Bored Panda works better on our iPhone app
Continue in app Continue in browser

The Bored Panda iOS app is live! Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here.

Woman Calls CPS After Colleague Advertises Her Adopted Kid Online, Is Shocked When The Truth Emerges
Woman looking stressed and frustrated while using a laptop, reflecting challenges with adopted child behavior issues.

Woman Calls CPS After Colleague Advertises Her Adopted Kid Online, Is Shocked When The Truth Emerges

40

ADVERTISEMENT

Adopting a child is a very serious commitment and not one to be taken lightly. You can’t simply “return to sender” if things don’t work out, or if you suddenly have a change of heart. That’s why the legal adoption process isn’t straightforward. It’s thorough, tedious, time-consuming and filled with checks and balances.

A woman has told how her “super religious” co-worker has been adopting kids like she’s starting a football team. The latest (eighth) child is a boy from Ukraine but his adoptive parents have decided he’s too “awful” for them.  The “mom” is desperate to “re-home” him. She’s not only advertised the child on Facebook, but has also sent out an email to her entire company, asking if anyone wants to take him.

RELATED:

    Adopting a child is meant to be a loving and lifelong commitment – you can’t simply “return to sender”

    Image credits:Anna Tolipova / freepik (not the actual photo)

    But one woman has advertised her 8th adopted child for “re-homing,” and is also offering him to her colleagues

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: user24252071 / freepik (not the actual photo)

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: yanalya / freepik (not the actual photo)

    Image credits: anon

    ADVERTISEMENT

    People advised the woman to call CPS immediately and to take it even further if needs be

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Commenter link: travel.state.gov

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Commenter link: abcnews.go.com

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Commenter link: reuters

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Things took a dramatic turn after the woman called CPS, and Tony’s “re-homing” was just the tip of the iceberg

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: The Yuri Arcurs Collection / freepik (not the actual photo)

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: garetsvisual / freepik (not the actual photo)

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    “Shuffled around like unwanted puppies”: netizens were relieved to read that the kids were safe

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    “An Update On Our Family”: remembering the child re-homing case that stunned the world

    In 2020, Ohio-based vloggers Myka and James Stauffer stunned the world when they announced that they’d be “re-homing” their adopted son. The couple brought Huxley home from China in 2017 when he was 2 years old. 2 and a half years later, they decided they no longer wanted him.

    According to Time magazine, the Stauffers ran a YouTube channel called “The Stauffer Life,” and had 700,000 subscribers. But the media outlet adds that their total subscribers were roughly a million when you factor in their other channels.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    In a video, which was later deleted, the Stauffers said that Huxley’s special needs “exceeded their ability to properly care for him.” They blamed Huxley’s autism diagnosis, which they were reportedly aware of before adopting him. But the couple claims that not everything was revealed to them.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: Igordoon Primus / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    “Once Huxley came home, there was a lot more special needs that we weren’t aware of, and that we were not told,” James Stauffer said in the video. While his wife added that “There’s not an ounce of our body that doesn’t love Huxley with all of our being.”

    “There wasn’t a minute that I didn’t try our hardest and I think what Jim is trying to say is that after multiple assessments, after multiple evaluations, numerous medical professionals have felt that he needed a different fit and that his medical needs, he needed more,” Myka Stauffer announced to the world.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    The backlash came in thick and fast, prompting Myka to apologize and admit that she had been “naive” in the adoption process.

    “I can’t say I wish this never happened because I’m still so glad Huxley is here and getting all of the help he needs,” she wrote on Instagram. “I also know that even though he is happier in his new home and doing better that he still experienced trauma and I’m sorry, no adoptee deserves any more trauma.”

    Many netizens noted that such cases are “disturbingly common”

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Poll Question

    Total votes ·

    Thanks! Check out the results:

    Total votes ·
    Share on Facebook

    Explore more of these tags

    Robyn Smith

    Robyn Smith

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Read more »

    Robyn is an award-winning journalist who has produced work for several international media outlets. Made in Africa and exported to the world, she is obsessed with travel and the allure of new places. A lover of words and visuals, Robyn is part of the Bored Panda writing team. This Panda has two bamboo tattoos: A map of Africa & the words "Be Like The Bamboo... Bend Never Break."

    Read less »
    Robyn Smith

    Robyn Smith

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Robyn is an award-winning journalist who has produced work for several international media outlets. Made in Africa and exported to the world, she is obsessed with travel and the allure of new places. A lover of words and visuals, Robyn is part of the Bored Panda writing team. This Panda has two bamboo tattoos: A map of Africa & the words "Be Like The Bamboo... Bend Never Break."

    Mantas Kačerauskas

    Mantas Kačerauskas

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Read more »

    As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, I indulge in the joy of curating delightful content, from adorable pet photos to hilarious memes, all while nurturing my wanderlust and continuously seeking new adventures and interests—sometimes thrilling, sometimes daunting, but always exciting!

    Read less »

    Mantas Kačerauskas

    Mantas Kačerauskas

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, I indulge in the joy of curating delightful content, from adorable pet photos to hilarious memes, all while nurturing my wanderlust and continuously seeking new adventures and interests—sometimes thrilling, sometimes daunting, but always exciting!

    Jonas Žvilius

    Jonas Žvilius

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Read more »

    In my spare time, I enjoy creating art - both in traditional and digital form, mainly in the form of painting and animation. Other interests include gaming and music. Favorite bands include Swans, The Strokes, The Beatles.

    Read less »

    Jonas Žvilius

    Jonas Žvilius

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    In my spare time, I enjoy creating art - both in traditional and digital form, mainly in the form of painting and animation. Other interests include gaming and music. Favorite bands include Swans, The Strokes, The Beatles.

    What do you think ?
    Lyoness
    Community Member
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For anyone wondering the original post is nine years old, the user deleted their Reddit account and there were no further updates. I'd love to know what happened to those kids.

    jannettebettie
    Community Member
    9 hours ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I’m making $23000 to $29000 a month working part time. I kept hearing other people tell me how much money they can make online so I decided to look into it. Well, it was all true and has totally changed my life. First month i received $24758 just working on the laptop for 3 hours per day. This is what I do………..........................… W­W­­W.L­I­V­E­­­J­O­­B­1.C­­O­M

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For anyone wondering the original post is nine years old, the user deleted their Reddit account and there were no further updates. I'd love to know what happened to those kids.

    jannettebettie
    Community Member
    9 hours ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I’m making $23000 to $29000 a month working part time. I kept hearing other people tell me how much money they can make online so I decided to look into it. Well, it was all true and has totally changed my life. First month i received $24758 just working on the laptop for 3 hours per day. This is what I do………..........................… W­W­­W.L­I­V­E­­­J­O­­B­1.C­­O­M

    You May Like
    Related on Bored Panda
    Popular on Bored Panda
    Trending on Bored Panda
    Also on Bored Panda
    ADVERTISEMENT