny Tinder bio about booking couples therapy on a first date

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    Mike F
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    2 weeks ago

    This one sounds funny.

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    What made Tinder different wasn't really the concept of online dating, since that had existed for a while already. It was the interface. Swiping right or left removed all the awkward decision making that came with older dating sites full of questionnaires and long profiles. You looked at a photo, you made a snap call, and you moved on.

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    Funny Tinder bio listing traits like frequent traveler, spider killer, and Uber rating

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    Julie S
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    2 weeks ago

    Did anyone else have to do a double take reading "slightly above average cook"?

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    Tinder bio stating worst idea ever had as too many to count

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    Tinder bio listing unusual skill as being the coolest guy ever ghosted

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    Rad has talked about this directly, describing the original problem as people either feeling like the hunter or the hunted, with way too much noise in between. The team also leaned hard into college campuses early on, hosting parties at places like USC where attendance required downloading the app, which sounds almost quaint compared to how apps market themselves now.

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    Weird Tinder bio describing unusual date ideas and travel plans

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    Tinder bio stating dating is like feeling the shirt as boyfriend material

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    Tinder bio about seeking someone to help with plants and pet hair management

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    It worked almost too well. By 2014 the app was reportedly processing around a billion swipes a day, and usage numbers just kept climbing from there. Tinder patented its double opt-in system, meaning two people had to like each other before any messaging could happen, which became one of its defining and most copied features.

    #13

    Tinder bio about showing up with ice bags at parties for making sno-cones

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    Mike F
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    2 weeks ago

    I've never been to a party that didn't run out of ice at least once.

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    #14

    Tinder bio looking for someone to avoid people with

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    Gingersnap In Iowa
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    2 weeks ago

    I think I have found my soul mate.

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    Tinder bio about cooking, kindness, and personality traits with height and zodiac basics

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    Adam Zad
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    *acts

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    Of course, no origin story this big stays clean forever. In 2014, Whitney Wolfe, an early Tinder employee and one of its co-founders, left the company and filed a lawsuit alleging harassment and discrimination, a case that was eventually settled, according to reporting from Bloomberg. She went on to start a little app called Bumble, which flipped the format by having women send the first message. Tinder and Bumble have had a genuinely complicated relationship ever since, including a patent lawsuit Tinder's parent company later filed against Bumble over the swiping mechanic itself.

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    #16

    Tinder bio stating a vacation isn't real without starting with an airport beer

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    Doug Moyer
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    2 weeks ago

    It's not a business trip either... I might drink too many beers...

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    Tinder bio looking for kind, funny, and preferably felony-free partner

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    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Does "funny-looking" count?

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    #18

    Funny Tinder bio about catching things that fall from a cabinet to impress ladies

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    #19

    Tinder bio obsessing over invasive plants and yard removal advice

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    David Paterson
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    2 weeks ago

    Works for a pesticide company. Beware of accidental poisoning.

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    #20

    Weird Tinder bio mantra about not sweating petty things or petting sweaty things

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Poor advice

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    #21

    Funny Tinder bio suggesting a perfect first date is to fight another couple

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    Vexed Panda
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    2 weeks ago

    NGL...this made me snort so loudly a stranger just gave me a sneeze blessing!

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    Behind the scenes, ownership stayed with IAC through its subsidiary Match Group, which eventually spun off as its own publicly traded company and folded Tinder in alongside brands like Match.com, OkCupid, and Hinge. As the user base exploded, so did the monetization. Super Like arrived in 2015, letting people signal extra interest before a match even happened.

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    #22

    Humorous Tinder bio about women with zero sense of direction being fun

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    Vexed Panda
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    2 weeks ago

    I once got lost on the way to work...at a job I'd had for 3 years.

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    #23

    Tinder bio bragging about skill in scoring against oneself in air hockey

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    darknut
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    2 weeks ago

    I read that as scorning myself. I was like ah! My kindred spirit

    #24

    Tinder bio describing relationship cycle of travel, love, breakups, and reunion

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Same Time Next Year vibes.

    Tinder Gold followed a couple years later with perks like seeing who already liked you, and Tinder Boost promised your profile a temporary spotlight for a fee. There was even a strange and fun detour into original content with Swipe Night in 2019, an interactive choose your own adventure style video series baked directly into the app.

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    #25

    Funny Tinder bio hoping to find someone smarter or funnier with personal details

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Can we just go with kinder than me and more energetic than me? That's more easily attainable.

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    #26

    Tinder bio sharing a fun fact about cows having best friends and finding a cow

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    BarkingSquirell
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago (edited)

    Like it. I'm in the mooood for love.

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    #27

    Tinder bio about wanting trust and respect in relationships and men's early mistakes

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    These days Tinder looks a little different than the campus hookup app it started as. Its core user base has aged up over the years, and a growing share of people using it now are well past their early twenties, some navigating divorce, some just tired of meeting people the old fashioned way, all of them discovering that the swipe hasn't gotten any less chaotic with time. Which, honestly, brings us right back to why you're here.

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    #28

    Quickest way to heart is a bilateral incision on sternum Tinder bio

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    This person is only pretending to know anatomy. That method is wrong.

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    #29

    Tinder bio mentioning love for Phil Collins song and personal basics listed

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago (edited)

    Ah, that was the incidental music to me falling for Mr Auntriarch

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    #30

    Weird Tinder bio seeking a big ol' idiot

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    Below is a collection of the funniest, most relatable, and occasionally unhinged posts and bios from people doing exactly that in their forties and beyond, proving that the app may have changed a lot since that hackathon in 2012, but the universal experience of dating is still just as weird as ever.

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    #31

    Funny Tinder bio about life rules and pancakes with graduate degree icons

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Ok now this one sounds ok 👍an optimist and loves pancakes .

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    #32

    Weird Tinder bio hallmark of a good relationship is meowing back

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    Billo66
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    2 weeks ago

    Can I just sneeze like a dog to show submission?

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    #33

    Tinder bio explaining all ducks are birds but not all birds are ducks as a reminder

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    #34

    After work crying in the shower eating Oreos Tinder bio

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    #35

    Tinder bio expressing desire to find a wealthy hotel heiress

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    Did I say that out loud?
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    2 weeks ago

    Do you like making videos?

    #36

    Funny Tinder bio about being a good speller with intentional mistakes

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    And a believer in spelling reform, too, I see.

    #37

    Weird Tinder bio stating online dating is a joke

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    #38

    Tinder bio showing attraction to thick thighs soft skin and feet

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    #39

    Tinder bio looking for someone to ruin their life in new way

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    Weird Tinder bio claiming woman are right 99.9 percent of the time

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Ah, you've not met the pinnacle of perfection that is my mother

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    #41

    Weird Tinder bio expressing love for actual roller coasters

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    nottheactualphoto
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    One word: Cyclone

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    #42

    Wild and weird Tinder bio about finding someone who looks fire tonight

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Wasn't that Garfield's teddy?

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    #43

    Tinder bio about no red flags, only fun facts from therapy

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    PMSL.

    #44

    Wild Tinder bio describing a perfect first date at free places like library or gym

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    nottheactualphoto
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Which gym is free?

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    #45

    Funny Tinder bio with math pun complimenting someone as a 10

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    A ten! Is that age or IQ?

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    #46

    Unique Tinder bio from an Army vet and new dad with various interests

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Questions ok here’s one can i have your bully plz, ❤️if it’s a pibble, I,ll just call it a staffie cross to get past the uk ban 😋

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    #47

    Quirky Tinder bio about shower thoughts and turning the shower on

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    Billo66
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    2 weeks ago

    But not always..

    #48

    Weird Tinder bio about being broke, cooking, and height requirements

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    "forklift certified", I love it.

    #49

    Tinder bio stating never to do too much acid in a national park

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    UnclePanda
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    2 weeks ago (edited)

    Park rangers can put a buzzkill to a day trip like few others.

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    #50

    Tinder bio describing qualities to win them over with kindness and authenticity

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    Crystalwitch60
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    2 weeks ago

    someone ate a dictionary for breakfast didn’t he 🙈

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    #51

    Tinder bio with humorous quotes from different perspectives including cellmate and Col. Sanders

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    Tinder bio mentioning love for animals and true crime shows with personal basics details

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    Bored Birgit
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Where can I subscribe? Animals and true crime shows are my life.

    #53

    Weird Tinder bio trick advising to hold phone upside down before swiping left

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    #54

    Controversial Tinder bio joking that Waldo is an escaped convict with stripes to avoid capture

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    #55

    Tinder bio comparing dating to upgrading to first class with better views

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    Auntriarch
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    2 weeks ago

    I tried to turn this one into me, but all I came up with was "squishy cushions, better food, and first into the ground"

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    Tinder bio seeking short-term fun admitting to being tall and lonely

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    #57

    Poetic Tinder bio about heartache and longing for love

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    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    "I want to know what love is..."

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    #58

    Tinder bio expressing desire to remember one coffee order in life

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    BarkingSquirell
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Does anyone know what INFP means?

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    #59

    Weird Tinder bio about a dog french kissing and mouthwash

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    Doug Moyer
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    2 weeks ago

    One of my dogs tries to lick my brain via my nostril. She's very sneaky about it. Super annoying...

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    Funny Tinder bio about asking out by keying phone number into car

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    Tinder bio stating height as 5'9 and confidence as 6'4

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    #62

    Weirdest gift story with size 2X tighty whities in Tinder bios

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    #63

    Irrational fear of women with butterfly tattoos in wild weird Tinder bios

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    David Paterson
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    2 weeks ago

    Papillon, the serial killer, was so called because he had a butterfly tattoo. Be afraid. Be very afraid.

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    #64

    Tinder bio about office donut etiquette and taking whole donuts

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    Billo66
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    2 weeks ago

    Donut holes are the answer.

    #65

    Funny Tinder bio about Lightning McQueen and insurance types

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    David Paterson
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    2 weeks ago

    High risk job. No insurance company would touch it.

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    #66

    Tinder bio comparing dating to getting a new prescription of Prozac

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    #67

    Wild Tinder bios mentioning milfs and cougars with emoji

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    Tinder bio listing three qualities for a great relationship

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    Doug Moyer
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    2 weeks ago

    That last line isn't at all creepy...

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    Tinder bio seeking playful friend interested in texting and role play

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    Mike F
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    2 weeks ago

    Incel? Incel.

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    #70

    Wild and weird Tinder bio with personality and sports interests in spades

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    David Paterson
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    2 weeks ago

    Doggerel looking for a dog.

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    #71

    Tinder bio comparing dating to getting a whole cake on your plate

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    Funny Tinder bio challenging to get blocked

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    Tinder bio expressing preference for girls with zero sense of direction

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    #74

    Tinder bio highlighting sincerity and support for environmentalism and trans rights

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    David Paterson
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    2 weeks ago

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    "Trans rights", could be a red flag?

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    #75

    Tinder profile looking for someone while mentioning financial and emotional impact and dogs

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    Did I say that out loud?
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    2 weeks ago

    I'm sure there are sites dedicated to being a sugar daddy or pay pig.

    #76

    Wild Tinder bio about being both feared and loved

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    Tinder bio with controversial and offensive statements about dating preferences and intelligence

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    nottheactualphoto
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    2 weeks ago

    Obviously OP doesn't have a functional brain.

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    #78

    Tinder bio listing unusual skills in communication honesty and monogamy

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    #79

    Tinder bio mentioning Bob Ross and looking for mini golf partners and photo adventures

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    Tinder bio stating belief women should be poolside at country club and men at work

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    Otto Katz
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    2 weeks ago

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