Lolita
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Just a random trying to figure it out in this world. Maybe you can help along the way. I’m nothing really special. I love hard and will move sky and earth for those I hood near and dear. I’ve never really done these type of things… questioners or these forms type things. But what the hell… new experiences
Lolita • upvoted 2 items 9 months ago
I Need A Dress For A Wedding As A Guests Plus One!!!
My family owns a wedding facility in Southern California. I've worked over 2000 weddings. He's neutral, so be bold, but not overly sexy. I've seen so many wedding guests who look great for an hour or so, but those stilettos and ultra tight dresses start to wear a person down, especially in the heat, not a good look. If it's a late summer wedding and it's going to be hot, wear a dress that is light and breathable so you can remain physically comfortable all day. It'll make your new guy impressed with your cool composure. As long as you're not wearing the dominant color used by the bridal party, you're good. Most couples have a website, instagram or whatever associated with the event, do some digging and go with what compliments you personally and doesn't conflict with what the wedding party is doing. Look at the invitations, usually the bridesmaids are wearing a color that's featured in the invite. Most importantly: be comfortable, when the drinking and dancing starts, you want to be the girl who can still stand in her shoes and dance without sweating her spanks off.I Need A Dress For A Wedding As A Guests Plus One!!!
Chances are he is waiting to see what you will wear. My advice would be to see if you can find out what the wedding party is wearing, and then wear something that doesn't match, but also compliments. You don't want to wear bright red if the wedding-party is in light purple...it might draw negative attention to you. You also don't want to accidentally wear the same color as them! If all else fails, dark neutral colors are usually a go-to. You can barely ever go wrong with navy or muted forest green or the like. Shein is a fantastic place to find cheap-but-cute dresses for a special occasion. Overall, don't stress too much! Black, navy or grey will compliment literally anything you wear. If you get your dress a little early, you can always check with his clothing to see which looks the best. Lolita • submitted a new post 9 months ago
Lolita • upvoted 5 items 1 year ago
Hey Pandas, Why Do I Feel Nervous Asking For Days Off At Work?
Oh bestie, are you in the US? Very toxic work culture there :( I hope you find a better job in the near future. You have to stand up for yourself and set firm boundaries. Don't make it a request, make it a statement. If they fire you, for God's sake, FIGHT IT. You have grounds for an unfair dismissal lawsuit.Hey Pandas, Why Do I Feel Nervous Asking For Days Off At Work?
Oh bestie, are you in the US? Very toxic work culture there :( I hope you find a better job in the near future. You have to stand up for yourself and set firm boundaries. Don't make it a request, make it a statement. If they fire you, for God's sake, FIGHT IT. You have grounds for an unfair dismissal lawsuit.Hey Pandas, Why Do I Feel Nervous Asking For Days Off At Work?
You feel nervous because our society has pushed the ridiculous idea that work is all that matters. Take your time off, whether or not they approve it. Take care of yourself. Then start looking for a new job. Good luck with everything.How Do You Cheer Yourself Up.
• friends / family • taking a break • lavender bubble bath • garlic bread • a good song • a good movie • reading my bible ( I’m religious sorry if you’re not 😅) • baking • decorating • memes • something that’ll remind you of good times. The happiest time in my life was when I found Percy Jackson and friendship. • a good meal • sleepHow Do You Cheer Yourself Up.
-go for a walk -get coffee with friends -treat yourself with your favorite meal (I ask my mum if she could make my favourite childhood meal - she always does❤️) -excercise -shopping (I buy new books) -try to find one thing everyday that makes you smile (e.g. This morning I saw a small dog carrying a branch that was 3x his size - it looked hilarious😄) -don‘t force yourself to be happy when you‘re not. everybody has bad days, it‘s ok - just breathe, it will passShow All 5 Upvotes
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Lolita • upvoted 2 items 9 months ago
I Need A Dress For A Wedding As A Guests Plus One!!!
My family owns a wedding facility in Southern California. I've worked over 2000 weddings. He's neutral, so be bold, but not overly sexy. I've seen so many wedding guests who look great for an hour or so, but those stilettos and ultra tight dresses start to wear a person down, especially in the heat, not a good look. If it's a late summer wedding and it's going to be hot, wear a dress that is light and breathable so you can remain physically comfortable all day. It'll make your new guy impressed with your cool composure. As long as you're not wearing the dominant color used by the bridal party, you're good. Most couples have a website, instagram or whatever associated with the event, do some digging and go with what compliments you personally and doesn't conflict with what the wedding party is doing. Look at the invitations, usually the bridesmaids are wearing a color that's featured in the invite. Most importantly: be comfortable, when the drinking and dancing starts, you want to be the girl who can still stand in her shoes and dance without sweating her spanks off.I Need A Dress For A Wedding As A Guests Plus One!!!
Chances are he is waiting to see what you will wear. My advice would be to see if you can find out what the wedding party is wearing, and then wear something that doesn't match, but also compliments. You don't want to wear bright red if the wedding-party is in light purple...it might draw negative attention to you. You also don't want to accidentally wear the same color as them! If all else fails, dark neutral colors are usually a go-to. You can barely ever go wrong with navy or muted forest green or the like. Shein is a fantastic place to find cheap-but-cute dresses for a special occasion. Overall, don't stress too much! Black, navy or grey will compliment literally anything you wear. If you get your dress a little early, you can always check with his clothing to see which looks the best. Lolita • upvoted 5 items 1 year ago
Hey Pandas, Why Do I Feel Nervous Asking For Days Off At Work?
Oh bestie, are you in the US? Very toxic work culture there :( I hope you find a better job in the near future. You have to stand up for yourself and set firm boundaries. Don't make it a request, make it a statement. If they fire you, for God's sake, FIGHT IT. You have grounds for an unfair dismissal lawsuit.Hey Pandas, Why Do I Feel Nervous Asking For Days Off At Work?
You feel nervous because our society has pushed the ridiculous idea that work is all that matters. Take your time off, whether or not they approve it. Take care of yourself. Then start looking for a new job. Good luck with everything.How Do You Cheer Yourself Up.
• friends / family • taking a break • lavender bubble bath • garlic bread • a good song • a good movie • reading my bible ( I’m religious sorry if you’re not 😅) • baking • decorating • memes • something that’ll remind you of good times. The happiest time in my life was when I found Percy Jackson and friendship. • a good meal • sleepHow Do You Cheer Yourself Up.
-go for a walk -get coffee with friends -treat yourself with your favorite meal (I ask my mum if she could make my favourite childhood meal - she always does❤️) -excercise -shopping (I buy new books) -try to find one thing everyday that makes you smile (e.g. This morning I saw a small dog carrying a branch that was 3x his size - it looked hilarious😄) -don‘t force yourself to be happy when you‘re not. everybody has bad days, it‘s ok - just breathe, it will passThis Panda hasn't followed anyone yet
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