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“My Marriage Seems To Be Over”: Man Admits To A 6-Year Affair, Learns Truth About Wife
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Cheating can take many forms: there’s physical infidelity or emotional infidelity, then there’s one-time things and premeditated cheating. It’s hard to say which combination is the most hurtful, but some people say that the best revenge is to give the cheater a taste of their own medicine.
This cheating saga comes to you from the guy who got precisely that. The man spent six years being unfaithful to his wife, but pulled a surprised Pikachu face when he found out that his wife had been doing the same thing. The man shared his story online, looking for comfort, yet faced incessant roasting and little support.
Bored Panda wanted to know more about why people cheat and why cheaters feel so blindsided when they find out their partners are cheating too. So, we’ve reached out to Kathy Nickerson, PhD. She’s a licensed clinical psychologist, affair recovery specialist, and author of The Courage to Stay: How to Heal From an Affair and Save Your Marriage.
Dr. Nickerson told us why cheaters don’t expect to get cheated on, what drives people to be unfaithful, and whether there’s any hope for relationships after infidelity. Read her expert insights below!
More info: Dr. Kathy Nickerson | The Courage to Stay: How to Heal From an Affair and Save Your Marriage | TikTok
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A man was having an affair and started regretting it when his wife was close to finding out
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Right before the whole thing imploded, he ranted about how important his family is to him
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According to an affair recovery specialist, when a cheater gets cheated on, they interpret it as a personal attack they never thought they’d have to endure
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Affair recovery specialist Dr. Kathy Nickerson tells Bored Panda that cheaters are often shocked when they find out their partner has also been unfaithful. “It’s a fascinating and heartbreaking phenomenon,” she says. “You’d think they’d understand, but emotionally, it doesn’t work that way.”
Often, cheaters have ways to justify their infidelity. They either convince themselves that their infidelity is different and not a big deal, or that their partner wouldn’t think it significant. “Some minimize their actions, assuming it was just a mistake or an escape that didn’t mean anything,” Dr. Nickerson adds. “But when they’re the ones betrayed, it suddenly feels enormous, showing them the real weight of what they’ve done.”
Dr. Nickerson notes that some cheaters are driven by ego and narcissism. They believe that rules don’t apply to them. “They see themselves as special, different, or entitled, which makes it easy to justify their own behavior,” the affair recovery specialist explains. “But when their partner cheats, it feels like a personal attack, a violation they never thought they’d have to endure.”
Attachment style also plays a role here, and Dr. Nickerson says that most cheaters have an avoidant attachment style. “They avoid feelings and conflict at all costs because engaging in either makes them feel deeply unsafe.”
“At their core, many fear they are unlovable, and when their partner strays, it confirms their worst fear—that they were never enough in the first place,” Dr. Nickerson explains. “At the core, being cheated on hurts—even for cheaters. It forces them to confront painful truths they’d rather ignore, making the betrayal feel even more devastating.”
For many cheaters, getting caught is a wake-up call: “How did I become the person who did this?”
This Redditor’s story illustrates Dr. Nickerson’s points pretty well: the man only started appreciating his wife and family when she was about to find out about his infidelity. The man thought that his choice to be unfaithful was separate from the relationship but that his wife being unfaithful was a direct reflection of his own worth.
But why is he only now thinking about the consequences of his actions? Dr. Nickerson says that for many cheaters, affairs aren’t about hurting their partners. Many people turn to infidelity to numb their own pain. “But once the secret is out, the reality sets in: they didn’t escape their problems—they created more,” Nickerson explains.
“In my research, I’ve found that many cheaters who regret their actions experience a flood of painful emotions—guilt, shame, fear of losing their partner, and even a crisis of self-identity: ‘How did I become the person who did this?'”
“They may finally see the disconnect between who they thought they were and what they did, forcing them to acknowledge that the affair wasn’t the answer—it was a symptom of deeper struggles they need to face,” Dr. Nickerson says.
Affair recovery specialist Kathy Nickerson, PhD says that affair relationships typically don’t last
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Although devastating, this sort of situation can serve as a wake-up call for change. “True recovery happens when the unfaithful partner takes full responsibility, acknowledges the deeper reasons behind their choices, and commits to doing the work to heal both the relationship and themselves,” the psychologist says.
For the relationship to work post-infidelity, the unfaithful partner must disengage from the affair and genuinely commit to repairing the marriage, Dr. Nickerson says.
“In my research and clinical experience, most affair relationships don’t last—especially when they start in secrecy, deception, and heightened emotions. The unfaithful partner may believe they’re in love, but that ‘love’ is often built on obsession, fantasy, escape, and a distorted sense of reality—not true compatibility,” the affair recovery specialist notes.
“Once the affair bubble pops and the real-world stressors come in, many realize their affair partner isn’t the solution they thought they were. But by then, the damage to the marriage may be too great to repair if they have spent too much time waffling between the two relationships.”
Yet people had little sympathy for the cheater: “Typical cake eater”
Surprisingly, others showed some support and seemed to justify his actions
After some time, the guy’s wife dropped a bomb he wasn’t expecting
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People had little sympathy this time: “You’re both getting your itches scratched”
After the final update, it seems there was no happy ending for the guy after all
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And most commenters thought he got what he deserved
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Surly Scot 1 year ago
OP is a horrible human being. Laughable, self centered, obtuse man-child.
Mike F 1 year ago
And the more you read the worse he gets. The whole thing is laughable. He has a multi year affair with a coworker, but comes unglued when he finds out his wife has sought out a side piece. SMH
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Suzie 1 year ago
Before he even said it I knew his wife was aware of his affair. Cheaters always think they're being sneaky but they always leave a trail. The spouse always finds out.
Lady Blah Blah 1 year ago
When the wife needed to compose herself in the bathroom, my money is on her trying to get to a point where she could stop herself from laughing in his face.
zims 1 year ago
Or texting her attorney and moving their shared assets to a private account.
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Parmeisan 1 year ago (edited)
Pretty sickening to read some of these opinions from fellow cheaters, such absolutely twisted logic. So calm talking about utterly destroying people they love. I just want to call out the "just like that" (from his last update) in particular. No dude, she didn't lose her feelings for you just like that. It happened over the months or years that she knew you were cheating on her, that you didn't after all love her with your whole heart. You crushed her and you kept crushing her and her loss of feelings for you was the only possible result.
Kari Panda 1 year ago (edited)
Also what’s with the wife blaming? Cheaters aren‘t 'driven' into cheating. If there‘s an unfulfilled need in your marriage, use your mouth and speak up, you’re an adult. Cheaters CHOOSE to cheat, and I guarantee you for every problem their partner fixes, they find three new faults with them to justify cheating.
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Littlemiss 1 year ago
Wow he cheated for 6 years, but is shocked beyond belief that his wife (who probably knew) started her own affair. Now he's angry, hurt and surprised? What a loser, you reap what you sew douchcanoe. All those b.s comments saying don't tell her, she doesn't need to know about your affair pffff.
sweet emotion 1 year ago
I hope the wife got the house, the kids, alimony, child support, the in-laws (except OP's brother), the entire friend group AND her affair partner.
Michael 1 year ago
How so incredibly selfish. How can he feel sorry for himself 🤔 How.. 6 years! He's so hurt finding out his wife did the same thing he did, and most likely because of his affair...What a fn jk..Here he was thinking about his self for 6 years and here we are again thinking about him self again..He shows no feelings towards his ex wife what so ever..unbelievable! Truly unbelievable what a piece of s--t not to mention children involved ect. Go F yourself you fn loser
KatSaidWhat 1 year ago
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. *breathes* HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. If this is actually true and not some attempt at a novella on getting caught in your own trap, the karma is beautiful. And all those cheaters defending him, telling him to not confess, I hope the same happens to you.
Meagan Glaser 1 year ago
So many dudes talking about how if they got enough sex, they wouldn't cheat. or in other words, "I can't be expected to act like I care about my wife if she's not doing something to sweeten the pot enough"
zims 1 year ago
I love that one guy coming in to confidently declare that the marriage must be a sexual wasteland, and the OP shutting him down immediately. Your experiences are not universal, m'dude.
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The_Nicest_Misanthrope 1 year ago
What a complete f*****g loser. Final result made me so happy. 😆
SBocker78 1 year ago
Did the person who wrote the poll not even bother to read the whole article?
Fellfromthemoon 1 year ago
Wife went through all those emotions (and even more) several months ago. When she discovered or realized her husband being unfaithful. It's always the case: whoever breaks up has to go through those emotions first, the other party only after the breakup. She had the better sense to find a partner before breaking up (her judgement might have prioritized the children's safety.)
zims 1 year ago
OP is in la-la land, his brother and everyone that advised him are crab bucketing him, and his wife screwing him over is just icing on the cake. I can't even laugh at this, two marriages destroyed and more on the way, cheaters and adulterers abound. The person who said "Your kids won't hate you" is lying, they have no idea how his kids will react, but given they're girls whose dad cheated on a 20-year marriage for a solid chunk of their lives, they will likely side with the mother.
Winnie the Moo 1 year ago
He did not confess though. He told her he knew she was having an affair. He didn’t own up to sh it.
Laura A Ivett 1 year ago
This is bezutiful Karma, that piece of s**t got everything he deserved. Imagine f*****g another woman for 6 years then crying about how much you love your wife and can't imagine life without her than to find out the wife is having an affair because she knows all about YOUR affair, and now he's all butt hurt, he deserved every f*****g bit of this, he is garbage... the wife is a badass, good for her.
Charlie Haase 1 year ago (edited)
You feel blindsided? Screw you, you got exactly what you deserved. AH
D “Mr Moisture” Maledicco 1 year ago
Wow, what a gross person. I can't imagine putting someone I love through any of that.
person (i think) 1 year ago
He doesn’t give a s**t about his wife as a person. He never says he feels bad for hurting her, just that he doesn’t want to lose the home life that she created. He is _still_ only feeling sorry for himself.
Rebecca Joan 1 year ago
Doesn’t surprise me. Men are so entitled they’re allowed to f**k around, but if their wife secretly finds out and then starts f*****g around behind their back, it’s a problem? Give me a f*****g break. I’m so glad this man’s life imploded. Makes me so happy when scumbags like this get there just desserts.
Crystalwitch60 1 year ago
You’re a deluded man ! Now after cheating for 6 yrs you want your wife wtf is wrong with you I loath cheats you destroy lives !
titansterritory 1 year ago
He let the penis come between us. OP, you're an immature, self-centered, egotistical prick who reaped what he sowed. Not one ounce of empathy for you. Grow up douche bag.
zims 1 year ago
The most unbelievable part is this loser getting two different women to sleep with him.
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t4cwsgd9kc 12 months ago
…I’m a ploy lady have a husband and partner we both live together. This is a classic case of p***s brain. Sorry but you don’t love fucken s**t if you think s*x makes a marriage. “I know my wife” no you knew her AND your AP pussies. Go jerk it or get an escort. Sad sad loser. It’s called talk to your partner and ask for open marriage BEFORE you stick your d**k in something. She can do whatever she wants because YOU decided to f**k around. Same for her if she open her legs without talking to you first BEFORE you did it.
Vicky Stewart 1 year ago
OP is a self-centred egotistical d******d. Having read all of the updates... he is just awful. Whilst I don't think it is OK that the the OP's ( hopefully ex- ) wife also had an affair... it's kind of understandable... if the OP had been having one for SIX YEARS... SIX FRAKING YEARS, she would've known. Impossible not to. In all honesty, couldn't give a d**n about the OP. He sounds awful. And... for the comment saying that the kids would forgive and still love him. I didn't. Mt dad had an affair for many years. It was a sigh of relief when he finally split. I was 13... saw him once since then. He is now dead... and I felt no pang of regret. He brought it all upon himself... rather like the OP.
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You have no self awareness, no moral compass, and you're narcissistic on top of it all. Make a copy of your post but have your wife do all of your actions and you do all of hers. See it now? Thanks for the entertainment. Shakespeare would have some suggestions about what to do next.
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Eunice Probert 1 year ago
This was from four years ago, on Reddit. Good old BP, you've done it again!
FluffyDreg 1 year ago
You are older than 4. So by your logic you shouldn't be here. Irrelevant. Don't bother getting any book. Many of then are older than 4 years too.
Load More Replies... FluffyDreg 1 year ago (edited)
Kinda conflicted. Yes. He f****d up. Big time. Horrifically. Hurt his wife who at the time loved him and felt destroyed. I am by NO means condoning his actions. What im conflicted about is how confused he genuinely is. And not confused like we know it, but emotionally. He doesn't know what he wants, he doesn't know how to express it, he doesn't know how to control it either. And normally I wouldn't bat an eye but.... he's clearly aware of it, and dislikes it. There are horrible people in this world. People who would go out of their way to hunt down their Ex to ruin their lives. We have people who throw acid on those who reject them. People who r*pe and murder, and dont feel any guilt. Cheaters who genuinely think it's their PARTNERS fault they cheated. But this guy doesn't seem like any of that. He appears to be someone who doesn't think about what he does before doing it. Doesn't know how to communicate. Doesnt understand his own emotions. I think calling him a man-child is pretty accurate. He hasn't grown up. He hasn't matured. But thats the thing, that's what I'm seeing. Someone who is too immature to have ever been in a position of control. Someone given million times of responsibility more than he should have. This doesn't mean I think he's innocent. That he didn't do bad things. That he didn't hurt people. Just that his actions were not driven out of a desire to hurt and control. Which is how I define horrible and bad people in general. Imo a horrible person is someone who doesn't feel like they should be held responsible snd seeks out the ways to hurt people whether they realize it or not. Being genuinly guilty for your actions means you are not a truly horrible person, you have potential to grow into a better person. You still deserve consequences for your actions. And in this story he deserved everything that happens to him... But I also feel like he needs serious help- and would actually benefit from it.
Tommy DePaul 8 months ago
Where does he show remorse for the hurt he caused? (Remorse for the losses he suffers due to his actions doesn't count.) And he does suggest that if his wife was enough he wouldn't have cheated. He's King Baby. "I want it. Give it to me. Now." About as far from adulthood as you can get.
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Surly Scot 1 year ago
OP is a horrible human being. Laughable, self centered, obtuse man-child.
Mike F 1 year ago
And the more you read the worse he gets. The whole thing is laughable. He has a multi year affair with a coworker, but comes unglued when he finds out his wife has sought out a side piece. SMH
Load More Replies... Suzie 1 year ago
Before he even said it I knew his wife was aware of his affair. Cheaters always think they're being sneaky but they always leave a trail. The spouse always finds out.
Lady Blah Blah 1 year ago
When the wife needed to compose herself in the bathroom, my money is on her trying to get to a point where she could stop herself from laughing in his face.
zims 1 year ago
Or texting her attorney and moving their shared assets to a private account.
Load More Replies... Parmeisan 1 year ago (edited)
Pretty sickening to read some of these opinions from fellow cheaters, such absolutely twisted logic. So calm talking about utterly destroying people they love. I just want to call out the "just like that" (from his last update) in particular. No dude, she didn't lose her feelings for you just like that. It happened over the months or years that she knew you were cheating on her, that you didn't after all love her with your whole heart. You crushed her and you kept crushing her and her loss of feelings for you was the only possible result.
Kari Panda 1 year ago (edited)
Also what’s with the wife blaming? Cheaters aren‘t 'driven' into cheating. If there‘s an unfulfilled need in your marriage, use your mouth and speak up, you’re an adult. Cheaters CHOOSE to cheat, and I guarantee you for every problem their partner fixes, they find three new faults with them to justify cheating.
Load More Replies... Littlemiss 1 year ago
Wow he cheated for 6 years, but is shocked beyond belief that his wife (who probably knew) started her own affair. Now he's angry, hurt and surprised? What a loser, you reap what you sew douchcanoe. All those b.s comments saying don't tell her, she doesn't need to know about your affair pffff.
sweet emotion 1 year ago
I hope the wife got the house, the kids, alimony, child support, the in-laws (except OP's brother), the entire friend group AND her affair partner.
Michael 1 year ago
How so incredibly selfish. How can he feel sorry for himself 🤔 How.. 6 years! He's so hurt finding out his wife did the same thing he did, and most likely because of his affair...What a fn jk..Here he was thinking about his self for 6 years and here we are again thinking about him self again..He shows no feelings towards his ex wife what so ever..unbelievable! Truly unbelievable what a piece of s--t not to mention children involved ect. Go F yourself you fn loser
KatSaidWhat 1 year ago
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. *breathes* HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. If this is actually true and not some attempt at a novella on getting caught in your own trap, the karma is beautiful. And all those cheaters defending him, telling him to not confess, I hope the same happens to you.
Meagan Glaser 1 year ago
So many dudes talking about how if they got enough sex, they wouldn't cheat. or in other words, "I can't be expected to act like I care about my wife if she's not doing something to sweeten the pot enough"
zims 1 year ago
I love that one guy coming in to confidently declare that the marriage must be a sexual wasteland, and the OP shutting him down immediately. Your experiences are not universal, m'dude.
Load More Replies... The_Nicest_Misanthrope 1 year ago
What a complete f*****g loser. Final result made me so happy. 😆
SBocker78 1 year ago
Did the person who wrote the poll not even bother to read the whole article?
Fellfromthemoon 1 year ago
Wife went through all those emotions (and even more) several months ago. When she discovered or realized her husband being unfaithful. It's always the case: whoever breaks up has to go through those emotions first, the other party only after the breakup. She had the better sense to find a partner before breaking up (her judgement might have prioritized the children's safety.)
zims 1 year ago
OP is in la-la land, his brother and everyone that advised him are crab bucketing him, and his wife screwing him over is just icing on the cake. I can't even laugh at this, two marriages destroyed and more on the way, cheaters and adulterers abound. The person who said "Your kids won't hate you" is lying, they have no idea how his kids will react, but given they're girls whose dad cheated on a 20-year marriage for a solid chunk of their lives, they will likely side with the mother.
Winnie the Moo 1 year ago
He did not confess though. He told her he knew she was having an affair. He didn’t own up to sh it.
Laura A Ivett 1 year ago
This is bezutiful Karma, that piece of s**t got everything he deserved. Imagine f*****g another woman for 6 years then crying about how much you love your wife and can't imagine life without her than to find out the wife is having an affair because she knows all about YOUR affair, and now he's all butt hurt, he deserved every f*****g bit of this, he is garbage... the wife is a badass, good for her.
Charlie Haase 1 year ago (edited)
You feel blindsided? Screw you, you got exactly what you deserved. AH
D “Mr Moisture” Maledicco 1 year ago
Wow, what a gross person. I can't imagine putting someone I love through any of that.
person (i think) 1 year ago
He doesn’t give a s**t about his wife as a person. He never says he feels bad for hurting her, just that he doesn’t want to lose the home life that she created. He is _still_ only feeling sorry for himself.
Rebecca Joan 1 year ago
Doesn’t surprise me. Men are so entitled they’re allowed to f**k around, but if their wife secretly finds out and then starts f*****g around behind their back, it’s a problem? Give me a f*****g break. I’m so glad this man’s life imploded. Makes me so happy when scumbags like this get there just desserts.
Crystalwitch60 1 year ago
You’re a deluded man ! Now after cheating for 6 yrs you want your wife wtf is wrong with you I loath cheats you destroy lives !
titansterritory 1 year ago
He let the penis come between us. OP, you're an immature, self-centered, egotistical prick who reaped what he sowed. Not one ounce of empathy for you. Grow up douche bag.
zims 1 year ago
The most unbelievable part is this loser getting two different women to sleep with him.
Load More Replies... t4cwsgd9kc 12 months ago
…I’m a ploy lady have a husband and partner we both live together. This is a classic case of p***s brain. Sorry but you don’t love fucken s**t if you think s*x makes a marriage. “I know my wife” no you knew her AND your AP pussies. Go jerk it or get an escort. Sad sad loser. It’s called talk to your partner and ask for open marriage BEFORE you stick your d**k in something. She can do whatever she wants because YOU decided to f**k around. Same for her if she open her legs without talking to you first BEFORE you did it.
Vicky Stewart 1 year ago
OP is a self-centred egotistical d******d. Having read all of the updates... he is just awful. Whilst I don't think it is OK that the the OP's ( hopefully ex- ) wife also had an affair... it's kind of understandable... if the OP had been having one for SIX YEARS... SIX FRAKING YEARS, she would've known. Impossible not to. In all honesty, couldn't give a d**n about the OP. He sounds awful. And... for the comment saying that the kids would forgive and still love him. I didn't. Mt dad had an affair for many years. It was a sigh of relief when he finally split. I was 13... saw him once since then. He is now dead... and I felt no pang of regret. He brought it all upon himself... rather like the OP.
Carolina Steve 1 week ago
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Tommy DePaul 8 months ago
You have no self awareness, no moral compass, and you're narcissistic on top of it all. Make a copy of your post but have your wife do all of your actions and you do all of hers. See it now? Thanks for the entertainment. Shakespeare would have some suggestions about what to do next.
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Eunice Probert 1 year ago
This was from four years ago, on Reddit. Good old BP, you've done it again!
FluffyDreg 1 year ago
You are older than 4. So by your logic you shouldn't be here. Irrelevant. Don't bother getting any book. Many of then are older than 4 years too.
Load More Replies... FluffyDreg 1 year ago (edited)
Kinda conflicted. Yes. He f****d up. Big time. Horrifically. Hurt his wife who at the time loved him and felt destroyed. I am by NO means condoning his actions. What im conflicted about is how confused he genuinely is. And not confused like we know it, but emotionally. He doesn't know what he wants, he doesn't know how to express it, he doesn't know how to control it either. And normally I wouldn't bat an eye but.... he's clearly aware of it, and dislikes it. There are horrible people in this world. People who would go out of their way to hunt down their Ex to ruin their lives. We have people who throw acid on those who reject them. People who r*pe and murder, and dont feel any guilt. Cheaters who genuinely think it's their PARTNERS fault they cheated. But this guy doesn't seem like any of that. He appears to be someone who doesn't think about what he does before doing it. Doesn't know how to communicate. Doesnt understand his own emotions. I think calling him a man-child is pretty accurate. He hasn't grown up. He hasn't matured. But thats the thing, that's what I'm seeing. Someone who is too immature to have ever been in a position of control. Someone given million times of responsibility more than he should have. This doesn't mean I think he's innocent. That he didn't do bad things. That he didn't hurt people. Just that his actions were not driven out of a desire to hurt and control. Which is how I define horrible and bad people in general. Imo a horrible person is someone who doesn't feel like they should be held responsible snd seeks out the ways to hurt people whether they realize it or not. Being genuinly guilty for your actions means you are not a truly horrible person, you have potential to grow into a better person. You still deserve consequences for your actions. And in this story he deserved everything that happens to him... But I also feel like he needs serious help- and would actually benefit from it.
Tommy DePaul 8 months ago
Where does he show remorse for the hurt he caused? (Remorse for the losses he suffers due to his actions doesn't count.) And he does suggest that if his wife was enough he wouldn't have cheated. He's King Baby. "I want it. Give it to me. Now." About as far from adulthood as you can get.
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