Guy Flips Out Over Pajamas, Girlfriend Responds By Plotting A Quiet Escape: “It’s Been Eye-Opening”

Came home and expected s*x. Yeah, get out, girl.

He came home mad and was EXPECTING s e x. You have to be kidding. Kick him out mid sentence.

This is alarming in so many ways. First of all, expecting s*x sets one up for disappointment. Second, you ruin the special aspect of lingerie by insisting on it. And lastly, no one owes you something cute to look at. Jesus Christ on glowing roller skates!!!! Also, my other half has a high libido, but he's not wasting it on OF models and p**n, nor is he trying to make me uncomfortable for his sake. Since s*x is a partner activity, he should try to maybe include his partner.

Ooo this brought things back to me. My first boyfriend and I met when I was 19 and he was 18. He lived at home like 45 minutes away from my college for the first three years. I’d dress up when I went to see him, or when he came to see me. There was strife, and after about a year of being “broken up”, we moved in together. He would get mad that I’d take off my “cute” work dresses and skirts when I got home and put on sweats. Dude, I am tired. He was a díck though and he cheated on me. I still want to fúcking punch him in the face.

This guy is a*****e, and she doesn't owe him "pretty" especially when she's not feeling well. She should leave, because how he's treating her is unacceptable. No one is entitled to demand s*x or fancy lingerie, and having a tantrum because he's disappointed that s*x is not on offer is completely unacceptable. All that said, in a healthy and respectful relationship, always wearing stained and torn grotty clothing around home is unattractive, in either party. Imagine the genders reversed - he walks around the house in stained and torn boxers and a stained t-shirt, and she thinks that's unattractive and disrespectful, and could he please buy some new clothes? If you wouldn't want strangers, neighbours or friends to see you dressed like that, why is that the level of self-respect and grooming your partner deserves? She should buy herself a couple of sets of new loungewear, and recycle the grubbies into rags. Ditching the a*****e goes without saying.

Leggings and a hoodie sounds cute to me. It sounds like he wants a Barbie not a SO.

I hope she makes it out alive.

I think this is habit behaviour and a year from now OP will still be with him

Op should have dumped that garbage full of red flags years ago.

Oh dear god…another one of these nauseating “high value man” idiots.

Been there done that !! 14 bloody yrs it took me to summon up the strength to get out , thing is you don’t see coercive behaviour happening, but this is classic coercion! sod you feeling comfy , as long as he finds u in your smart , and * cough cough * dirty 😂( after a long day a work they will be grimy from the day 🤦‍♀️) clothes n hates your FRESH CLEAN comfy clothes , I’d love to know wtf he wears !! I’m glad to hear you are getting out , I wish I had after two yrs but after previous marriage to a wife beater, I had no strength left , and it makes me so proud to read of other women getting out awful relationships like this , ( and men come to that cos they are just as likely to be suffering it to ) n not stuck in them for years , I was 21 when I got in to the second one 18 the first , back in those days , we just put up n shut up , im now 60 so yup them days ! you got this op we, got your back blessed be lovely xx

Why are you still with him?

Anyone who expects s*x when they get home, or wake you, to shout at you, need to be left far, far behind you. Been there, wasted 10 years. The next step is a slap to keep you in line.

I like "s**y" clothes as much as the next guy but what really does it for me is when my g/f is comfortable enough around to dress down and be comfortable. Especially wearing my old tsirts and boxers and whatnot. I know then that she's probably into me enough to care more about hanging out and being comfy than trying to be s**y for me. Which is s**y to me. My ex had an insane body but dressed more demurely in general, which I appreciated. I found her attractive regardless of what she wore but it just made the times she dressed provocatively that much more provocative.

Gawd.