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Monster-In-Law Ruins Bride’s Dress By Trying It On, Refuses To Replace It
A woman adjusting the back of a wedding dress as another woman helps lace it up in a softly lit room.
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Monster-In-Law Ruins Bride’s Dress By Trying It On, Refuses To Replace It

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We’ve all heard stories about wedding drama, the kind that makes you do a double take and wonder if it’s real life or a soap opera. From awkward seating arrangements to cake disasters, weddings seem to come bundled with a sprinkle of chaos. But sometimes, the drama goes beyond minor squabbles and turns into something genuinely jaw-dropping.

Take this for example: a bride-to-be shared how her fiancé took her wedding dress to his mom, who, along with his sister, secretly tried it on. The result? A stretched, broken-zippered, now-unwearable dress. Keep reading to see how people online responded and what this bride plans to do next. 

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    One bride-to-be shared her frustration after discovering her mother-in-law and sister-in-law had tried on her dress, leaving it stretched and damaged

    Woman left baffled after MIL demanded to try on and ruined her wedding dress before the big day planning.

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    Woman left baffled and upset after her wedding dress was ruined by her mother-in-law who demanded to try it on.

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    Woman left baffled after mother-in-law ruined her wedding dress by demanding to try it on before the wedding.

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    Many brides-to-be dream of wearing a custom, one-of-a-kind dress that reflects their unique style

    Before the big day, couples juggle a million little (and big) tasks. From locking in venues and photographers to deciding on flower arrangements, the checklist feels endless. While some errands are pure stress—hello, seating charts—others are genuinely joyful. For many brides, one of the most magical parts is choosing the perfect wedding dress. It’s not just a dress, it’s an emotional, symbolic part of the journey. And let’s be honest, there’s nothing like that “this is the one” moment.

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    Finding the perfect dress can take weeks or even months. Brides go on countless shopping trips, from one boutique to another, trying on dresses until something just clicks. There are fittings, alterations, and emotional tears along the way. It’s a whole experience, often shared with moms, sisters, or best friends. 

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    To understand what goes into creating these dream dresses, we spoke with Reema Kothari of PKIN Luxury Clothing, a boutique in Jaipur known for its global acclaim. Reema shared, “In India, bridal wear is sacred. Women come to us with a vision, and we help make it real.” For her, every gown is a deeply personal expression, and nothing is too elaborate or simple when it comes to someone’s big day.

    “Brides usually come in months ahead,” Reema added. “Most want a custom piece, they want every inch to feel like them.” That could mean a dramatic train, hand embroidery, or just a unique neckline. There’s no limit to creativity. For designers like Reema, making a bride’s vision come alive is both a challenge and an honor.

    Color is another major decision. “Traditionally, red and pink are popular,” Reema explained. “But now, many brides come asking for pastels or even greys and blues.” Matching dyes to the bride’s dream shade can be tricky but satisfying. Some want a minimalist look; others want sparkle from head to toe. 

    “Once the dress is decided,” she says, “the rest falls into place.” Brides begin to choose jewelry, veils, and accessories based on the main outfit. There’s a theme, a palette, and a personal touch in every layer. 

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    And shoes? Yes, they matter. “Some brides want comfort, others want style, and some want both,” Reema laughs. She’s had clients bring in heels from Paris and sandals from local artisans. Every bride has her priorities. “At the end of the day,” she adds, “it’s about how she feels walking down that aisle.”

    Every bride deserves to feel special and celebrated in a dress that’s truly her own on her big day

    Reema firmly believes that every bride deserves to feel like royalty. “This isn’t just a day,” she says. “It’s her day.” And that means no shortcuts, no compromises. Her boutique doesn’t just sell dresses, they craft experiences. Because for many women, the wedding dress is the one outfit that will live in family photo albums and memories forever.

    Whether it’s a traditional red lehenga or a modern pastel gown, what matters is that the bride feels empowered and beautiful. Reema’s passion for bridal fashion is rooted in this belief that no matter the style or budget, each woman deserves her dream look. And in her own words, “Designing that moment is a joy like no other.”

    In this particular case, it seems like the bride-to-be went through the joyful, emotional process of finding a dress she truly loved—only to have it ruined by her future mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Do you think her anger is justified? Would you still go ahead with the wedding or take a step back to reassess the dynamics at play? What would you do if someone disrespected your personal space like that during such a meaningful time? Let us know your thoughts!

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    People online weren’t just furious with the in-laws, they also called out the fiancé for betraying the bride’s trust

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    Woman left baffled as her wedding dress is ruined by mother-in-law who demanded to try it on without permission.

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    Woman left baffled as mother-in-law crosses boundaries and ruins wedding dress by demanding to try it on.

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    Comment discussing dangers of letting in-laws try on a wedding dress, advising to avoid such situations.

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    However, amidst all the support, one commenter accused the bride of overreacting and labeled her a “bridezilla”

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    Nikita Manot

    Nikita Manot

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    Nikita Manot

    Nikita Manot

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Nikita's knack for storytelling and creativity has led her into the world of writing. With a robust foundation in business studies, she crafts compelling narratives by seamlessly blending analytical insight with imaginative expression. At Bored Panda, she embarks on an exhilarating quest to explore diverse topics, fueled by curiosity and passion. During her leisure time, she savors life's simple pleasures, such as gardening, cooking homemade meals and hosting gatherings for loved ones.

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    Sue Ellen
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First, take her to small claims court. Second, dump the fiancé.

    Paul Rabit
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the MIL wrote the lone YTA comment lol

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    Sue Ellen
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First, take her to small claims court. Second, dump the fiancé.

    Paul Rabit
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the MIL wrote the lone YTA comment lol

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