Man Is Surprised That His Co-Workers Constantly Come To Work Early, Shames Them About It After Realizing Why
Being a parent is in no way an easy task. Especially in the mornings when things can get pretty chaotic. That’s why some people try to get out of this part of parenting responsibilities.
Redditor u/VintageHilda told the ‘Child Free’ community about her husband’s co-workers constantly coming to work early. She had a feeling they might be fathers avoiding getting their kids ready for school. That’s why when the group started teasing her husband about being child-free, he had a comeback ready.
Some parents and child-free people have different routines when it comes to work as well
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This man’s co-workers would come to work early, which made him wonder why
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School mornings seem to be the most stressful time of the day for the majority of parents
As rewarding as it is, parenting can be equally stressful at times, and understandably so. Kids are not always the most cooperative of people, especially if it’s something they’re not very keen on doing. Waking up in the morning, for instance, or getting ready for school, which not all children are very excited about.
That’s why the early hours of the day can get especially hectic. A survey of parents of school-aged children in the US revealed that nearly 60% of them find school mornings to be the most stressful time of the day. Hardly anyone likes being stressed out, so it’s not surprising that some people try to avoid it if they can. Even if that means spending more time at work, for instance.
The men in the redditor’s story all seemed to be fathers, which led to the OP’s conclusion that they’re running away from the morning-time responsibilities. Such a hunch is not totally unfounded, as surveys reveal that moms are typically more involved in childcare. According to Pew Research Center, in an average week, mothers spend twice as much time with kids as fathers. In addition to that, 46% of the latter admit it themselves that they don’t spend enough time with their offspring.
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Some fathers only look forward to the beautiful moments but are not willing to deal with the stressful ones
Even though every family is different, a lot of redditors in the comments pointed out that some men become fathers, but often fail to cover all that it entails. Commentators gave different examples, from emphasizing their lack of enthusiasm in participation in raising children to not using all the time off work they’re offered as a parent. Another survey by Pew Research Center uncovered that 39% of mothers have taken a significant amount of time off work to care for a child or other family member while only 24% of dads have done the same.
Some redditors shamed the type of men who can’t wait to become fathers but leave most of the responsibilities to their partners the second they do. Others applauded the OP’s husband for the way he handled the situation after his co-workers started teasing him about being child-free. As a matter of fact, nearly 22% of Americans choose to be child-free, according to 2022 data.
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The OP revealed more information in the comments
Redditors applauded the husband’s reply and shared their views on the situation
The guys in the story were far from the only ones, as people in the comments made clear
So much stereotyping. Personally when my daughter was very young, I'd rush home from work to spend time with her. Still spend every minute I can with her. Don't jump on the manbashing bandwagon, prejudging a demographic based on a stereotype has a name, pre-judice.
Yeah. It was irritating that many of the comments inferred “most men”. I don’t think so. I understand wanting some alone time, but not to that extent.
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Wtf even is this post? My dad was always early for work because my school started before his shift at work did. So he'd take me to school in the mornings and then go straight to the office because going back home after dropping me off would be a waste of both time and fuel. I'd argue dads are earlier at work than childfree folks specifically BECAUSE they're helping with the school rush in the mornings.
That's exactly where my thoughts went too. My dad was the one who got my and siblings up and to school in the morning, as well as being the one to make our packed lunches. Granted he was late home in the evenings, but certainly not because he was avoiding bath time, but because that's just how his shift timing worked. And given that he did all the morning parenting, I'd say he was carrying his weight, even if he did miss bath time.
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Week barely started and our first post is the good old man-bashing. Just the usual, is it, BP?
People have to push into other people's lives. I have a huge family, my wife is shaking her head and laughing about this. OP, and nosey Honey need to get a life.
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So much stereotyping. Personally when my daughter was very young, I'd rush home from work to spend time with her. Still spend every minute I can with her. Don't jump on the manbashing bandwagon, prejudging a demographic based on a stereotype has a name, pre-judice.
Yeah. It was irritating that many of the comments inferred “most men”. I don’t think so. I understand wanting some alone time, but not to that extent.
Load More Replies... Wtf even is this post? My dad was always early for work because my school started before his shift at work did. So he'd take me to school in the mornings and then go straight to the office because going back home after dropping me off would be a waste of both time and fuel. I'd argue dads are earlier at work than childfree folks specifically BECAUSE they're helping with the school rush in the mornings.
That's exactly where my thoughts went too. My dad was the one who got my and siblings up and to school in the morning, as well as being the one to make our packed lunches. Granted he was late home in the evenings, but certainly not because he was avoiding bath time, but because that's just how his shift timing worked. And given that he did all the morning parenting, I'd say he was carrying his weight, even if he did miss bath time.
Load More Replies... Week barely started and our first post is the good old man-bashing. Just the usual, is it, BP?
People have to push into other people's lives. I have a huge family, my wife is shaking her head and laughing about this. OP, and nosey Honey need to get a life.
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