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Jane Doe • commented on 5 posts 1 week ago

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

Honestly there wouldn't have been any fight if I was just informed of her passing in time to go to the funeral I had no desire to take anything from him but the fact that he wouldn't even let me say goodbye and get any kind of closure is what makes me furious with him. He stole my mother and now I'm left to suffer with grief and regret for the rest of my life it's not the only reason why he's done a lot of hurtful things to my mom and I have talked to her about them and she has disowned him multiple times but I stood up for him and my mom would eventually forgive him he didn't do the same for me.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

To go to a different Dr and push for more testing as having that pain with no body position relieving it meant something was wrong she also had other concerns and again suggested she go to a different Dr this in her mind was me smothering her and she didn't want me to advocate her health for her. As for not telling me about her passing my uncle asked her if she cared if I knew about her passing my mom told him she was okay with that my uncle did want to tell me but between my brother and my aunt (uncle and moms sister) he was basically told they would not let me near the funeral and my uncle doesn't want trouble at Mom's funeral so he opted to not tell me at that time (I completely understand) unfortunately with my schedule and my uncle's schedule we we're not in contact till that day. No matter how much I do or don't like my brother to not tell him mom passed away is reprehensible.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

Honestly there wouldn't have been any fight if I was just informed of her passing in time to go to the funeral I had no desire to take anything from him but the fact that he wouldn't even let me say goodbye and get any kind of closure is what makes me furious with him. He stole my mother and now I'm left to suffer with grief and regret for the rest of my life it's not the only reason why he's done a lot of hurtful things to my mom and I have talked to her about them and she has disowned him multiple times but I stood up for him and my mom would eventually forgive him he didn't do the same for me.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

To go to a different Dr and push for more testing as having that pain with no body position relieving it meant something was wrong she also had other concerns and again suggested she go to a different Dr this in her mind was me smothering her and she didn't want me to advocate her health for her. As for not telling me about her passing my uncle asked her if she cared if I knew about her passing my mom told him she was okay with that my uncle did want to tell me but between my brother and my aunt (uncle and moms sister) he was basically told they would not let me near the funeral and my uncle doesn't want trouble at Mom's funeral so he opted to not tell me at that time (I completely understand) unfortunately with my schedule and my uncle's schedule we we're not in contact till that day. No matter how much I do or don't like my brother to not tell him mom passed away is reprehensible.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

From what I can gather the lawyer hasn't filed her estate yet apparently the lawyer is waiting for a certain amount of time so debt collectors can't put a claim on her estate. As for respecting her wishes I love to say this was true he's never done anything she's told him to do or followed any of her advice until that one instance so no it wasn't he was doing it because she asked he did it just to be a jerk at anytime after she passed he could have told me he chose not to he seemed more irritated that I found out before he was able to steal everything she had before I found out. And to be honest I wouldn't have cared if he took everything if he would have just told me. How awful is he well our sister still doesn't have a head stone (10 yrs! Since she passed) cause he con'd my mother into paying his bills and buying him a car till he got back to work which he never did.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

For context my brother has said and done some things that she has responded in the same way mostly he's his father's son or you're just like your dad to which I have told her that is hurtful as we all hated him (long story) and she never truly meant to hurt him just was her way of saying that she didn't like him mostly because he is very concrete you say or tell him something and it's gold you can't change your mind he won't hear it. I myself no matter what has happened between them would never ever think of not telling him I would however wait a bit and if there was no possiblity of recovery would ask her if she would want to say goodbye to him but most definitely would tell him she has hours left come see her or if not possible I would definitely inform him she has passed as soon as I could as for her not wanting me to know it was only about her cancer just before she was diagnosed she had complaints of pain in her side and stated that the Dr had dismissed the complaint I told her to

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

I wish I could say that I would miss him but he is a horrible person he can never be wrong and if he is and proven wrong he just doubles down. My mother has told me no way in hell would she live with him ever and he has stated he would leave mom homeless before letting her move in with him. I would have told him even if she said no, youngest and has been supported by my mother for most of his life my sister doesn't have a head stone yet after 10 yrs cause my brother "borrowed" the money my mom had to get a car had my mom pay for insurance, and all his bills till he went back to work guess what? He never went back to work. He is mooching off his ex friends ex-wife and her husband by living with them and not paying for anything. He even at one point was trying to get my mom to open a restaurant that he would own and she'd have to do all the work cooking and actually running it while he just collected the money made! There's more horrible things but I really don't have the space or time

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Jane Doe • commented on 2 posts 1 year ago

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Pullman now does concrete restoration work my husband works for them.

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You were not positive for those diseases but had a positive NAT for them a NAT is not a confirmation of a positive just that 1 of the 100 samples that was tested was positive they tell you about all the diseases tested for cause they don't have a confirmatory result. The 100 samples are split into groups of 10 and the group that has a positive is then tested individually to get a confirmatory result. Since it's not confirmed they are required to inform you that a positive result for everything due to HIPPA till it's confirmed also plasma centers are not a medical center therefore they can not and are not telling you that you have it just that a positive result came back. Resources: current plasma center nurse.

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Jane Doe • commented on 5 posts 1 week ago

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

Honestly there wouldn't have been any fight if I was just informed of her passing in time to go to the funeral I had no desire to take anything from him but the fact that he wouldn't even let me say goodbye and get any kind of closure is what makes me furious with him. He stole my mother and now I'm left to suffer with grief and regret for the rest of my life it's not the only reason why he's done a lot of hurtful things to my mom and I have talked to her about them and she has disowned him multiple times but I stood up for him and my mom would eventually forgive him he didn't do the same for me.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

To go to a different Dr and push for more testing as having that pain with no body position relieving it meant something was wrong she also had other concerns and again suggested she go to a different Dr this in her mind was me smothering her and she didn't want me to advocate her health for her. As for not telling me about her passing my uncle asked her if she cared if I knew about her passing my mom told him she was okay with that my uncle did want to tell me but between my brother and my aunt (uncle and moms sister) he was basically told they would not let me near the funeral and my uncle doesn't want trouble at Mom's funeral so he opted to not tell me at that time (I completely understand) unfortunately with my schedule and my uncle's schedule we we're not in contact till that day. No matter how much I do or don't like my brother to not tell him mom passed away is reprehensible.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

From what I can gather the lawyer hasn't filed her estate yet apparently the lawyer is waiting for a certain amount of time so debt collectors can't put a claim on her estate. As for respecting her wishes I love to say this was true he's never done anything she's told him to do or followed any of her advice until that one instance so no it wasn't he was doing it because she asked he did it just to be a jerk at anytime after she passed he could have told me he chose not to he seemed more irritated that I found out before he was able to steal everything she had before I found out. And to be honest I wouldn't have cared if he took everything if he would have just told me. How awful is he well our sister still doesn't have a head stone (10 yrs! Since she passed) cause he con'd my mother into paying his bills and buying him a car till he got back to work which he never did.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

For context my brother has said and done some things that she has responded in the same way mostly he's his father's son or you're just like your dad to which I have told her that is hurtful as we all hated him (long story) and she never truly meant to hurt him just was her way of saying that she didn't like him mostly because he is very concrete you say or tell him something and it's gold you can't change your mind he won't hear it. I myself no matter what has happened between them would never ever think of not telling him I would however wait a bit and if there was no possiblity of recovery would ask her if she would want to say goodbye to him but most definitely would tell him she has hours left come see her or if not possible I would definitely inform him she has passed as soon as I could as for her not wanting me to know it was only about her cancer just before she was diagnosed she had complaints of pain in her side and stated that the Dr had dismissed the complaint I told her to

Hey Pandas, AITA For Going to Court Because My Brother Didn’t Inform Me About Mom?

I wish I could say that I would miss him but he is a horrible person he can never be wrong and if he is and proven wrong he just doubles down. My mother has told me no way in hell would she live with him ever and he has stated he would leave mom homeless before letting her move in with him. I would have told him even if she said no, youngest and has been supported by my mother for most of his life my sister doesn't have a head stone yet after 10 yrs cause my brother "borrowed" the money my mom had to get a car had my mom pay for insurance, and all his bills till he went back to work guess what? He never went back to work. He is mooching off his ex friends ex-wife and her husband by living with them and not paying for anything. He even at one point was trying to get my mom to open a restaurant that he would own and she'd have to do all the work cooking and actually running it while he just collected the money made! There's more horrible things but I really don't have the space or time

Jane Doe • commented on 2 posts 1 year ago

50 Interesting Historical Photographs That Might Teach You Something New

Pullman now does concrete restoration work my husband works for them.

Flu Or Fatal: People Are Sharing Their Wildest Misdiagnosis Stories

You were not positive for those diseases but had a positive NAT for them a NAT is not a confirmation of a positive just that 1 of the 100 samples that was tested was positive they tell you about all the diseases tested for cause they don't have a confirmatory result. The 100 samples are split into groups of 10 and the group that has a positive is then tested individually to get a confirmatory result. Since it's not confirmed they are required to inform you that a positive result for everything due to HIPPA till it's confirmed also plasma centers are not a medical center therefore they can not and are not telling you that you have it just that a positive result came back. Resources: current plasma center nurse.

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