Woman Fabricates Evidence Of Cheating To Convince Friend To Dump Boyfriend, Plan Backfires

If a friend tells you your partner is cheating, that’s usually the kind of comment that can send you into instant panic. But this Redditor didn’t believe it for a second.

Instead, she grew more and more annoyed with her roommate, who couldn’t stop “joking” that her long-distance boyfriend had a side chick in his new city. And when she didn’t bite, the roommate escalated, coming back with supposed “proof” and treating it like a personal mission to expose him. The woman shut it down every time, because none of it added up.

Eventually, the truth did come out, just not the one her roommate was trying to sell. Read the full story below.

As soon as the woman went long distance with her boyfriend, her friend insisted he was cheating on her

Two women in a heated discussion indoors, illustrating tension around fabricating cheating evidence and friendship conflict.

Image credits: YuriArcursPeopleimages / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

She refused to believe it, but the friend just wouldn’t let it go

Woman fabricates evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, but plan unexpectedly backfires.

Text excerpt about a woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince her friend to dump boyfriend, plan backfires.

Text detailing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince her friend to dump her boyfriend, but the plan backfires.

Text excerpt about woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, plan backfires.

Two women looking at a phone with shocked expressions, depicting fabricated evidence of cheating and relationship drama.

Image credits: YuriArcursPeopleimages / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

Screenshot of text explaining investigation of a fake account related to cheating evidence fabrication plan backfiring.

Text conversation displaying a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince her friend to dump her boyfriend.

Text message conversation describing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince friend to dump boyfriend.

Text excerpt about a woman discussing relationship privacy and accusations of cheating by a friend trying to manipulate her.

Young woman worried and stressed, holding her head, symbolizing emotional distress from fabricated cheating evidence.

Image credits: Iakobchuk / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

Woman fabricates evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, plan backfires in friendship conflict discussion.

Text on a white background discussing a friend fabricating evidence of cheating to convince someone to dump their boyfriend.

Image credits: FriendConflict54

Why people cheat and what happens when trust gets broken

Image credits: africaimages / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

Cheating is more common than many people realize. Some research suggests that around 20% to 40% of long-term relationships deal with infidelity at some point, though the exact number depends on what people count as cheating, and whether it’s physical, emotional, or both. Either way, it’s a reality that affects millions of couples, and it can leave a lot of damage behind once trust is broken.

Why do people actually cheat though? It can be easy to point to an unhappy relationship or lack of intimacy as the culprit. But experts say it’s often more layered than that. Moshe Ratson, a psychotherapist and executive, explains that some people in genuinely happy relationships still end up cheating on their partners.

Sometimes the cheating stems from personal struggles like low self-esteem or lack of emotional control. The increased temptations in today’s world, especially with technology making connections easier than ever, can lead to opportunistic moments that spiral out of control.

Other times, people cheat because they’re seeking something their relationship can’t provide, like novelty or excitement, even when they still love their partner and want to stay with them.

Who knows what was really driving the roommate in this story, but the way she deceived everyone at every turn makes it hard to pin down a single reason. It just shows that the motivations behind infidelity can be as complicated as the situations themselves.

Finding out about a partner’s infidelity is, of course, incredibly painful. In that light, it’s easy to understand why the roommate’s boyfriend reacted with so much anger. Research shows that betrayed partners often experience symptoms similar to post-traumatic stress disorder, including intrusive thoughts that won’t quit and constant emotional numbness.

Trust, once shattered, doesn’t rebuild easily. Many people find themselves constantly questioning their partner’s whereabouts or interpreting innocent actions as suspicious.

On top of the immediate emotional pain, cheating can have a lasting impact on how people view relationships for years down the line. Some carry trust issues into future partnerships, pushing away healthy connections because they’re waiting for betrayal to happen again. Others become hyperaware of potential warning signs, sometimes to the point where they’re seeing threats that don’t actually exist.

The psychological toll extends to self-worth too. Betrayed partners often blame themselves, wondering what they lacked or what they should have done differently. The hard truth is that the cheating usually had nothing to do with their worth as a partner.

Here’s the good news: despite the damage, recovery is genuinely possible. Some couples who’ve experienced infidelity can even stay together and rebuild what they had. But for that to work, there needs to be complete transparency from the person who cheated. That means answering difficult questions and accepting responsibility without making excuses. And it often involves professional counseling to help navigate the complex emotions involved.

For those who choose to leave, healing starts with rebuilding trust in yourself first. Therapy can help process what happened and develop healthier patterns for future relationships. Time does help, though everyone’s timeline looks different. Finding supportive friends who respect your boundaries rather than stirring up more drama makes a real difference during recovery.

The key to moving forward, whether you stay or go, is recognizing that someone else’s decision to cheat reflects their character, not your value. Betrayal hurts deeply and recovery takes genuine effort, but it doesn’t have to cast a shadow over every relationship that comes after.

In the comments, readers came through with theories about why she might be acting that way, and plenty of advice on how to handle it

Online forum discussion showing a woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, plan backfires.

Forum comment discussing a woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince her friend to dump boyfriend.

Screenshot of an online discussion where a woman fabricates evidence of cheating to convince her friend to end the relationship.

Commenter warns about drama and fabricated cheating evidence causing friendship and relationship issues.

Text excerpt discussing woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince friend, highlighting the plan backfiring and emotional drama involved.

Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing fabricated cheating evidence and complicated friendship dynamics in a roommate situation.

Screenshot of a comment discussing fabricated evidence of cheating used to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend.

Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing relationship boundaries and fabricating evidence of cheating to convince a friend.

Screenshot of a Reddit comment describing a woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend.

alt text: Digital comment warning about fabricated cheating evidence used to convince a friend to dump boyfriend and the plan backfiring.

Screenshot of an online comment discussing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend.

Comment discussing a woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince her friend to end a relationship.

Woman fabricates cheating evidence to convince friend to dump boyfriend, but the plan backfires and causes distrust.

Comment on a forum post questioning if a woman fabricated cheating evidence to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend.

Screenshot of a forum comment explaining how true friends don’t try to destroy relationships or fabricate cheating evidence.

Screenshot of online comment discussing a woman who fabricates evidence of cheating to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend.

Screenshot of a Reddit comment describing a dramatic situation where fabricated cheating evidence backfires between friends.

Text post describing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince her friend to dump boyfriend, leading to fallout.

Text conversation showing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince friend to dump boyfriend, plan backfires.

Comment warning someone to be cautious about a friend amid fabricated cheating evidence and a backfired plan situation.

Screenshot of an online comment discussing a fabricated cheating claim affecting a friendship and causing drama.

Comment discussing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince her friend to dump boyfriend and the plan backfiring.

Screenshot of a comment discussing fabricating evidence of cheating to convince a friend to dump boyfriend and the plan backfiring.

Comment advising how to handle fabricated cheating evidence, relating to woman fabricating evidence of cheating.

Comment discussing woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince friend to dump boyfriend, warning about the plan backfiring.

The author later returned with an update, and the truth finally came out

Two women showing emotions, one comforting the other after fabricating evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend.

Image credits: LightFieldStudios / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

Text update on woman fabricates evidence of cheating, showing conversation tension and relationship drama resolution.

Text excerpt describing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend, plan backfiring.

Text excerpt from a story showing a woman denying fabricating evidence of cheating to convince a friend to dump her boyfriend.

Text excerpt showing a woman fabricates evidence of cheating to convince her friend to dump her boyfriend, plan backfires.

Woman fabricates evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, plan backfires causing unexpected consequences.

Two women on a couch having a heated argument, illustrating woman fabricates evidence of cheating and plan backfires.

Image credits: Prostock-studio / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

Woman fabricates evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, but her plan ultimately backfires.

Text excerpt showing someone explaining their plan to move out, linked to woman fabricates evidence of cheating scenario.

Text excerpt showing a woman considering writing a goodbye note after fabricating evidence of cheating to influence a friend’s breakup decision.

Text from a woman explaining fabricated cheating evidence to convince a friend to end her relationship, plan backfiring.

Woman with curly hair smiling at man in a brown jacket, illustrating fabricated cheating evidence and friendship betrayal concept.

Image credits: josecarloscerdeno / envatoelements (not the actual photo)

Text discussing doubts about cheating, addressing the possibility of fabricated evidence and trust issues in relationships.

Text about woman fabricating evidence of cheating to convince friend to dump boyfriend, but plan backfires revealing betrayal.

Image credits: FriendConflict54

Readers were stunned, with many saying the friend’s behavior seemed rooted in deep insecurity

Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing protecting yourself from damage claims when breaking a lease, related to cheating evidence.

Text comment expressing anger towards a woman who fabricated evidence of cheating, causing a friendship fallout.

Comment discussing a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince friend to dump boyfriend, and the plan backfiring.

Comment highlighting a woman fabricating cheating evidence to convince friend to dump boyfriend, warning of plan backfiring risks.

Screenshot of an online comment discussing a woman fabricating evidence of cheating and the resulting failed plan.

Comment on Reddit thread discussing a woman fabricating evidence of cheating, highlighting projection and moral judgment.

Poll Question

Total votes ·

Thanks! Check out the results:

Total votes ·

Newsletter

Subscribe to Access
Exclusive Polls

Subscribe

By entering your email and clicking Subscribe, you're agreeing to let us send you customized marketing messages about us and our advertising partners. You are also agreeing to our Privacy Policy.

Thank you! You've successfully subscribed to newsletters!

Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing!

Follow Bored Panda on Google News!

Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda!