Dad Beyond Livid After Boomer Poisons His Son Trying To Prove His Delusional Point
There is a particularly annoying subset of people both online and in real life who live under the impression that just because they don’t have an allergy or disease, then it must basically not be real. As it unfortunately often is the case, these kinds of people tend to be what the internet has named as boomers.
A father vented online about a boomer who purposely and knowingly switched out his son’s dish for one with wheat after refusing to believe that celiac disease is real. We reached out to the dad in the story via private message and will update the article when he gets back to us.
Giving a child with a condition a food they can’t eat is simply cruel
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But one father considered legal action after a boomer purposely switched out his son’s breakfast
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Celiac disease comes with a whole host of complications
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For those who are unaware, celiac disease is an autoimmune disorder that causes people to be intolerant of gluten. Which, I’m sure most of you are aware, is one of the most common proteins found in grains. This includes bread and really any products that have wheat, rye or barley in them. While it might not be as deadly as some food allergies, it’s still no laughing matter.
While most folks with celiac disease won’t exhibit any sort of immediate symptoms, like from food poisoning, there will still be some negative long term effects. Often folks with celiac disease will suffer from sudden weight loss or at least a lack of any weight gain. That might sound like a plus to some, but it’s possible to be below a healthy weight with no way to reach it. Remember, there is no treatment for this disease, the only thing anyone can do is just abstain from gluten for the rest of their lives.
However, at the moment, this boy most likely suffered a variety of gastrointestinal issues. Diarrhea is one of the more common symptoms, but eating gluten can also cause bloating, abdominal pain and even cramps. In extreme cases, the person can even suffer from oral ulcers. Remember, this is all being inflicted on a nine year old boy by a non-relative just because he thinks he knows better.
Celiac disease is unfortunately a lot worse than just “you can’t eat bread,” although that is punishment enough. Folks with celiac may also be at increased risk of depression and anxiety, as well as other mental issues. All in all, there are very solid reasons for the father to be angry, particularly if this was done maliciously.
The father’s anger was absolutely warranted
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Some commenters threw the word “poisoned” around. As dramatic as this might sound, it’s perfectly in place. Eating gluten might not be fatal to a person with celiac, but it’s certainly very uncomfortable. After all, if someone fed you spoiled chicken that gave you diarrhea and abdominal cramps, you would hardly take it as a light joke. Allergies and similar conditions are serious and can lead to medical complications.
Even worse, this is a little boy. Most conditions like this impact children considerably more, as they are not quite strong enough to resist it. While fortunately the boy was ok in this story, it’s entirely possible to imagine a scenario where that wasn’t the case. This perfectly justified the father’s anger at this event. Indeed, it’s probably for the best that he wants to seek actual legal action, as many people would take matters into their own hands.
Indeed, once all the facts are laid out, it’s surprising that the father hesitated to take action. Even if it was an accident, his anger would have been understandable, but this was even worse. This boomer (a term selected by the father himself) was dismissive, rude and ultimately cruel. The father is well within his rights to press charges. After all, if this boomer feels entitled to just ignore other people’s dietary restrictions and allergies, who knows what sort of issues he might cause later.
The dad shared some more thoughts in the comments
Readers were shocked at the boomer’s behavior and some gave a few suggestions
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I have celiac disease. Literally 1/72 of a slice of bread contains enough gluten to trigger a reaction in most celiacs, and some people are even more sensitive. It makes your immune system destroy the cilia in your small intestine, leading to a variety of horrible symptoms that can take months to end. This was unconscionable.
And for people who do not know the levels (i.e., allergy vs celiac vs intolerance): People with a wheat allergy have to go the the hospital after any contact with wheat, even in the air. People with celiac disease will experience pain and gastrointestinal effects even with a bit of gluten. More gluten and they have to go to the hospital. Plus they have a higher risk of cancer after ingesting gluten. People with a gluten intolerance, like me, get the pain (think rats trying to claw their way out of your abdomen), and the wonderful gastrointestinal effects after ingesting even a bit of gluten. None of this is in our mind. It sucks.
Load More Replies...Is the problem "a boomer" or an ignorant, willful adult relative? Because this trend of derisive labeling of groups is unhelpful stereotyping that only reinforces angry divisions in society.
I want to know what the Grandfather did when the kid started vomitting.
Probably told him to "stop being so dramatic," or something to that effect.
Load More Replies...My problem is, will the police actually do something and take this seriously? One person posted that they live in PA...I do too and I'm a mandated reporter as well. I have reported stalking, abuse cases, etc. and they are pretty lax on those cases. Being celiac has me worried they won't take it seriously or be on the grandpa's side and say it was an accident. Or worse...blame the child.
Sue them too, if they don't do their jobs. Bad press is all anyone in power cares about
Load More Replies...Boomer here, and I would never ever put a child or anyone else at risk in this way (or in any way). Celiac disease isn't gluten sensitivity, or intolerance, it can kill. This dangerous man has no respect, or care for others. I'm very sorry this happened.
Exactly this. Most people in anage group would never put their beliefs before another's health. It's plain common sense.
Load More Replies...The former senior pastor at my church had celiac disease that developed into non-Hodgkins lymphoma cancer. Yep, it's that serious. After facing charges, Grandpa needs to be relegated to the worst nursing home in the state, and have his family go totally NC. He is the WORST! (Note: Grandpa's attitude is giving the rest of us boomers a bad reputation. So please don't lump us all together.)
When that happens, it's usually because the person with CD did not manage it well. Regardless of the reason, I'm sorry that happened. Agree re grandpa. I'd give my life for my grandkids. At the very least, grandpa should never be in the presence of the child again.
Load More Replies...Stop labelling boomers. I’m a boomer and neither me nor my friends would be stupid enough to pull such a b******t stunt. He needs to be prosecuted.
Oh my ... why is that? I understand that people who don't have celiac disease avoiding gluten at all costs can really take a toll on your nervous system, as ... it's pointless ... but, even if so, it's THEIR pointlessness, and if they enjoy any of it, should they. Why bother? What, me worry? No, to all. But ... but regardless of any of that, you don't fück around with peoples' food, let alone violate whatever they or their guardian or anyone qualified to do so states that is to follow, or rather to not inflict other on them. So, Granddad doesn't believe in a disease that wasn't yet discorvered or understood when he was young, or more likely, that was known in the professional world already, but just not to him? Let me guess how many medical procedures were in common practice when I was 10 years old, that I don't ever had, or have, heard about? Assuming that "I didn't learn XYZ as a kid, so it's not real!" is just about the dumbest of intentful stupidities.
Because this man who grew up in country with clean water, reliable electricity, education, roads, an FDA thinks he "did it all on his own." He thinks kids today are spoiled, that parents let them pick and choose what they eat. In his day, you ate what you were served and didn't cry about it. Because this nasty jerk has never been really, really sick and has no empathy.
Load More Replies...I hope that your child recovers fully. What a terrible experience for him and you. My own children have severe allergies - some which can cause anaphylaxis. From as soon as they could understand words; we drummed into their heads to NEVER ever put anything in their mouths that Momma or Dad did not hand to them. When they got old enough to read; they learned to read every list all ingredients of every package. .....or they would not accept what was offered.
Talk it out first? WTF? The a*****e is lucky the kid is celiac and not suffering from a life threatening allergy. He could be facing murder/attempted murder charges instead of assault in that case. A*****e should consider it a win that he only committed a premeditated assault on a 9 year old and nothing worse.
And exactly how old is Grandpa? I truly doubt he's of " BOOMER" age. STOP blaming boomers for the world's evils! Edit:True "Boomers" were last born in 1964. They're aged 60-72.
60 Is perfectly acceptable age to be a grandfather to a 10 yo... Even 70 isn't that out....
Load More Replies...It's not just 24 hours of being in pain. The reaction and symptoms can last up to a week. I've seen my husband get sick from something we thought was safe and he would be in pain for almost a week with bloating, nausea, and even flu like symptoms sometimes. This c**p isn't a joke.
Whenever possible, if someone gives you something they know will make you puke, puke on them
Definitely press charges. I think yelling at the grandfather was an under-reaction.
A boomer is an older person born 1946 to 1964. A f*****g idiot is someone that does s**t that intentionally hurts people. You can have idiots in every age group, race, sexual orientation. Don't confuse. We are all not idiots. Yes, I am a boomer (get the pitchforks and torches).
You know what? All the people here freaking out about the word boomer are as bad as the old man getting hung up on the F-bomb. Get over yourselves, and let the downvotes fly.
Guess you haven't experienced the prejudice that exists toward the elderly. If you have, show some understanding.
Load More Replies...I read some guy saying no one had allergies like this when he was a kid. I said yes they did, but they died from allergic reactions before they could get any older.
Just wondering, if the grandfather happened to be of Asian descent, would the author be raging about the "c***k" who poisoned his child? Hate speech needs to stop, including ageism.
Go to the grandfather's home. Drag him into the street and brutally beat him unconscious, then crush every bone in his hands and feet. He will not harm your son again.
Maybe not. But then, the wrong person will go to jail (meaning, not the Horrid Grandpa). Also, what kind of lesson is THAT to teach kids? Better to sue, even if he has Zilch left to pay. I also like the "Worst Retirement Home" option noted above. If "only the good (pass) young", you just KNOW that old J***A** will be sticking around for decades to come. He deserves his pending loneliness for what he did to an innocent child.
Load More Replies...Just to point it out every generation has f*ckwits but baby boomers are a clear majority not a minority, that's why the get the rap they do. It does not mean all of you, but 100% of boomers do seem to get butt hurt at the statistics of their generation being pointed out.
I have celiac disease. Literally 1/72 of a slice of bread contains enough gluten to trigger a reaction in most celiacs, and some people are even more sensitive. It makes your immune system destroy the cilia in your small intestine, leading to a variety of horrible symptoms that can take months to end. This was unconscionable.
And for people who do not know the levels (i.e., allergy vs celiac vs intolerance): People with a wheat allergy have to go the the hospital after any contact with wheat, even in the air. People with celiac disease will experience pain and gastrointestinal effects even with a bit of gluten. More gluten and they have to go to the hospital. Plus they have a higher risk of cancer after ingesting gluten. People with a gluten intolerance, like me, get the pain (think rats trying to claw their way out of your abdomen), and the wonderful gastrointestinal effects after ingesting even a bit of gluten. None of this is in our mind. It sucks.
Load More Replies...Is the problem "a boomer" or an ignorant, willful adult relative? Because this trend of derisive labeling of groups is unhelpful stereotyping that only reinforces angry divisions in society.
I want to know what the Grandfather did when the kid started vomitting.
Probably told him to "stop being so dramatic," or something to that effect.
Load More Replies...My problem is, will the police actually do something and take this seriously? One person posted that they live in PA...I do too and I'm a mandated reporter as well. I have reported stalking, abuse cases, etc. and they are pretty lax on those cases. Being celiac has me worried they won't take it seriously or be on the grandpa's side and say it was an accident. Or worse...blame the child.
Sue them too, if they don't do their jobs. Bad press is all anyone in power cares about
Load More Replies...Boomer here, and I would never ever put a child or anyone else at risk in this way (or in any way). Celiac disease isn't gluten sensitivity, or intolerance, it can kill. This dangerous man has no respect, or care for others. I'm very sorry this happened.
Exactly this. Most people in anage group would never put their beliefs before another's health. It's plain common sense.
Load More Replies...The former senior pastor at my church had celiac disease that developed into non-Hodgkins lymphoma cancer. Yep, it's that serious. After facing charges, Grandpa needs to be relegated to the worst nursing home in the state, and have his family go totally NC. He is the WORST! (Note: Grandpa's attitude is giving the rest of us boomers a bad reputation. So please don't lump us all together.)
When that happens, it's usually because the person with CD did not manage it well. Regardless of the reason, I'm sorry that happened. Agree re grandpa. I'd give my life for my grandkids. At the very least, grandpa should never be in the presence of the child again.
Load More Replies...Stop labelling boomers. I’m a boomer and neither me nor my friends would be stupid enough to pull such a b******t stunt. He needs to be prosecuted.
Oh my ... why is that? I understand that people who don't have celiac disease avoiding gluten at all costs can really take a toll on your nervous system, as ... it's pointless ... but, even if so, it's THEIR pointlessness, and if they enjoy any of it, should they. Why bother? What, me worry? No, to all. But ... but regardless of any of that, you don't fück around with peoples' food, let alone violate whatever they or their guardian or anyone qualified to do so states that is to follow, or rather to not inflict other on them. So, Granddad doesn't believe in a disease that wasn't yet discorvered or understood when he was young, or more likely, that was known in the professional world already, but just not to him? Let me guess how many medical procedures were in common practice when I was 10 years old, that I don't ever had, or have, heard about? Assuming that "I didn't learn XYZ as a kid, so it's not real!" is just about the dumbest of intentful stupidities.
Because this man who grew up in country with clean water, reliable electricity, education, roads, an FDA thinks he "did it all on his own." He thinks kids today are spoiled, that parents let them pick and choose what they eat. In his day, you ate what you were served and didn't cry about it. Because this nasty jerk has never been really, really sick and has no empathy.
Load More Replies...I hope that your child recovers fully. What a terrible experience for him and you. My own children have severe allergies - some which can cause anaphylaxis. From as soon as they could understand words; we drummed into their heads to NEVER ever put anything in their mouths that Momma or Dad did not hand to them. When they got old enough to read; they learned to read every list all ingredients of every package. .....or they would not accept what was offered.
Talk it out first? WTF? The a*****e is lucky the kid is celiac and not suffering from a life threatening allergy. He could be facing murder/attempted murder charges instead of assault in that case. A*****e should consider it a win that he only committed a premeditated assault on a 9 year old and nothing worse.
And exactly how old is Grandpa? I truly doubt he's of " BOOMER" age. STOP blaming boomers for the world's evils! Edit:True "Boomers" were last born in 1964. They're aged 60-72.
60 Is perfectly acceptable age to be a grandfather to a 10 yo... Even 70 isn't that out....
Load More Replies...It's not just 24 hours of being in pain. The reaction and symptoms can last up to a week. I've seen my husband get sick from something we thought was safe and he would be in pain for almost a week with bloating, nausea, and even flu like symptoms sometimes. This c**p isn't a joke.
Whenever possible, if someone gives you something they know will make you puke, puke on them
Definitely press charges. I think yelling at the grandfather was an under-reaction.
A boomer is an older person born 1946 to 1964. A f*****g idiot is someone that does s**t that intentionally hurts people. You can have idiots in every age group, race, sexual orientation. Don't confuse. We are all not idiots. Yes, I am a boomer (get the pitchforks and torches).
You know what? All the people here freaking out about the word boomer are as bad as the old man getting hung up on the F-bomb. Get over yourselves, and let the downvotes fly.
Guess you haven't experienced the prejudice that exists toward the elderly. If you have, show some understanding.
Load More Replies...I read some guy saying no one had allergies like this when he was a kid. I said yes they did, but they died from allergic reactions before they could get any older.
Just wondering, if the grandfather happened to be of Asian descent, would the author be raging about the "c***k" who poisoned his child? Hate speech needs to stop, including ageism.
Go to the grandfather's home. Drag him into the street and brutally beat him unconscious, then crush every bone in his hands and feet. He will not harm your son again.
Maybe not. But then, the wrong person will go to jail (meaning, not the Horrid Grandpa). Also, what kind of lesson is THAT to teach kids? Better to sue, even if he has Zilch left to pay. I also like the "Worst Retirement Home" option noted above. If "only the good (pass) young", you just KNOW that old J***A** will be sticking around for decades to come. He deserves his pending loneliness for what he did to an innocent child.
Load More Replies...Just to point it out every generation has f*ckwits but baby boomers are a clear majority not a minority, that's why the get the rap they do. It does not mean all of you, but 100% of boomers do seem to get butt hurt at the statistics of their generation being pointed out.


































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