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30 Times Women Didn’t Get Away With Their ‘Nice Girl’ Act And Got Shamed For It Online (New Pics)
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She’s the girl who believes she’s the best choice and who is never in the wrong. She sees herself as a delicate flower whose heart often gets broken by vicious, toxic men. She’s also convinced that all the male population cares about is how to take advantage of women’s bodies and throws passive-aggressive fits on social media when she gets rejected.
Sounds familiar? If so, chances are you have encountered at least one ‘nice girl’ in your lifetime. She’s the male equivalent of a ‘nice guy’ and can be equally as toxic and frustrating a persona as these knights in digital armor.
Luckily, the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is set on calling out such behavior in hopes that it helps men and women distinguish fake nice behavior from the real thing. Scroll down to find their most cringeworthy posts, and be sure to share your own ‘nice girl’ encounters below.
While you’re at it, don’t forget to check out a conversation with a women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg, who kindly agreed to tell us more about how seeking validation from men can contribute to women becoming ‘nice girls.’
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#1
What I Love About This Tiktok Generation Is Them Publishing Their Worst Deeds With Full Hd Selfie, So The Rest Of The World Can Stay Away Lol
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#2
Manipulation To "Humble" Him
#3
Manipulation 101 : Guy Becomes A Backup Plan
#4
Guy Politely Acknowledges Break Up Message And She Gets Mad At Him For It
Virgil Blue 2 years ago
"I had hoped for better from you" Looks like she was baiting for some heartbroken "please, we can work it out" style texts. Sorry girl, your private role-playing session got cancelled.
#5
Nice Girl Setting Standards
Doctor Strange 2 years ago
You are not an amusement park ride, you don't need a "you must be this tall sign". God, I hate how short men get dismissed. I have so many guy friends who are absolutely fantastic, but get rejected out of hand because they don't meet some arbitrary height standard.
#6
This Is A Perfect Example Of Someone Being Overly Dramatic. It's Amusing How Some People Think So Highly Of Themselves
#7
Guys, I Think I’m In Love
#8
Am I In The Wrong Here Because She Withheld That She Had Children?
#9
Compliments Are Insulting
#10
This Just Happened On My Alt Account Lol (Now With Less Username)
Donkey boi 2 years ago
The source post has been removed, so I cannot tell if there was more to this post.
#11
Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling (Xpost From R/Boneappletea)
#12
Couldn’t Be Bothered To Wait When Told He Was On His Way
#13
Girlfriend Cheated On Me. Broke Up With Her Then She Sent This
#14
How Insecure Do You Have To Be To Say This
#15
I Get What I Want, Always!
#16
I Too, Love Being A Trashy Person
#17
She's Mad The Man She Rejected Moved On
BROmanicus85 2 years ago
So Thomas and Emily have to ask for permission to date?! (great job censoring) :))
#18
Easly Satisfied With The Best
BoredHouseKitty 2 years ago (edited)
The missing space after every punctuation just rubs me the wrong way.
#19
Imagine Being This Self Absorbed
#20
Happened A While Back, But Being Threatened Still Cracks Me Up
#21
Next Week She’ll Be Asking “Why Am I Single?”
#22
Me Too Sis, Me Too
Panda McPandaface 2 years ago
I think this is a really badly stated example of a real situation though - too much time being a doormat is not good but a complete 180 degree turn is not the solution.
#23
I’m Very Confused
#24
Ex Girlfriend Showed Up To My Apartment Uninvited
Dillon Sizemore 2 years ago
100% the breaks more then 5 min where her calling someone else to complain about her ex not answering the phone or door.
#25
Apparently This Man Isn't A "True Gentleman" Because He Wants Her To Feel Safe
#26
She Seems Nice
rmandevi831 2 years ago
"Hiring"? That word, I don't think it means..what you think it means...
#27
Don’t Date Witches. She Cheated On Me 2 Years Ago. I Have Blocked Her On Everything And She Still Sends Me Spells
#28
My Cousin Posts This Nonsense, But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex-Boyfriend With A Car
InoueAmani 2 years ago
One thing social media has taught me is that ppl who post this c**p and lots of quotes about being strong and a fighter and everything of that nature are varying degrees on the hot mess -to- dumpster fire spectrum.
#29
I Don't Think This Is The Flex You Thought It Was
Panda Kicki 2 years ago
I need a translation on this post. I can read the words but no idea what they say.
#30
Alpha Man Raised By Queen, Please Apply!
#31
Dating Apps Are Scary
#32
Picky Eater And Couldn't Cook
#33
Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]
![Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]](https://static.boredpanda.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/662e7be513bb2_tk468y2zhyoc1-png__700.jpg "Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A \"Manlet\" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]")
#34
My Friend’s (M) Ex GF Did Anything For Her And She Shares This
#35
Spoiler Alert I’m Not Gay
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 2 years ago
"Yes im gay, thats why, as a man im WAS trying to date you, a woman"
#36
Found In The Wild Lol
#37
I've Been Invited To Apply!
#38
Nicegirl In The Very Sub
#39
Found This Interaction On Twitter
#40
Girl I Met Gets Upset After Finding Out My Ex Did Of Too, Tells Me I Gaslit Her After Accusing Me Of “Collecting Trophies”
StarCrossedFriday 2 years ago
She clearly needs to read the other BP page explaining what gaslighting is.
#41
All I Said Im Not Interested
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 2 years ago
Babes you need to have your standards HIGHER if ur bragging thst he doesn't try to rape you
#42
Women Can Be Incels Too
#43
Reasons Why You're Not A Real Femcel
#44
Interesting Introductory Statement On A Dating App!
#45
In Blast Right Off The Bat
Dillon Sizemore 2 years ago
25 and "figuring it out" is normal nowadays, unless you had a highschool sweetheart you married and are having a dream life with. If you have kids at 25 you are almost certainly still "figuring it out". I don't think most people "figure it out till thier late 30s early 40s, if they ever manage to "figure it out"
#46
Apparently I’m A Loser Because Our Interests Aren’t Mutual??
StarCrossedFriday 2 years ago
BP, what is the point of these entries if the screenshot doesn’t cover the actual relevant part of the story?
#47
Must’ve Been Why You Got Mad About It
#48
Posted By My Extremely Verbally/Emotionally Abusive Ex (Who Also Apparently Became A Femaledatingstrategy User Post-Breakup). The Lack Of Self-Awareness Is Nauseating, Yet Perfectly On-Brand
rmandevi831 2 years ago
Not sure that this is a "nice girl" story. She's not talking about all the men, just all the men _around her_. Maybe she looks like an easy mark to all the jerks?
#49
Recieved Some Lovely Racism Today
#50
Wow First Messages Also Does This Count?
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 2 years ago
Ive never read the word blokes so much and i haven't even read the whole conversation
#51
I Just Wanna Know What She Was Trying To Set On Fire
#52
That's Some Serious Dedication!
#53
Quite A Bold Statement!
#54
A Day After Cheating On Me, My (Now Ex) GF Posted This On Her Social Media
Goose of the Ahonkalypse 2 years ago
I love it when new age spirituality speak is used to avoid personal accountability.
#55
What Do I Even Say?
#56
Homophobic Woman Loses Her Mind Realizing Not Every Man Is The Same As She Wants
#57
'separates The Boys From The Men' Lol
#58
I Talked To This Girl For One Day The Week Before
meeeeeeeeeeee 2 years ago
BP, f**k off with your censorship. I really can't believe someone gets paid to steal pics off reddit and pretend it is original content and not even bother their holes to check if they make sense with only half the images or if they're full of words that will be censored. Give me a job, I will actually check my work.
#59
Total Mystery Why Her Dates Nope The Hell Out
#60
Most Men Are Weak And Can’t Handle Her Kind Of Love
Donkey boi 2 years ago
3 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic. But you still won't find out who "she" is.
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Data1001 2 years ago
Speaking as a straight guy, I'm sure that this kind of c**p is pulled by plenty of dudes as well. I can understand anybody who is frustrated/annoyed/ticked off with the whole dating scene.
Panda McPandaface 2 years ago (edited)
Speaking as a gay man, it's the same for everyone I reckon. So many POS out there.
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Data1001 2 years ago
Speaking as a straight guy, I'm sure that this kind of c**p is pulled by plenty of dudes as well. I can understand anybody who is frustrated/annoyed/ticked off with the whole dating scene.
Panda McPandaface 2 years ago (edited)
Speaking as a gay man, it's the same for everyone I reckon. So many POS out there.
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