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It’s impossible to know what someone is going through just by looking at them. The person in line next to you at a coffee shop might be having the worst day of their life, but if they’re using all of their energy to conceal their emotions, you’d never know it.
Plenty of people mask their physical discomfort in the same way, especially those who struggle with chronic illnesses. One woman who’s been dealing with chronic pain for years showed up to work one day with her cane. But instead of sympathizing with her situation, a coworker immediately became skeptical of the woman’s disability. Below, you’ll find the full story that was shared on Reddit, as well as some of the replies invested readers left the author.
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Woman frustrated at work, holding her head in her hands, illustrating stress related to coworker disability claims.
Millions of people around the globe struggle with invisible disabilities
We all know that we’re not supposed to judge a book by its cover. But that doesn’t stop people from making assumptions about others. Unfortunately, people still get judged based on their age, weight, height, gender, and whether or not they have a disability. But the reality is that you often can’t tell just by looking at someone how their health really is.
According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 28.7% of adults in the United States have some form of disability. These include conditions that impact cognition, mobility, independent living, hearing, vision, and self-care.
However, it’s estimated that up to 80% of people around the globe who have a disability have an invisible condition. If someone has a chronic illness, neurological disorder, mental health condition, etc., you likely wouldn’t be able to know just by looking at them. But that doesn’t make their condition any less valid or challenging to live with.
Life Without Barriers notes on its site that it’s essential to understand invisible disabilities to eliminate the misconceptions often associated with them. These disabilities frequently aren’t taken seriously because the person doesn’t look like they have a health condition.
Because of this, they may be told that they’re not allowed to park in a disabled spot, or they may often have to defend and explain their illness to strangers. They might even be accused of faking their condition, like the author in this story.
Unfortunately, it’s also common for people to not understand exactly how another person’s disability works. They might assume that because they were fine one day, they’re suddenly cured and will never have issues again. But that’s simply not the case.
Harassing someone for their disability can be considered a hate crime
“It’s important to remember that disabilities are diverse, and individual needs vary widely,” Life Without Barriers explains. “Each person’s experience with their condition is unique, and their requirements for support and accommodation will differ from others and can sometimes change from day to day.”
And depending on where you live, accusing someone of faking their disability might even be considered discrimination. In the U.K., for example, anyone who has been harassed because of their disability can report it to the police as a hate crime or hate incident.
Meanwhile, employers are required to make reasonable adjustments to the premises, the workload, working hours, etc., to ensure that employees with disabilities can properly complete their jobs. And, of course, if a coworker accuses someone of faking their illness, they shouldn’t hesitate to report that to HR.
EasyLlama notes that HR must take harassment complaints very seriously. So if a coworker has been treating you inappropriately, document everything and pass your evidence along to HR. They will likely conduct interviews with everyone involved, take a statement from the victim and any witnesses, and ensure that the issue is addressed immediately.
While it may not be easy to report harassment that’s been going on in your workplace, it’s more difficult to suffer through it every single shift. We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing a similar issue, look no further than right here.
Again, readers were horrified by the coworker’s behavior and shared concerned messages for the author
Reddit user discusses coworker filming to prove she’s not actually disabled, sparking debate on chronic pain and disability.
Text post from millennialfail with user comment about coworker filming after work to prove disability claim is fake.
Screenshot of an online comment discussing a coworker in relation to disability and work in an HR context.
Reddit comment discussing a coworker being filmed to prove she’s not actually disabled after work.
Comment expressing concern about someone stalking a coworker to prove disability status, calling it creepy behavior.
Comment discussing arthritis and chronic pain in response to a woman filming her coworker to prove disability claims.
Woman films coworker after work trying to prove she is not actually disabled amid harassment claims.
Text screenshot showing a person discussing workplace harassment and disability proof in response to coworker filming after work.
Screenshot of a Reddit comment advising to report safety concerns about a coworker after work and keep documentation.
Reddit comment discussing filing a restraining order for harassment after a coworker films to prove disability claim.
Text post about workplace conflict where a woman films coworker after work to question disability claims.
Online comment criticizing a woman filming her coworker to prove she’s not actually disabled after work.
Comment discussing coworker filming after work to prove not disabled, mentioning wheelchair use and chronic fatigue struggles.
Comment discussing workplace harassment issue involving a coworker and concerns over disability discrimination lawsuit.
Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing stress and skepticism around chronic pain and disability claims at work.
Screenshot of an online comment discussing concerns about stalking after a coworker films to prove someone's disability.
Reddit comment warning about stalking behavior related to coworker dispute and questioning disability claims after work.
Comment discussing pain and discrimination from coworkers, mentioning workplace boundaries and legal rights for disabled individuals.
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Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.
Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.
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Kira, yes, I recall my GP one time asking me how was the pain and I just said "Oh, just the normal levels" and he said normal should be no pain at all. LOL. I cannot imagine how it must feel to be pain-free all the time.
Kira, yes, I recall my GP one time asking me how was the pain and I just said "Oh, just the normal levels" and he said normal should be no pain at all. LOL. I cannot imagine how it must feel to be pain-free all the time.
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