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Teen Regrets Being A Bully After Girl Gets The Ultimate Revenge On Her: “So She Was Gone”
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Teen Regrets Being A Bully After Girl Gets The Ultimate Revenge On Her: “So She Was Gone”

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Studying abroad can be a life-changing experience. It provides students with the opportunity to learn a new language, embrace a different culture, and create friendships they could never have made back home. However, it’s important that when you’re in another country, you behave appropriately. Otherwise, you might just get sent back home.

When one teenager realized that her sister was being relentlessly bullied by a foreign exchange student, she decided that it was time to take matters into her own hands. Below, you’ll find the full story of pro-revenge that she posted on Reddit, as well as some of the replies amused readers shared. 

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    When this woman was in high school, her sister was relentlessly bullied by a foreign exchange student

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    So she decided to take matters into her own hands and seek revenge

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    Over 20,000 foreign exchange students study in American high schools every year

    While it might sound like something out of a movie, apparently, it’s quite common for teenagers from all over the globe to spend some time in the United States as part of an exchange student program. In fact, STS Foundation reports that over 20,000 high school students travel to the U.S. to study each year.

    These programs are popular because they provide students with a unique high school experience. They get to perfect their English, participate in American extracurricular activities, experience a new culture, and find out just how realistic all of the American TV shows and films they’ve seen are. Plus, they often get the opportunity to travel around and see some of the nation’s most famous landmarks.

    However, it’s not always easy for a teen to spend months away from their home country. They might experience severe culture shocks and feel intense homesickness. Great Learning notes that they can also face language barriers and have trouble making friends. They might even be harassed or discriminated against based on their culture. 

    These students might struggle to adapt to the American school system, if it is quite different from how they studied in their home country. And they might feel out of place if they can’t connect with anyone who speaks their native language or who shares the same cultural background. 

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    But regardless of how difficult it may be to study abroad, those challenges do not at all justify being a bully. One multi-national study across 83 countries found that nearly one-third of adolescents have experienced bullying. This is already a significant issue for high school students, but there’s no excuse for teens to be cruel to one another. 

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    Bullying is a serious issue that should never be tolerated

    Over 41% of students who have been bullied also report that they’re worried about it happening again. The most common types of bullying nowadays are having rumors spread about victims and being called names. And this behavior is far from harmless.

    Deconstructing Stigma reports that bullying can take a significant toll on victims’ self-esteem. It can also increase their self-criticism and may cause them to self-isolate. The CDC warns that bullying can lead to social and emotional distress, self-harm, depression, anxiety, sleep issues, lower academic achievement, and sometimes even dropping out of school.

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    While some parents might assume that being bullied is a rite of passage or that it builds character, it’s a serious issue that should never be swept under the rug. It’s certainly not going to be easy for schools to eliminate bullying, but there are certain strategies they can implement to mitigate it.

    SchoolSafety.gov recommends that administrators build a safe and supportive learning environment. They should implement social and emotional learning, as well as academic learning. There should be strict policies in place to address bullying, so students don’t feel like they can get away with treating one another cruelly. 

    And it’s best if they can get both parents and students involved. If moms and dads are aware of what’s going on with their students, they might be able to nip bullying in the bud. Then, hopefully, students won’t have to take revenge into their own hands. 

    Many readers applauded the author for her revenge, and she joined in on the conversation

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    However, some thought that the author took things too far

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    Adelaide May Ross

    Adelaide May Ross

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    Adelaide May Ross

    Adelaide May Ross

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

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    As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, my favorite part of the job involves browsing the web for the cutest cat pics, the funniest memes and eye-catching illustrations to brighten up your day!

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    Rugilė Žemaitytė

    Rugilė Žemaitytė

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    As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, my favorite part of the job involves browsing the web for the cutest cat pics, the funniest memes and eye-catching illustrations to brighten up your day!

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    Stardrop
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    9 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did it not cross your mind to CONFRONT HER before escalating to this? i completely understand the horrors of bullying and you definitely deserved some revenge on the b***h that was tormenting your sister... but you could have like. put dead fish and glitter in her car vents or something, not got her send back to a conservative family that would probably punish her horribly.

    DC
    Community Member
    4 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have never been in little sister's position, have you? She wasn't joining the bullies, she was the main one. That species doesn't react to being talked to, only to threats and punishments. Had it coming.

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    kissmychakram
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    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In some cultures accusations like that can get a woman or girl kîlled. Bullying is not acceptable but the potential déath penalty is not appropriate.

    nicholas nolan
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    5 hours ago

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    Yeah, but I'm pretty sure Russian isn't one of them.

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    spacer
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    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    op never states to be 18+, for all we know the siblings could be 1-2 years apart since op also says "their school" so the only law shes breaking is underage drinking. makes me wonder what kind of parents they have though if she can just brag about having a party at home without them caring. also if shes "somewhat popular" why isnt that enough to protect the sister from being bullied. you know....

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    Stardrop
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    9 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did it not cross your mind to CONFRONT HER before escalating to this? i completely understand the horrors of bullying and you definitely deserved some revenge on the b***h that was tormenting your sister... but you could have like. put dead fish and glitter in her car vents or something, not got her send back to a conservative family that would probably punish her horribly.

    DC
    Community Member
    4 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have never been in little sister's position, have you? She wasn't joining the bullies, she was the main one. That species doesn't react to being talked to, only to threats and punishments. Had it coming.

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    kissmychakram
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    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In some cultures accusations like that can get a woman or girl kîlled. Bullying is not acceptable but the potential déath penalty is not appropriate.

    nicholas nolan
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    5 hours ago

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    Yeah, but I'm pretty sure Russian isn't one of them.

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    spacer
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    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    op never states to be 18+, for all we know the siblings could be 1-2 years apart since op also says "their school" so the only law shes breaking is underage drinking. makes me wonder what kind of parents they have though if she can just brag about having a party at home without them caring. also if shes "somewhat popular" why isnt that enough to protect the sister from being bullied. you know....

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