Bride Immediately Thinks Of Her MIL When Her Heirloom Diamond Earrings Go Missing, Calls The Police To Find Out She Was Right
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Family heirlooms are items that are passed down through generations and they have immense sentimental value. It connects you with people in your family that are no longer alive or who you didn’t even have the chance to meet. Not only are they sentimentally valuable, but they usually have a decent monetary value as old things of good quality are expensive.
This woman on Reddit received her family heirloom before her wedding and it was a pair of earrings given to women in each generation. She loved them, but the bride wasn’t the only one. Her mother-in-law took a particular interest in them and thought she could just take them and now is facing the possibility of charges.
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Bride’s earrings go missing on her wedding day and she knows exactly who took them but fails to retrieve them and needs to call the police
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The Original Poster (OP) got engaged a year ago and then her mom gave her a pair of earrings that were passed down to women in every generation. They were a luxurious pair of earrings with 4-carat diamonds in them. One diamond of such size can cost anywhere from about $28,000 to $160,000 depending on shape, color, cut, and clarity.
The earrings meant a lot not only because they cost a little fortune, but also because they once belonged to the OP’s grandmother and she sadly had passed away a couple of months earlier, so it was a little piece of her that the woman could carry with herself.
The woman got engaged a year ago and received a pair of diamond earrings that are her family’s heirloom
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The OP was planning on wearing these earrings on her wedding day so when she went dress shopping, she wanted to make sure the dress matched them. The woman took her mom, sister and MIL to come with her and help her choose. That is when her MIL saw the earrings and was mesmerized by them.
When these earrings went missing a week ago on the day of the wedding, the OP immediately knew that it was her MIL who took them. The bride confronted her but she pretended not to know anything. What was even more suspicious was when she was asked to show her purse, she refused.
She planned on wearing them at her wedding and even chose a dress to match them, impressing her mother-in-law
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They weren’t just a pair of earrings that you can buy anywhere and they were of high value. As Reclaimed Leather puts it, “Heirlooms represent family history, wealth, and treasured memories. They’re more than objects, serving as symbols for stories that deserve to be recounted and preserved indefinitely. <…> A family heirloom connects you to the struggles and successes of your loved ones, and because of that, they’re irreplaceable.”
Because of that, the bride decided to call the police. Surprise surprise, they found the earrings in MIL’s purse, so the bride had the right to press charges, but it was her mother-in-law, after all, her now husband’s mom, so she wanted to consult with him first.
A week has passed and even though her husband will support any decision the OP takes, she was hesitant to take action. Her husband’s family are sending her threats and her MIL is also very angry with her.
When Bored Panda contacted the OP, she told us that when the police found the earrings in MIL’s purse, she wouldn’t admit that she took them. The mother-in-law hasn’t apologised since then and the woman guesses that she stole the earrings because she wanted her to have a meltdown as the two of them never got along in the first place.
Her mother-in-law was so mesmerized by the earrings that when they went missing on her wedding day, the bride knew it was she who took them
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Most often women already have a hard time getting along with mothers-in-law. Madeleine A. Fugère, Ph.D. who is a professor of Social Psychology at Eastern Connecticut State University states that it most often happens because the mother-in-law wouldn’t have chosen the woman their sons have based on the traits they value.
Mother-in-laws may be intimidated by their beauty, feel competition over the man’s attention or unconsciously discourage long-term relationships as looking from an evolutionary perspective, short-term relationships benefit men more.
So imagine that on top of that, the son doesn’t have that good of a relationship with his mother and the mother-in-law steals a very valuable piece of jewelry from the daughter-in-law.
After the mother-in-law refused to show her purse, the bride called the police and they found the earrings inside of it
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Now the woman is hesitant to press charges as she got a lot of threats and angry messages both from her MIL and her family
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People in the comments were encouraging the OP to do it as if it happened once, it will happen again. They found it especially evil that the mother-in-law waited for the wedding day to take them as she most probably realized that it would have upset the bride. Redditors also advised the OP to report the harassment as well to add to the case.
The woman noticed all the comments and told us that their observations opened up her eyes. The OP decided to listen to their suggestions as it was already what she was thinking to do, “I’ve decided to press charges so I’m just building a case towards my mother in law.”
Why do you think the OP’s mother-in-law stole the earrings? Do you think that the woman should press charges? Let us know your reactions and observations in the comments.
Commenters believe that there is nothing to think about and she should definitely press charges to prevent it from happening again
This needs to go on the public record--OP needs to press charges. Otherwise, she is in for a lifetime of grief, or as long as she is married to MIL's son. The older someone is, the less likely they are to change. MIL will be stealing again unless she is stopped in her tracks.
You're exactly right. They'll continue to bully her and change the narrative to fit what picture MIL wants to paint of what happened that day. It's just disgusting dealing with people like that. She deserves to go to jail for her horrible behavior. That she will continue to repeat with anyone she thinks she can take advantage of.
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Follow up from the OP: "She’s still refusing to admit she did it even though she was caught on camera but my guess is she did it to ruin my day. She’s never been the nicest to me and I think she just wanted me to have a meltdown."
Thanx for the update. It's really nice of OP to think MIL wanted her to have a meltdown. I thought MIL would be after the $$$ 4 carat is hefty
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OP is so obviously NTA in any way. No wonder FIL and MIL are divorced. It makes me wonder what she put him through and what his tipping point was (I'm assuming he's the one that divorced her, not the other way around and I have my doubts that the decision was mutual.) Anyone that's on the side of the MIL is also the AH, although, considering how selfish she is, I wouldn't be surprised if some of those people were pressured/manipulated into taking her side.
Agreed on all your points. Those supporting her however are unlikely to know she did steal. I'm pretty sure the MIL lied and made herself out to be the innocent victim of a false accusation.
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This needs to go on the public record--OP needs to press charges. Otherwise, she is in for a lifetime of grief, or as long as she is married to MIL's son. The older someone is, the less likely they are to change. MIL will be stealing again unless she is stopped in her tracks.
You're exactly right. They'll continue to bully her and change the narrative to fit what picture MIL wants to paint of what happened that day. It's just disgusting dealing with people like that. She deserves to go to jail for her horrible behavior. That she will continue to repeat with anyone she thinks she can take advantage of.
Load More Replies... Follow up from the OP: "She’s still refusing to admit she did it even though she was caught on camera but my guess is she did it to ruin my day. She’s never been the nicest to me and I think she just wanted me to have a meltdown."
Thanx for the update. It's really nice of OP to think MIL wanted her to have a meltdown. I thought MIL would be after the $$$ 4 carat is hefty
Load More Replies... OP is so obviously NTA in any way. No wonder FIL and MIL are divorced. It makes me wonder what she put him through and what his tipping point was (I'm assuming he's the one that divorced her, not the other way around and I have my doubts that the decision was mutual.) Anyone that's on the side of the MIL is also the AH, although, considering how selfish she is, I wouldn't be surprised if some of those people were pressured/manipulated into taking her side.
Agreed on all your points. Those supporting her however are unlikely to know she did steal. I'm pretty sure the MIL lied and made herself out to be the innocent victim of a false accusation.
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