With mainstream media primarily highlighting unpleasant events worldwide, it’s always refreshing to hear about acts of kindness towards another human being. Sadly, these behaviors don’t get as much attention as they should.
Thankfully, the Chaotic Good subreddit is changing that. This online group shares good intentions manifested through unorthodox methods, to say the least.
Here, you’ll see people stealing to provide for someone who can’t afford groceries, passing gas alongside someone so they won’t feel embarrassed, and drunkenly painting a crosswalk on a dangerous street.
Scroll through and have a few feel-good moments today. Hopefully, this list will show you that despite all the negativity, there is still some good in this world.
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It Cost Zero Dollars To Mind Your Own Business
I'm a big guy. I buy nice clothes, but sometimes they don't fit, or I don't like them after I order them. You know what I do? I donate them. I was really, really poor for years, and it was very difficult to find clothes in my size at thrift stores and clothing rooms. So it's my way of helping out other dudes who may be big and poor and want to look nice. I also donate shoes and cologne sometimes. I was blessed when I needed help so I pay it forward.
I volunteer at a food bank from time to time, and people sometimes drive up in nice-looking cars or SUVs. I don't judge. Maybe they. bought those vehicles before they got into financial straits, or maybe the owner of the car is picking up food boxes for someone who doesn't have a car.
You're one really bad year from being in the same place. If that moment comes you won't be throwing out you cloths just to fit the ideals of others.
You might even be one really bad month from being there. Or less.
Load More Replies...Heck yeah Jenni! I specifically donated my old work clothes were in real nice condition for less fortunate people to be able to have, since now I work where I can wear t-shirts and jeans. I wasn't always as well off as I am now, and passing kindness on to strangers is one way I thank those that showed kindness to me when I needed it.
I'm a retired RN , and right now I need extra help due to stage 4 breast cancer that has pretty much spread throughout my body. Sometimes ( I use a walker) but my clothes are not rags either, and sometimes at the grocery store I feel like I'm being watched or judged.
A guy a knew was living in his 2006 Porsche Cayenne. It's all he had left after the crash
Ronald Reagan was very instrumental in the US for shaming people who are getting help, he invented the welfare queen stories portraying black women as lazy a*s cheaters reproducing just to get free food, vilifying anyone who took aid. He did so much to damage and cause rifts in USA than anyone had done to date. His lies still permeate society today
Thanks to donations I was able to wear good quality and even name brand clothes when I was homeless. And yes, I panhandled or (spanged) for a couple years. I began my journey to recovery from chronic homelessness in 2015 and have experienced some home insecurity, but kept a roof over my head. Today I have a secure permanent home and some of the clothes I acquired in those street years. It was the small gestures and kindness of strangers that impacted my life enough to change. God wants us to care for each other. Even those who don't deserve it at the time. It is not for us to judge or assume we know. I was a wonderful woman who did terrible things to survive.
It's funny how people batch about someone getting help with food. The U.S. government gives welfare [subsidies] to farmers big oil and anyone who gets funding for college. But no one complains about it.
I left my husband and moved to a tough neighborhood in DC. There wasn't enough room for my things. I handed out the extras to neighbors. One woman told me someone tried to buy the handbag I gave for $20. She said she knew i had nice things and it was worth more than $20! She proudly refused! She said it felt awesome. Medical clinics for the poor don't have any reading material. I gave my old magazines and some paperback books. They said people were excited to share with family and friends. Everything was gone in a day. How many people benefited? Lots. Old magazines. Things we don't want/need anymore make a difference to others. Try to find new homes for your old things.
When I was young and very poor, I used to get clothes at goodwill or salvation army or the 2nd hand store. I could sometimes find GOOD used clothes, much better quality than if I bought new. I bought a green pinstripe 3-piece wool suit that I wore for many years. I was so sad when it finally gave up.
Exactly. I've been far too close to becoming the person picking through trash to find deposit bottles to assume anything about other people's financial situation based on their clothing
Can't emphasis this enough. Most of the clothing I've purchased over the years at thrift shops were high-quality, designer fashions, far too expensive for my budget had I purchased them at retail stores. Not saying there isn't fraud with SNAP and other federal welfare benefits, but don't base it on appearance.
My nice wore brand-name, high quality clothes through high school. Not because we could afford them, but because I had a lovely coworker in her 20's who was the same size & very trendy, and she constantly gave my niece clothes...and shoes, purses, etc.... that she "was tired of" or "they didn't fit" or etc. She understood how hard it was to be a poor girl in high school & wanted to help.
Right on! Some elderly folks are having trouble paying bills, so they're applying for CalFresh or Snap. They may be well dressed because that's how they were raised. They might have had that outfit for 15 years.
I've had some carers in the past tell me that I have a lot of clothes. I have a small double wardrobe and a chest of drawers with some empty drawers in them. Many of my clothes are over a decade old. Some are three decades old. I repair them. I dye them. They were all second hand in the first place. I don't have holidays or breaks or eat out or get take aways. It's Also none of their bloody business 😠
Many years ago, I read a booklet on New England frugality- a young boy asked his mother why a man was wearing fancy business attire to do a dirty job like digging for clams- the mother explained that the man had lost virtually everything in the market crash that led to the Great Depression, and those fancy suits were literally the only clothes he had to wear...
I worked in retail for years- women’s apparel Over the years I built up a pretty nice wardrobe. Now that I’m retired, I don’t dress up much so I donated to Dress for Success. It helps women find a decent working wardrobe
I have a couple outfits which are of brand name. My mom buys designer items on super sale and sends to my kids. Like heavy coats, shoes, holiday dresses etc. I try to donate all extra nice or brand named clothes direct to shelters. I hate the thought of a some thrift store/op shop putting a huge markup on it. Sometimes we need something that makes us feel nice, especially those who are super down on their luck. In writing this I feel I should donate more brand new items this year.
I don't judge folks who wear nice clothes. I do judge people who pay with the SNAP card and then whip out the $100 bill to pay for the booze and cigs... Doesn't happen all the time but I have seen it a couple times.
Dolce and Banana remains my favourite fake, as seen in Egypt. 🤣
Load More Replies...But when you follow them out of the store, or over to where they parked before they started panhandling, and they drive away in a better car than you own, it’s a good bet they are ripping stupid people off. Why don’t YOU refrain from making the judgement that others have not done their homework and know what they are talking about.
What A Great Idea From Thier Parents!
I Love It When We Rise Up Together To Destroy The Patriarchy ✊
While it may sometimes feel like there is too much hate going around, kindness is an innate human trait. As University of Oxford researcher Dr. Oliver Scott Curry explained in an interview with CBS, it’s because “we are social animals.”
University of London psychologist Anat Bardi provided some survey results to the publication. According to the findings, people valued benevolence or kindness the most, edging out hedonism, creativity, ambition, seeking power, and having an exciting life.
A Very Effective Method Indeed
Stealing A Persons Dog So It Can Actually Live
Saving Students Money
Acts of kindness are also reasonably common, even if people don’t feel that way most of the time. In 2021, the BBC launched a “Kindness Test,” which more than 60,000 people from 144 countries joined, making it the world’s largest psychological study on the topic.
Survey results showed that 16% of people had received an act of kindness within the hour prior. 43% claimed they had experienced it within the previous day.
He Didn't Look For Any Profit, He Just Wanted To Save Lives! A True Hero!
Wasn’t this the original goal with insulin too? Where the hell did that go wrong?
Candy Acid: Drag Queen, Dungeon Master, Orno-Enthusiast, Life Saver
Don't know why people get so bent out of shape about drag queens and children. Every drag queen I've ever known has been very protective and nurturing towards children. The Queens know what it is like try find your voice and flourish in a society that often pushes for conformity.
Madlad Paints His House
However, the Kindness Test revealed the barriers that hinder people from showing goodwill toward others. Some are apprehensive about the possibility of embarrassment or rejection.
Personality may also play a role. The test revealed that the kindest people scored high on “agreeableness,” extroversion, and openness. This could mean that outgoing people are likely less concerned about rejection, making them more likely to buy a warm meal for someone in need, for example.
Civil Disobedience For The Greater Good
Saw This And Thought It Belonged Here
Similar thing happened when I was in Paris around 2000. Ticket office staff for the metro were on strike, but drivers weren't, so the trains ran but no one paid to get on them!
Emotional Support
Those who aren’t as automatically willing to commit an act of kindness are also likely plagued by “miscalibrated expectations.” Amit Kumar, an assistant professor at The University of Texas at Austin, conducted a study in 2022 where 75 out of 84 participants gave a cup of hot chocolate to a stranger.
The research participants also underestimated the significance of their act, expecting the recipients’ moods to be an average of 2.7 out of 5. However, the recipients reported feeling much better, with a 3.5 out of 5 mood.
Sax Away The Hate
Tennessee Trans Woman Goes Topless For The Greater Good. I Thought This Belonged Here
With Great Ability, Comes Great Accountability
Kumar believes that the participants weren’t fully aware of the impact their seemingly small acts of kindness had on the person. They also failed to realize that generosity can be contagious, and there’s a good chance for the receivers to pay it forward in the future.
“The fact that you’re being nice to others adds a lot of value beyond whatever the thing is,” Kumar told Technology Networks.
Old School Mad Lad
Cecil J. Williams, 1956. Photo taken by a friend of the photographer while he posed, during a road trip in South Carolina. He traveled the South of the US to document segregation and discrimination, including coverage of the desegregation of public schools and violence against black protesters, becoming a close friend with JFK in the process. He is still alive and 86 years old.
Gotta Love Drunk Idiots Sometimes
When I was at school the bus stop where I and a school mate caught the morning bus was suspended due to road works and temporarily replaced with a sign on a concrete block. Coming back from school one day we moved the temporary sign about 100 yards down the road so we didn't have to walk so far in the morning. When the works were finished they reinstated the bus stop WHERE WE HAD MOVED IT TO! It's still in the same spot decades later. I went on to become a Civil Engineer, designing and building roads!
Chaotic Good Boy
*Sitting watching tv, minding my own business*. *Lights go off, doggo walks in carrying food from pantry, places it on my lap then sits next to me*: You're.The.Best.Fecking.Dog.EVER!
What makes an act of kindness more meaningful is that it comes from the heart, no matter how small. And you may not realize how helpful these gestures can be.
One blood donation, for example, can help save up to three lives. Giving a random stranger a few genuine words of encouragement can help turn their day around in a massive way.
Who’s Coming With Me?
Standing Up For An Older Fellow
"Recently went camping at a very busy RV park. Our camper didn't have a toilet or shower, so we were reliant on the bathroom on site. The first night we were there I met a super cool older fellow that had some stomach issues (who didn't have his own restroom either). He was frantically trying to get the door open, but the keypad entry was broken. Thankfully I had my pocket knife and jimmied the door for him.
After I took a nice shower I rode my bike to find maintenance to repair the door. The gentleman couldn't get the door open themselves and swore they would fix it.
Later that evening the door was still broken. So, to help my little buddy out, I taped the latch so he could get in as he needed (frequently). I wrote on the tape, as not to ruin the door, "please don't remove the tape, some of us rely on this restroom". You can see the residue of the tape still left from their shoddy removal.
Next morning the tape was gone and the lock still broken. At that point, it was apparent that they didn't care about the people camping there, so I removed the broken handle, and deposited the parts in six cans across the campground.
Needless to say the next day the doorknob was replaced with a functional unit and the marker removed. The older fellow was so happy he gave me some limes his daughter grew. Made a hell of a beverage later that day."
Pro-tip: on almost any BP post you can click the attribution link at the bottom left (in this case "ChonkyChoad") and it will take you to the original Reddit / Facebook post so you can gleam more context: https://www.reddit.com/r/chaoticgood/comments/18c7l7m/standing_up_for_an_older_fellow/
Beautiful
We’d also like to hear from you, readers. Have you done anything recently that may have seemed out of left field but was actually altruistic in nature? How did that turn out? Share your stories in the comments!
What A Lovely Idea! I'd Say This Makes A Massive Difference To People Who Have Been Feeling Lonely
The point is to borrow a person that is different to yourself. If you want to know about being gay, or Christian, or Muslim, or transgender you can borrow someone who is that and they will tell you about it, I think it is a brilliant idea, as the internet cannot interact in the same way.
F**k The System
I am so happy you did this. It upsets me that instead of helping the people read they wouldn't let them go someplace fun. So instead of fixing the problem they were making people feel bad for having the problem.
Satisfying!!
Beating Capitalists At Their Own Game
For The Greater Good Of The Plants!
OMG this is amazing. LOL. Maybe she could post an anonymous sign with tomato growing/caretaking instructions. Also, I do the same thing with my bee balm (also called wild bergamot) whenever I water it. I just rub a leaf between my fingers and smell it. SO GOOD.
Cg Superintendent vs. Le Healthcare System
Chad Dad
This Should Be Here
If you can find the jack. Never mind that most places actually have the TV sound wired into the sound system already.
Lovely Idea!
Elevated Wholesomeness: A Self-Quoted Perspective
The Samuel Alito's Mom's Satanic Abortion Clinic
free religious reproductive healthcare? Did they mean to write 'religious-free reproductive healthcare' ?
Good Job
The Perfect Opportunity Presented Itself Yesterday
Dismantling Gender Stereotypes, Chaotically
As a female gamer I can confirm, and I don't even sound like a little girl I just sound like a grown woman but they can't handle a woman being good at gaming or gaming at all some of them..
There Are Still Good People In This World
Banned Books Are The Best Reads
"Moms for Liberty" is a Republican Conservative organization that started as a group fighting against COVID prevention measures, and later expanded their scope into campaigning against LGBT rights, racial equality, inclusion initiatives, vaccine mandates, freedom of religion and education. They have been proven to have financial ties with the republican parties and the "Proud Boys" neofascist organization. They themselves have been branded an "extremist far-right organization" by several independent advisory groups, and their methods include astroturfing campaigns, direct harassment of teachers and public servants, legal and personal threats, bounties to encourage violence or further harassing of teachers and even openly encouraging shooting liberal teachers.
Chaotic Firefolk
Hidden Shrine…
F**k The Pointless Bud Light Hate
I don't know what the controversy around Bud Light it, but it's appalling tasting "beer" regardless. Why is American beer like having sex in a canoe? Because they're both f*****g close to water.
Cc'd Everybody Up In Here
I have a feeling your apartment building is going to be shut down or at least heavily fined.
Clever
”(– –) You Are Hereby Banished From The Homelands Of The Oglala Sioux Tribe!”
Not that she gives a rat's a*s about the conditions/problems in those reservations, let alone even bother showing up to pretend she does, but it's the thought that counts. Edit: forgot a word 🤦♂️
Chaotic Good
F**k Litterbugs, All My Homies Hate Litterbugs
Why Do The Older Generations Have This Mindset?
Trying to make my young coworkers understand that they still have to do the less fun parts of the job...
The Beatings Will Continue Until Morale Is Improved
I might be in love with the person responsible for the second sign.
I Saw This On Twitter Today
Whatifclientsknowhowtoinspect
Row Row, Fight The Power
Don’t Break The Rules, Unless The Rules Are Dumb
The last large can of GENERIC formula I purchased cost me more than $40 at the cheapest place I could find! It was only 6 months ago. Disgraceful!
True Chad Spirit
Anarchist Louise Michel, About Her Republican Days:
And "Republican" in France at the time did NOT mean the same as in the US now, if anyone wonders.
Slpt: Free References On Your Job
Yes there is? Well at least in the UK. It’s called Obtaining a Pecuniary Advantage by Deception under the Fraud Act. So you get a financial reward for lying, which is why you shouldn’t lie to get a job.
Unbalanced
If our Laws properly reflected Goodness, there'd be no need for Chaotic Good.
My "faith in humanity" at my last save was 0, BP, so if you restore it it's still 0.
My daughter almost 10yrs ago went through 2-3 tins per week and they would cost me $30-$40 per tin. I had tried 4 different brands/types as she struggled to feed.
I lived on a farm in a small rural town with one K-12 school. There was competition where which ever students raised the most money would be crowned King and Queen or some bs like that. There was this one kid from an extremely poor farming family, Bobby. He came to school dirty in baggy clothes, had little black rings around his nostrils because his family burned coal for heat. It broke my heart. When I learned of this contest, nominated him and wrote a check big fat check, bought him new clothes and a suit when he became King!! My kids were so happy for him but the whole town hated me
If our Laws properly reflected Goodness, there'd be no need for Chaotic Good.
My "faith in humanity" at my last save was 0, BP, so if you restore it it's still 0.
My daughter almost 10yrs ago went through 2-3 tins per week and they would cost me $30-$40 per tin. I had tried 4 different brands/types as she struggled to feed.
I lived on a farm in a small rural town with one K-12 school. There was competition where which ever students raised the most money would be crowned King and Queen or some bs like that. There was this one kid from an extremely poor farming family, Bobby. He came to school dirty in baggy clothes, had little black rings around his nostrils because his family burned coal for heat. It broke my heart. When I learned of this contest, nominated him and wrote a check big fat check, bought him new clothes and a suit when he became King!! My kids were so happy for him but the whole town hated me
