American Boss Can’t Comprehend European Annual Leave Rules, Gets Put In Her Place
Motivating your employees is difficult, but demotivating them is fairly easy. Two of the signs of a truly great boss are that they’ll treat you with respect and honor their agreements with you. Bad bosses, on the other hand, will try to micromanage you, shame you for having a life outside of work, and for taking time off.
Internet user u/FMLitsSML went massively viral on the Mildly Infuriating online group after sharing how her new boss had a problem with her taking a lot of time off, as mandated by her work contract, and reported her to human resources. Scroll down to read how things turned out, and to see how the internet reacted to such an unjust situation. Bored Panda has gotten in touch with the author of the post, and we’ll update the article as soon as we hear back from her.
Unfortunately, some bosses don’t understand the value of work-life balance and get upset when their staff go on vacation
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An employee opened up about how taking paid time off resulted in her new boss reporting her to human resources
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Well-rested and highly motivated workers are good for the entire business
It’s probably clear to everyone that allowing your employees to use their paid time off is incredibly important. Not only does this set you up as a reliable, trustworthy company that honors its contracts, but it’s in the business’s best interest for everyone to be motivated, happy, healthy, and well-rested.
To put it simply, a healthy work-life balance is a win-win for employees and managers alike. For one, workers who see purpose beyond their jobs and know that they’re being supported no matter what they do are bound to be more loyal to their bosses and stick around longer.
On top of that, people feel energized after spending time with their loved ones, doing the activities that they’re passionate about, and disconnecting from their work emails. And when they get back to the office, they’re more driven, creative, and capable. That leads to better collaboration and results. This, in turn, leads to more profits for the company.
On the flip side, demotivated workers who are stuck in a toxic workplace environment, have to deal with micromanaging and unempathetic bosses, and feel unappreciated are more likely to start looking for better prospects elsewhere. Or they’ll emotionally detach from their jobs, not seeing the point of even trying to do better, leading to a stagnating career and worse results for the company as a whole.
At the end of the day, we’re all responsible for communicating and enforcing our boundaries when it comes to work. If a superior tries to shame you for going on holiday, you can bring the issue you have with this attitude up with them directly, talk to HR, or go speak with their boss. Alternatively, you can reach out to your labor union rep for advice on how best to proceed.
Chronic problems at work can snowball and lead to burnout, which includes exhaustion, cynicism, and inefficacy
If you’re unable to get on the same page and the workplace culture is genuinely toxic, it might be best to start looking for a new job (while also considering taking legal action if your rights as a worker have been breached).
The Harvard Business Review notes that there are three main components to burnout, as determined by psychologist Christina Maslach, from the University of California, Berkeley. These are physical and emotional exhaustion, cynicism, and inefficacy.
Generally, exhaustion lies at the core of burnout. Exhausted employees feel irritable and frustrated and struggle to enforce healthy boundaries both at work and in other parts of their lives. They often find it hard to feel positive about the tasks they have to do at work.
Next, those same employees start to grow more cynical and less engaged at work, distancing themselves from what they do due to unclear expectations, unfair workloads, constant conflict, a lack of meaningful recognition, and a lack of feedback.
The end result? Inefficacy, where the workers notice that their skills aren’t as sharp anymore and they start blaming themselves, thinking that they’re incompetent.
While these three components are often found together, which ones are the most prominent will depend entirely on the person in question and their circumstances.
It’s essential to get proper rest during the work week, not just when you go on vacation
While going on holiday is absolutely fantastic and should be encouraged, getting proper rest during the work week is also vital. Resting after work might not be the same as taking time off, but it has a massive impact on how you feel, how well you perform, and how motivated you are. Sleep deprivation is utterly horrible for your physical, mental, and emotional health.
The Cleveland Clinic notes that sleeping just 1.5 hours less one night already hurts both your immune and cardiovascular systems. Sleep deprivation leads to memory problems, issues with alertness, moodiness, etc.
In the long term, sleep deprivation leads to forgetfulness, slow reaction times, anxiety, and depression, among other things, including a greater risk of developing neurodegenerative diseases.
Big Health suggests that one of the ways you can allow your employees to get better rest and fight back against poor sleep is to have flexible but regular work schedules. That way, your staff can work during their most productive hours while also establishing regular sleep patterns for the best focus and energy.
Meanwhile, managers can promote better work-life balance and boundaries by encouraging their employees to disconnect from work to get proper mental rest. For example, you could discourage late-night emails or working (unpaid) overtime.
Moreover, some companies actually have designated nap rooms where their workers can rest and recharge during the day so they’re more focused. (However, one issue with this is that it can blur the line between work and rest. Not to mention that it’s awkward to sleep at the office.)
What are your thoughts on the entire situation, dear Pandas? Have you ever worked under someone who has had issues with you taking paid time off? How did you handle the situation? What advice would you give people who are completely new to the job industry to help them stand up for themselves and find a proper work-life balance? We’d love to hear from you!
Later, the author shared a few more details about what happened, in the comments of her post
Some readers shared similar stories about holidays and taking paid time off
Here’s how some internet users reacted to the mind-boggling situation
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Share on FacebookThat's the very reason, why Walmart didn't lasted in Germany. The USA based dipshíts thought, german workers' right laws are recommendations, with what they can play, as their egos pleases. Some millions dollars in losses after, they learnt, Germany is not for them. And to be fair for no any other USA-company, what is not a franchise (like the fast-food places -Mc.D, BK, KFC ...) This applies for the rest of the continent. In the poorest european country, workers have more rights, than in the USA. Sadly, for people living over there, but also they are the only ones, who can this change on their national level.
I watched a video about it. It was mind blowing to learn there is/was something called a "Wallmart morning chant" that the employees had to do each day. I was out of words about how disrespectful and cringe that looked. And in Germany of all places? How ignorant a company can be?
Load More Replies...This c**p happens in Canada too. In a one year period I had to use 8 sick days (for a combo of our children's illnesses and my own. I was called into my boss's (who also happened to be the VP of HR) office and berated for taking " too much time off". When I asked if she was still happy with my work she said yes. When I asked if she had any concerns with my results she said no. When I asked why, if that was the case, there was a problem, she told me the "optics" weren't good. Apparently it was more important that the rest of the department saw me at the office than it was for the work to get done. Same reason I wasn't allowed to WFH. She was evil in a lot of ways but this one really rubbed me the wrong way.
America, the land of the free, where every job is indentured slavery.
Start a business and give unlimited PTO. People that are given good benefits tend to like their jobs enough to work hard at it. You catch more flies with honey
Load More Replies...It's the final day of a week of holiday for me. By the end of March I have to have used all of my yearly days off and my annual hour counter must be no more than +/- 14 hours. So a week of pottering around in the garden, reading, drinking lots of tea...and being paid to do so. 😀
I have had this week off as well to use up my remaining holiday days. Use it or lose it.
Load More Replies...Here in Poland I have 26 days off to distrubiute pretty much however I want. The law does require me to take full, uninterrupted 2 weeks once a year but besides that the rest is completely up to me. I don't ask for permission to get my days off, I tell when I'm taking them and they need to adjust to that. Though It's usually considered polite to not take more than 2 weeks at a time just to be fair to your co-workers. If I don't use all the days in the current year they transfer to the next year and need to be used before the end of September. And all this is besides the 13 days off we get yearly for different national and religious holidays. So if we'd sum up everything it's 39 a year. It's not special, it's normal.
I'm not sure what I'd do with 2 weeks straight of vacation. I can't afford to travel or stay somewhere else for that long. Plus my vacation usually involves family and there's only so much time I can stand being with them. ;) I have around a month of leave but I tend to use it in smaller blocks. And we don't really have to get permission - we just let everyone know when we'll be off. And of course we don't take time off during a big meeting or event. I'm American but I'm lucky due to the type of job I have. I know most of us aren't.
Load More Replies...So I'm in Eastern Europe. I have applied for a government gig, a 9 month contract because the job seemed cool. During the interview process, it turned out, they wanted to pay me 600 USD (which is the minimum wage in our country) to go to Australia on MY money (as in I'm paying for everything) AND volunteer the day offs I'm legally entitled to. It took a lot of self control not to laugh in their faces but considering my face comes with subtitles, I think they knew exactly what it is that I'm not saying. We agreed I was not the right person for the job. EDITED: to add that yes, that's not a typo. Australia. Land of the kangaroos, where rent is 4 figures and half a kilo of chicken breast costs 50AUD. The government would have paid me 600USD for the pleasure of working 20 days without pay + being on call at all times.
Evil cannot comprehend Good, tha same way American employers can't comprehend European and South American labor rights.
I know someone who worked happily for a UK company for many years with mutual benefits for both. He had a team of people that he really liked and vice versa. The company got sold to a USA business. Cue, zoom meetings always during out of hours for the UK team and push back when requesting annual leave. One of the last straws was when he was made to attend a meeting in the states, which could have been done by zoom, a couple of days at most before he was going on annual leave. They obviously didn't like that he was taking the annual leave that he was legally entitled to. Result is they lost a valuable and very committed employee who knew the business inside and out. He, of course went on to bigger and better things. The USA attitude seems to be "we live to work" and Europeans " we work to live".
I need to move to Europe. I work for an assisted living community, routinely work more than 40 hours a week, have to clock out for lunch, and get five days of leave after working six months.
Yes, come over, we need lots of hands on beds!
Load More Replies...American bosses are a menace. I've had a few and the worst are the women. They see their employees as their personal staff, which they aren't. Safe to say, none of them stayed very long due to the number of cases brought before the labour tribunal and the fines and damages they had to pay their employees.
Either the boss didn't understand, so it's a training issue, or doesn't care, in which case it's a conduct issue.
I suspect you also need to add in a healthy heap of jealousy over the leave entitlement their subordinates get which they don't.
Load More Replies...My husband works for an American company in Australia. When they first took over the brand my husband had recently come back from 6 weeks leave. The American boss was surprised that the leave had been approved and said that it would be "looked into"
I guess it's due to the industry I work in, but I live in the US and have never been given a hard time about taking my leave or sick time. Although we usually do have a "use it or lose it" policy so you don't end up banking several years worth of time by not ever taking time off. And they have to pay us for unused time when we leave the company. I'm aware that I'm lucky due to having a white-collar job. It should be like that for everyone!
Most USA companies don't have separate sick time, or funeral leave it's all just PTO.
Load More Replies...It's a cultural thing for sure. I'm an American working in Canada. I used to feel a weird guilt taking my vacation days. Now (8 years in Canada) I'm much more accustomed to just taking my vacation. I did switch from a job where I could just pick vacation days (because I made sure it worked with other people's vacation, work commitments, etc.) to a job where I have to put in a request and wait for an okay. I think it would not have annoyed me 8 years ago but now it does.
I was written up twice by my previous school system. Once for leaving two minutes early, and prior to that, when I returned from maternity leave at the beginning of the new school year. I was told that I only needed six weeks and I took eight. Incidentally, I had to use 40 sick days to stay out that long, meaning they had to pay me even though I did not qualify for FMLA.
Why we have to allow those uncivilized attitudes to pollute our social system is beyond my understanding. The us social system is lagging 100 years behind. After all there has been progress in all areas of labour. Production has increased exponentially and yet hours worked haven't diminished and real wages are stagnant. Women have to work to make ends meet and pensions get later and later. BUT, there are so many new billionaires and sycophants.
I fault the company. They either (a) didn't train this manager on what European labor laws require or (b) didn't notice that she wasn't getting it and wasn't going to.
I know this isn't standard for everyone here, but I'm American and work for a Texas based company. I get 30 days of PTO per year, plus 10 sick days and almost all holidays off, including holidays like Presidents Day. My insurance cost is very low as is my deductible. I know I'm in the minority, but I just wanted to say not every American company is awful.
VERY rare. This company is quite an exception.
Load More Replies...This is why I work for myself in the states. I couldn't handle someone telling me what's too much time off. If I'm sick, I'm sick. If I need a mental health day, that's my business. This is a good reminder that companies are not family, their for profit business that want your blood.
Working for one's self brings about new challenges in terms of health insurance.
Load More Replies...I've spoken to Soo many Americans who think that these pesky European employee rights (among other things like free healthcare) are a myth 😐😐😐
All these European employee rights (and other social care regulations) did not fall out of the Eurpoean sky. People and Unions (which are an entirely different thing than in the US) put effort in this since 150 years. In big lines, they are comparable in the E Uand EU-affilliated countries like Norway or Switzerland. In sme areas, they differ massively, e.g. official pension age. It varies between 60 and 67, with the Netherlands aiming for 70 for people born after 2000
If you are a team leader and you are managing an international team you need to know their work culture . Each country has different work policies
As a teacher, during a beginning of the year training, I had to attend an “induction training” for new teachers. However, this was my third full-time year at my current district and had three part-time years prior. So I wasn’t coming in like an average first year teacher. The guest speaker who was a principal from a different district said directly— “ everyone generally gets 10 sick days and three personal days. But don’t take them. It’s a hassle for us to find a replacement for you, and it’s inconsistent for your students. And also, there’s no such thing as mental health days. I don’t understand how anyone in the workforce can think it’s OK for a mental health day, and just take the day off from work “. For someone like me who has a lot of physical issues and has mental health problems as a result of those physical issues, I wanted so badly to tell him just how real a mental health day could be!
I used to manage a team of guys, we all had 31 days annual leave. I spent some of my time reminding them all that their leave is part of their package they earn. It’s theirs to use as they see fit and the company doesn’t own it, they do. You wouldn’t return a chunk of you wages each year so why would you give your company your annual leave?
It happens the other way around as well. A friend of mine worked for a Swedish company that opened a facility in Virginia. They are completely clueless how things work in the US and pretty much refuse to listen when someone tries to explain it. She finally had enough and quit. They had to hire 3 to replace her and last I heard, can't keep workers for long. To top it off, they receive a lot of product on pallets....custom made pallets. Pretty much no one wants them because they're non-standard sizes and often made from materials that other users don't want. They had so many piled so high, the county officials got after them and told them if they didn't get them down to a safe height and also get rid of them, there'd be fines and possible revocation of their business license. Friend told me, I told some people I know that want any pallets. On the second load they tell my guy they want to paid for them, more than the pallet company was going to charge to take them back. Nope, he left.
If you're going to have employees in another state, let alone another country, you need to know the laws & rules for that place. There are going to be many rules and such things that are different than the ones you are used to, and getting mad at employees for not following them when they don't apply where they live is childish & shows a lack of understanding.
52 weeks maternity leave is unfathomable to me. Americans get 12 weeks, unpaid. But the employee is still responsible for their portion of health insurance premiums during that time, so you actually end up paying in to employer.
I really think this sort of thing is one of the reasons the current American administration is so anti-Europe. Europe aptly demonstrates that workers don’t have to be slaves to companies in order to have a well-functioning economy. Workers knowing it _can_ be better is a threat to our oligarchical rulers
Another American bashing post. No surprise at all. Banda loves s******g on Americans.
Sorry if this happens regularly. Have you tried, you know, giving your workers basic labour rights? You can't be "bashed" if there's nothing to be "bashed" about. Just saying.
Load More Replies...Meanwhile I had to get FMLA to be off UNPAID for 8 weeks for a csection and have to have FMLA approved every year to be off for chronic illness. I hate this place.
I used to have a boss that insisted that employees have a total of 80 leave hours accrued before they could request vacation leave, even if the amount of time off was less than 80. It takes a long time for an employee, especially a new one, to accrue that much time. Her reasoning was that she wanted employees to save up time "in case" they got seriously ill or had some other emergency. I argued that the leave hours belong to the employee as a benefit, and they should not have to put off leisure time because of some imaginary catastrophe. We went back and forth on this for years, but eventually she softened up enough to allow more time off without her conditions.
I just started a new job, I get s whole 40 hours of PTO this first year, and have to use it on 4 hour increments. I miss 1 hour to go to the doctor? They dock me 4 hours off of my time. I'd think of moving overseas, but the orange face demon has made foreigners hate me and other Americans, so I'm kind of stuck.
My company is based in America but run in a European style. We get a lot of time off and don't get question. I am very very thankful for this job.
Kind of the law really, you get a certain amount of time off as annual leave, they don't pay you for it and if it's not used you lose it. As long as you use the exact amount of days you're contractually entitled to and don't take the p**s, what's the problem? Demand to be paid for the days this idiot is thinking about not authorising - as that's not a thing in the UK they will soon back down.
European here. My boss told me I had to take some days off because I had too many compared to my coworkers. Well, I couldn't go on holiday because he paid me the bare minimum to survive. I then put my request for a bunch of Fridays off and he obviously accepted it. Well, my coworkers told me that on my third Friday off, he complained that it looked like I was always off. What a psychotic jerk. Ex boss, btw.
Dear Americans, I have 28 days paid leave, can buy a further 10 (out of an additional 5% salary for goodies so could instead buy a laptop etc for nothing), work 37.5 hours a week for a liveable wage and get 3 months full salary sickness a year (with doctors notes obviously)
I completely agree that US labor laws are absurdly restrictive. But for everyone here dumping on American PTO practices, may I suggesting spending some time working for a domestic Japanese company?
Had a lead at tsa they tried to write me up for being off sick and trying to claim excessive. When I asked her when was the last time I called in sick. Her answer 4 mons prior. Yeah I don't call that excessive. You got written up if you called in more than 3 times in a 3 month period. But there was 4 mons between my call ins. She couldn't write me up. USA is bad about people calling in sick to the point one coworker came to work with strep throat and it spread like wildfire with me catching it first.
Used to work for a “good” company that gave everyone their birthday as a PTO day. I wasn’t allowed to take off on my actual birthday because it was month end and I had to do the month end reports. Also used to work for a company that couldn’t give me a hard out time, so I couldn’t schedule physical therapy for the ankle injury that I was exacerbating every day at work.
I understand this. I am scheduled off medical leave 1st 2days of next month. The monthly reports are due by the 6th or 7th depending on the month. I will only have 3 days to do them since I am not allowed overtime or weekend work. I have already warned my boss. He has me covering for another on FMLA. I don't think he understands I will not be able to do both jobs.
Load More Replies...Just to make things clear, for those who do not have such arrangements: Our obligatory holydays/days off (usually around 25 day for a fulltime employee) or not free. When a contract is made, your salary is a certain amount-before-taxes. Depending on you personal situation, taxes are often deducted from this salary by your employer. Your wages are then usually paid out with a fixed amount every month. Your employer usually also safes up a certain percentage from this amount-before-taxes every month. If you take some days off/holidays, you still get paid your steady monthly wages, because your employer already saved up the difference from your monthly pay. So basically, what you get paid every month is, say, 1/13,5 from your full salary-before-taxes, minus 1/12 of your yearly taxes. The surplus on this will usually be paid out in June, as extra holiday-money.
This also means that a fulltime jobb is usually, 5 days a week of 7,5 to 8 hours a day, x 45. 45, because we usually have 25 holidays=5 weeks and then some obligatory free days like 2nd day of christmas, newyears day, 2nd day of easter/pentecost, liberation day, etc.
Load More Replies...I work in public ed and have a fantastic admin team who would literally bend over backwards for us and have always said "Family First". In the 6 years here, I have only seen one person really take advantage. Can people stop ripping on the US please? Some of us really like it here!
Say you're American without saying you're American...bet there is more motivation and dedication in Europe than in the USA
Load More Replies...I'm going to go on a limb and say it depends on the country. I know in Australia, it doesn't matter what country your employer is based, Australian employment laws must be followed. I know my employer has conditions on working overseas to nit only ensure tax laws are followed but to also take in consideration the other countries employment laws.
Load More Replies...That's the very reason, why Walmart didn't lasted in Germany. The USA based dipshíts thought, german workers' right laws are recommendations, with what they can play, as their egos pleases. Some millions dollars in losses after, they learnt, Germany is not for them. And to be fair for no any other USA-company, what is not a franchise (like the fast-food places -Mc.D, BK, KFC ...) This applies for the rest of the continent. In the poorest european country, workers have more rights, than in the USA. Sadly, for people living over there, but also they are the only ones, who can this change on their national level.
I watched a video about it. It was mind blowing to learn there is/was something called a "Wallmart morning chant" that the employees had to do each day. I was out of words about how disrespectful and cringe that looked. And in Germany of all places? How ignorant a company can be?
Load More Replies...This c**p happens in Canada too. In a one year period I had to use 8 sick days (for a combo of our children's illnesses and my own. I was called into my boss's (who also happened to be the VP of HR) office and berated for taking " too much time off". When I asked if she was still happy with my work she said yes. When I asked if she had any concerns with my results she said no. When I asked why, if that was the case, there was a problem, she told me the "optics" weren't good. Apparently it was more important that the rest of the department saw me at the office than it was for the work to get done. Same reason I wasn't allowed to WFH. She was evil in a lot of ways but this one really rubbed me the wrong way.
America, the land of the free, where every job is indentured slavery.
Start a business and give unlimited PTO. People that are given good benefits tend to like their jobs enough to work hard at it. You catch more flies with honey
Load More Replies...It's the final day of a week of holiday for me. By the end of March I have to have used all of my yearly days off and my annual hour counter must be no more than +/- 14 hours. So a week of pottering around in the garden, reading, drinking lots of tea...and being paid to do so. 😀
I have had this week off as well to use up my remaining holiday days. Use it or lose it.
Load More Replies...Here in Poland I have 26 days off to distrubiute pretty much however I want. The law does require me to take full, uninterrupted 2 weeks once a year but besides that the rest is completely up to me. I don't ask for permission to get my days off, I tell when I'm taking them and they need to adjust to that. Though It's usually considered polite to not take more than 2 weeks at a time just to be fair to your co-workers. If I don't use all the days in the current year they transfer to the next year and need to be used before the end of September. And all this is besides the 13 days off we get yearly for different national and religious holidays. So if we'd sum up everything it's 39 a year. It's not special, it's normal.
I'm not sure what I'd do with 2 weeks straight of vacation. I can't afford to travel or stay somewhere else for that long. Plus my vacation usually involves family and there's only so much time I can stand being with them. ;) I have around a month of leave but I tend to use it in smaller blocks. And we don't really have to get permission - we just let everyone know when we'll be off. And of course we don't take time off during a big meeting or event. I'm American but I'm lucky due to the type of job I have. I know most of us aren't.
Load More Replies...So I'm in Eastern Europe. I have applied for a government gig, a 9 month contract because the job seemed cool. During the interview process, it turned out, they wanted to pay me 600 USD (which is the minimum wage in our country) to go to Australia on MY money (as in I'm paying for everything) AND volunteer the day offs I'm legally entitled to. It took a lot of self control not to laugh in their faces but considering my face comes with subtitles, I think they knew exactly what it is that I'm not saying. We agreed I was not the right person for the job. EDITED: to add that yes, that's not a typo. Australia. Land of the kangaroos, where rent is 4 figures and half a kilo of chicken breast costs 50AUD. The government would have paid me 600USD for the pleasure of working 20 days without pay + being on call at all times.
Evil cannot comprehend Good, tha same way American employers can't comprehend European and South American labor rights.
I know someone who worked happily for a UK company for many years with mutual benefits for both. He had a team of people that he really liked and vice versa. The company got sold to a USA business. Cue, zoom meetings always during out of hours for the UK team and push back when requesting annual leave. One of the last straws was when he was made to attend a meeting in the states, which could have been done by zoom, a couple of days at most before he was going on annual leave. They obviously didn't like that he was taking the annual leave that he was legally entitled to. Result is they lost a valuable and very committed employee who knew the business inside and out. He, of course went on to bigger and better things. The USA attitude seems to be "we live to work" and Europeans " we work to live".
I need to move to Europe. I work for an assisted living community, routinely work more than 40 hours a week, have to clock out for lunch, and get five days of leave after working six months.
Yes, come over, we need lots of hands on beds!
Load More Replies...American bosses are a menace. I've had a few and the worst are the women. They see their employees as their personal staff, which they aren't. Safe to say, none of them stayed very long due to the number of cases brought before the labour tribunal and the fines and damages they had to pay their employees.
Either the boss didn't understand, so it's a training issue, or doesn't care, in which case it's a conduct issue.
I suspect you also need to add in a healthy heap of jealousy over the leave entitlement their subordinates get which they don't.
Load More Replies...My husband works for an American company in Australia. When they first took over the brand my husband had recently come back from 6 weeks leave. The American boss was surprised that the leave had been approved and said that it would be "looked into"
I guess it's due to the industry I work in, but I live in the US and have never been given a hard time about taking my leave or sick time. Although we usually do have a "use it or lose it" policy so you don't end up banking several years worth of time by not ever taking time off. And they have to pay us for unused time when we leave the company. I'm aware that I'm lucky due to having a white-collar job. It should be like that for everyone!
Most USA companies don't have separate sick time, or funeral leave it's all just PTO.
Load More Replies...It's a cultural thing for sure. I'm an American working in Canada. I used to feel a weird guilt taking my vacation days. Now (8 years in Canada) I'm much more accustomed to just taking my vacation. I did switch from a job where I could just pick vacation days (because I made sure it worked with other people's vacation, work commitments, etc.) to a job where I have to put in a request and wait for an okay. I think it would not have annoyed me 8 years ago but now it does.
I was written up twice by my previous school system. Once for leaving two minutes early, and prior to that, when I returned from maternity leave at the beginning of the new school year. I was told that I only needed six weeks and I took eight. Incidentally, I had to use 40 sick days to stay out that long, meaning they had to pay me even though I did not qualify for FMLA.
Why we have to allow those uncivilized attitudes to pollute our social system is beyond my understanding. The us social system is lagging 100 years behind. After all there has been progress in all areas of labour. Production has increased exponentially and yet hours worked haven't diminished and real wages are stagnant. Women have to work to make ends meet and pensions get later and later. BUT, there are so many new billionaires and sycophants.
I fault the company. They either (a) didn't train this manager on what European labor laws require or (b) didn't notice that she wasn't getting it and wasn't going to.
I know this isn't standard for everyone here, but I'm American and work for a Texas based company. I get 30 days of PTO per year, plus 10 sick days and almost all holidays off, including holidays like Presidents Day. My insurance cost is very low as is my deductible. I know I'm in the minority, but I just wanted to say not every American company is awful.
VERY rare. This company is quite an exception.
Load More Replies...This is why I work for myself in the states. I couldn't handle someone telling me what's too much time off. If I'm sick, I'm sick. If I need a mental health day, that's my business. This is a good reminder that companies are not family, their for profit business that want your blood.
Working for one's self brings about new challenges in terms of health insurance.
Load More Replies...I've spoken to Soo many Americans who think that these pesky European employee rights (among other things like free healthcare) are a myth 😐😐😐
All these European employee rights (and other social care regulations) did not fall out of the Eurpoean sky. People and Unions (which are an entirely different thing than in the US) put effort in this since 150 years. In big lines, they are comparable in the E Uand EU-affilliated countries like Norway or Switzerland. In sme areas, they differ massively, e.g. official pension age. It varies between 60 and 67, with the Netherlands aiming for 70 for people born after 2000
If you are a team leader and you are managing an international team you need to know their work culture . Each country has different work policies
As a teacher, during a beginning of the year training, I had to attend an “induction training” for new teachers. However, this was my third full-time year at my current district and had three part-time years prior. So I wasn’t coming in like an average first year teacher. The guest speaker who was a principal from a different district said directly— “ everyone generally gets 10 sick days and three personal days. But don’t take them. It’s a hassle for us to find a replacement for you, and it’s inconsistent for your students. And also, there’s no such thing as mental health days. I don’t understand how anyone in the workforce can think it’s OK for a mental health day, and just take the day off from work “. For someone like me who has a lot of physical issues and has mental health problems as a result of those physical issues, I wanted so badly to tell him just how real a mental health day could be!
I used to manage a team of guys, we all had 31 days annual leave. I spent some of my time reminding them all that their leave is part of their package they earn. It’s theirs to use as they see fit and the company doesn’t own it, they do. You wouldn’t return a chunk of you wages each year so why would you give your company your annual leave?
It happens the other way around as well. A friend of mine worked for a Swedish company that opened a facility in Virginia. They are completely clueless how things work in the US and pretty much refuse to listen when someone tries to explain it. She finally had enough and quit. They had to hire 3 to replace her and last I heard, can't keep workers for long. To top it off, they receive a lot of product on pallets....custom made pallets. Pretty much no one wants them because they're non-standard sizes and often made from materials that other users don't want. They had so many piled so high, the county officials got after them and told them if they didn't get them down to a safe height and also get rid of them, there'd be fines and possible revocation of their business license. Friend told me, I told some people I know that want any pallets. On the second load they tell my guy they want to paid for them, more than the pallet company was going to charge to take them back. Nope, he left.
If you're going to have employees in another state, let alone another country, you need to know the laws & rules for that place. There are going to be many rules and such things that are different than the ones you are used to, and getting mad at employees for not following them when they don't apply where they live is childish & shows a lack of understanding.
52 weeks maternity leave is unfathomable to me. Americans get 12 weeks, unpaid. But the employee is still responsible for their portion of health insurance premiums during that time, so you actually end up paying in to employer.
I really think this sort of thing is one of the reasons the current American administration is so anti-Europe. Europe aptly demonstrates that workers don’t have to be slaves to companies in order to have a well-functioning economy. Workers knowing it _can_ be better is a threat to our oligarchical rulers
Another American bashing post. No surprise at all. Banda loves s******g on Americans.
Sorry if this happens regularly. Have you tried, you know, giving your workers basic labour rights? You can't be "bashed" if there's nothing to be "bashed" about. Just saying.
Load More Replies...Meanwhile I had to get FMLA to be off UNPAID for 8 weeks for a csection and have to have FMLA approved every year to be off for chronic illness. I hate this place.
I used to have a boss that insisted that employees have a total of 80 leave hours accrued before they could request vacation leave, even if the amount of time off was less than 80. It takes a long time for an employee, especially a new one, to accrue that much time. Her reasoning was that she wanted employees to save up time "in case" they got seriously ill or had some other emergency. I argued that the leave hours belong to the employee as a benefit, and they should not have to put off leisure time because of some imaginary catastrophe. We went back and forth on this for years, but eventually she softened up enough to allow more time off without her conditions.
I just started a new job, I get s whole 40 hours of PTO this first year, and have to use it on 4 hour increments. I miss 1 hour to go to the doctor? They dock me 4 hours off of my time. I'd think of moving overseas, but the orange face demon has made foreigners hate me and other Americans, so I'm kind of stuck.
My company is based in America but run in a European style. We get a lot of time off and don't get question. I am very very thankful for this job.
Kind of the law really, you get a certain amount of time off as annual leave, they don't pay you for it and if it's not used you lose it. As long as you use the exact amount of days you're contractually entitled to and don't take the p**s, what's the problem? Demand to be paid for the days this idiot is thinking about not authorising - as that's not a thing in the UK they will soon back down.
European here. My boss told me I had to take some days off because I had too many compared to my coworkers. Well, I couldn't go on holiday because he paid me the bare minimum to survive. I then put my request for a bunch of Fridays off and he obviously accepted it. Well, my coworkers told me that on my third Friday off, he complained that it looked like I was always off. What a psychotic jerk. Ex boss, btw.
Dear Americans, I have 28 days paid leave, can buy a further 10 (out of an additional 5% salary for goodies so could instead buy a laptop etc for nothing), work 37.5 hours a week for a liveable wage and get 3 months full salary sickness a year (with doctors notes obviously)
I completely agree that US labor laws are absurdly restrictive. But for everyone here dumping on American PTO practices, may I suggesting spending some time working for a domestic Japanese company?
Had a lead at tsa they tried to write me up for being off sick and trying to claim excessive. When I asked her when was the last time I called in sick. Her answer 4 mons prior. Yeah I don't call that excessive. You got written up if you called in more than 3 times in a 3 month period. But there was 4 mons between my call ins. She couldn't write me up. USA is bad about people calling in sick to the point one coworker came to work with strep throat and it spread like wildfire with me catching it first.
Used to work for a “good” company that gave everyone their birthday as a PTO day. I wasn’t allowed to take off on my actual birthday because it was month end and I had to do the month end reports. Also used to work for a company that couldn’t give me a hard out time, so I couldn’t schedule physical therapy for the ankle injury that I was exacerbating every day at work.
I understand this. I am scheduled off medical leave 1st 2days of next month. The monthly reports are due by the 6th or 7th depending on the month. I will only have 3 days to do them since I am not allowed overtime or weekend work. I have already warned my boss. He has me covering for another on FMLA. I don't think he understands I will not be able to do both jobs.
Load More Replies...Just to make things clear, for those who do not have such arrangements: Our obligatory holydays/days off (usually around 25 day for a fulltime employee) or not free. When a contract is made, your salary is a certain amount-before-taxes. Depending on you personal situation, taxes are often deducted from this salary by your employer. Your wages are then usually paid out with a fixed amount every month. Your employer usually also safes up a certain percentage from this amount-before-taxes every month. If you take some days off/holidays, you still get paid your steady monthly wages, because your employer already saved up the difference from your monthly pay. So basically, what you get paid every month is, say, 1/13,5 from your full salary-before-taxes, minus 1/12 of your yearly taxes. The surplus on this will usually be paid out in June, as extra holiday-money.
This also means that a fulltime jobb is usually, 5 days a week of 7,5 to 8 hours a day, x 45. 45, because we usually have 25 holidays=5 weeks and then some obligatory free days like 2nd day of christmas, newyears day, 2nd day of easter/pentecost, liberation day, etc.
Load More Replies...I work in public ed and have a fantastic admin team who would literally bend over backwards for us and have always said "Family First". In the 6 years here, I have only seen one person really take advantage. Can people stop ripping on the US please? Some of us really like it here!
Say you're American without saying you're American...bet there is more motivation and dedication in Europe than in the USA
Load More Replies...I'm going to go on a limb and say it depends on the country. I know in Australia, it doesn't matter what country your employer is based, Australian employment laws must be followed. I know my employer has conditions on working overseas to nit only ensure tax laws are followed but to also take in consideration the other countries employment laws.
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