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Restaurant Table Becomes Nappy Changing Station, Making Nearby Diners Nauseous
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Restaurant Table Becomes Nappy Changing Station, Making Nearby Diners Nauseous

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A visit to a restaurant turned into an unexpected rollercoaster of odors and frustrations for Reddit user u/BloodEternal and their friend.

As the two sat cozily in the back corner booth, a couple of mothers settled nearby with their babies. Initially, everything looked fine, with the little ones being fed and content, but then, a nasty smell filled the air, and the source of the stench became apparent — the babies had decided to have a joint “number two” moment.

However, the worst part was yet to come.

When these two friends went to a restaurant to have dinner, they didn’t even imagine how smelly it would get

Image credits: K8 (not the actual photo)

And the odor didn’t come from the kitchen or the toilet

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Parents often try to avoid situations like this one

According to Joshua Bartlett, who together with his wife are raising three girls and one boy, and run the parenting blog Natural Baby Life, proper etiquette for changing your baby in public is to be as discreet and out of the way as possible and to dispose of the dirty diaper quickly.

“Public restrooms, your vehicle, or a stroller are the best places for changing,” Bartlett wrote, adding that bringing the right supplies on a trip allows moms and dads to change their baby anywhere that is out of the way of others.

“The ideal situation would be for every establishment to have a changing table where you could change your baby, but I know I personally have been stuck in a place without a changing table far too many times,” the father explained.

In general, Bartlett believes parents should follow these guidelines when changing diapers in public:

  • Use public restrooms or changing stations whenever possible – that is why they are there;
  • If no changing area is available then be sure to move far away from others (out of sight and smell range) before changing;
  • Use your vehicle if it is reasonably close;
  • Dispose of the dirty diaper properly (in a sealed bag thrown into the trash) or seal it so that it doesn’t stink and keep it with you if you can’t throw it away;
  • Be prepared with the proper supplies so you don’t have to rely on what’s available.

We don’t have all the details, but it sounds like the women could’ve found another way to change their babies’ diapers.

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Some restaurants ban children altogether

To avoid the possibility of something like this happening at their establishment, some restaurant owners take rather drastic steps.

For example, this year, Nettie’s House of Spaghetti in Tinton Falls in New Jersey, United States, has decided to ban entry for children less than 10 years of age.

“Between noise levels, lack of space for highchairs, cleaning up crazy messes, and the liability of kids running around the restaurant, we have decided that it’s time to take control of the situation,” its announcement said.

However, many places aren’t ready to take on a risk that comes with such a decision. A National Restaurant Association survey indicated that families with children less than 13 years of age represent 30% of restaurant traffic in the country.

But removing children from this environment might not be the solution. Clinical social worker and registered play therapist Leigh Ellen Magness told The Food Institute that banning children from somewhere sends “a clear message that we don’t think they’re capable of the skills required to be there.”

“It certainly does nothing to help them practice social skills, table manners or waiting patiently,” Magness added.

“If they can’t practice those skills now, with the help of adults for guidance and support, they become adults who don’t have those skills either.”

As the story went viral, its author provided a bit more information on the whole ordeal

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And people had plenty of reactions to it

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With some sharing their similar experiences

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Alexandra
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I get the idea that mothers go a little overboard with motherhood. Being a mother does not make you a saint nor does it entitle you to anything that's detrimental to an entire restaurant (health code violation).

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Marion Vambre
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Completely agree! It reminds me of this one time at an interior decor store when a little girl spent half of her time with her finger in her nose and the other half touching all the items on the shelves, everywhere. And another time, at the bakery, there was a kid who kept coughing and coughing right above the display where pastries were placed... and every time, the parents just looked on with an indulgent and lax attitude. And then people wonder why diseases spread so easily?!

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Beth H
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to stop a woman from changing her baby at a table while working at a fine dining restaurant a couple years ago. I was dumbfounded that she thought she could. It was a very old inn with tiny bathrooms and no changing tables. But, her baby could already stand so no reason she couldn't do it in the bathroom. Or the car. Or anywhere other than in a table in a dining room.

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Marion Vambre
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes you wonder if some parents don't unconsciously harbor this rather petty jealousy: 'We have to deal with poop, pee, and vomit every day, so let's impose it on others whenever we can.'

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I worked in a restaurant, I saw this multiple times. WE HAVE CHANGING STATIONS IN ALL THEE BATHROOMS you filthy animal.

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Big Chungus
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would never do this. If the bathroom is bad, I take my child and change him my SUV trunk. No reason at all to expose everyone to this plus the biohazard and sanitary issues.

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zak
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The restaurant should be able to charge them the bill for any neighboring table that had to endure this c**p (literally). Plus an additional "sanitizing" fee for having to clean the whole area.

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Dre Mosley
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is gross and inappropriate to do at a f***ing table in a restaurant. Take your kid to the bathroom where many have changing stations or take them out to the f***ing car and do it.

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Abel
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is Lovecraftian The babies had a plan; they were coordinated 🤢

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Helen Jones
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in restaurants for 20 years and just when you think you’ve seen all types of disgusting, stupid and rude behaviour, some d*ckhead will always surprise you. It’s why I’m a bitter old curmudgeon now!

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Dizzie D
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any restaurant should immediately stop that. Restaurants fault for letting that baby's bum even hit the table, let alone allowing the mothers to fully change them. Absolutely and utterly disgusting behaviour. Who the holy hell wants to smell baby shite whilst they are eating food. Makes me gag just thinking about it.

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Khall Khall
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just a reminder that you don't have any sense other than touch, scientifically speaking. Light touches your eyes, you see. Sound touches your ear drums, you hear. Food touches your taste buds, you taste. Particles of matter touch your mucus membranes, you smell. If you can smell it you're inhaling it. This is so gross.

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Claudia Stieble
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We once had a lovely well loved cafe/restaurant in my area of the city. it was the to-go spot if you wanted a nice cuppa and some snacks, small meals or home-made cake. Well, one day some young-ish mothers, let's call them cappucchino mothers, discovered this cafe. At first it was fine, some of the children were a bit unruly but nothing out of the ordinary, the owner even accomodate them by purchasing toys and art supplies like those table mats the kids could colour in. First it was 3 moms and their offsprings but they multiplied over the weeks and the kids became more and more unruly. Then came the moms with newborns and babies. There was a changing station but apparently they did not want to leave the chat for 5 minutes, b/c they changed the s****y diapers at the tables. The owner complained about health violations, they screamed "discrimination", by that time not many more other patrons came and in the end he closed the cafe and went away.

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Lizzie Lola
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first thought was, newborns make your brain mush, then I got to the end. WTF?!

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Viktor
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9 months ago

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This is clearly inappropriate and I have, more than once, changed my child in the back of the car because there was no other appropriate option. But OP clearly needs to learn a thing or two about babies and people. Newborns drink milk, exclusively. Their poo really doesn’t stink. Maybe a bit like old milk but certainly not fruit or fish. It’s this combination of false information and the emphasis on ‚young mothers‘, as if older ones are better behaved, that leaves me with mixed feelings.

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tl gmc
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not true, when my sister pooped as a baby it made you gag. A lot of babies poop smells disgusting and rotten fruit and fish is an appropriate description. You got lucky you didn't smell it. And that first diarrhea god awful stunk the whole house up

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Alexandra
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I get the idea that mothers go a little overboard with motherhood. Being a mother does not make you a saint nor does it entitle you to anything that's detrimental to an entire restaurant (health code violation).

marion_vambre avatar
Marion Vambre
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Completely agree! It reminds me of this one time at an interior decor store when a little girl spent half of her time with her finger in her nose and the other half touching all the items on the shelves, everywhere. And another time, at the bakery, there was a kid who kept coughing and coughing right above the display where pastries were placed... and every time, the parents just looked on with an indulgent and lax attitude. And then people wonder why diseases spread so easily?!

Load More Replies...
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Beth H
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to stop a woman from changing her baby at a table while working at a fine dining restaurant a couple years ago. I was dumbfounded that she thought she could. It was a very old inn with tiny bathrooms and no changing tables. But, her baby could already stand so no reason she couldn't do it in the bathroom. Or the car. Or anywhere other than in a table in a dining room.

marion_vambre avatar
Marion Vambre
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes you wonder if some parents don't unconsciously harbor this rather petty jealousy: 'We have to deal with poop, pee, and vomit every day, so let's impose it on others whenever we can.'

Load More Replies...
rayceeyarayceeya avatar
Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I worked in a restaurant, I saw this multiple times. WE HAVE CHANGING STATIONS IN ALL THEE BATHROOMS you filthy animal.

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Big Chungus
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would never do this. If the bathroom is bad, I take my child and change him my SUV trunk. No reason at all to expose everyone to this plus the biohazard and sanitary issues.

zak_1 avatar
zak
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The restaurant should be able to charge them the bill for any neighboring table that had to endure this c**p (literally). Plus an additional "sanitizing" fee for having to clean the whole area.

dremosley avatar
Dre Mosley
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is gross and inappropriate to do at a f***ing table in a restaurant. Take your kid to the bathroom where many have changing stations or take them out to the f***ing car and do it.

abel_2 avatar
Abel
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is Lovecraftian The babies had a plan; they were coordinated 🤢

helenjones78 avatar
Helen Jones
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in restaurants for 20 years and just when you think you’ve seen all types of disgusting, stupid and rude behaviour, some d*ckhead will always surprise you. It’s why I’m a bitter old curmudgeon now!

dizzied avatar
Dizzie D
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any restaurant should immediately stop that. Restaurants fault for letting that baby's bum even hit the table, let alone allowing the mothers to fully change them. Absolutely and utterly disgusting behaviour. Who the holy hell wants to smell baby shite whilst they are eating food. Makes me gag just thinking about it.

khallkhall avatar
Khall Khall
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just a reminder that you don't have any sense other than touch, scientifically speaking. Light touches your eyes, you see. Sound touches your ear drums, you hear. Food touches your taste buds, you taste. Particles of matter touch your mucus membranes, you smell. If you can smell it you're inhaling it. This is so gross.

clasti avatar
Claudia Stieble
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We once had a lovely well loved cafe/restaurant in my area of the city. it was the to-go spot if you wanted a nice cuppa and some snacks, small meals or home-made cake. Well, one day some young-ish mothers, let's call them cappucchino mothers, discovered this cafe. At first it was fine, some of the children were a bit unruly but nothing out of the ordinary, the owner even accomodate them by purchasing toys and art supplies like those table mats the kids could colour in. First it was 3 moms and their offsprings but they multiplied over the weeks and the kids became more and more unruly. Then came the moms with newborns and babies. There was a changing station but apparently they did not want to leave the chat for 5 minutes, b/c they changed the s****y diapers at the tables. The owner complained about health violations, they screamed "discrimination", by that time not many more other patrons came and in the end he closed the cafe and went away.

lizzielola avatar
Lizzie Lola
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first thought was, newborns make your brain mush, then I got to the end. WTF?!

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Viktor
Community Member
9 months ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

This is clearly inappropriate and I have, more than once, changed my child in the back of the car because there was no other appropriate option. But OP clearly needs to learn a thing or two about babies and people. Newborns drink milk, exclusively. Their poo really doesn’t stink. Maybe a bit like old milk but certainly not fruit or fish. It’s this combination of false information and the emphasis on ‚young mothers‘, as if older ones are better behaved, that leaves me with mixed feelings.

tlgmc avatar
tl gmc
Community Member
9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not true, when my sister pooped as a baby it made you gag. A lot of babies poop smells disgusting and rotten fruit and fish is an appropriate description. You got lucky you didn't smell it. And that first diarrhea god awful stunk the whole house up

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