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Neighbor Keeps Using Lady’s Property, She Has Had Enough, Blocks Their Water View
Woman wearing construction helmet and plaid shirt smiling while building wall block, showing land dispute resilience and strength.

Neighbor Keeps Using Lady’s Property, She Has Had Enough, Blocks Their Water View

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You know, our ancestors weren’t wrong when they said, “My home is my castle!” In fact, no matter how wonderful our relationships with our neighbors actually are, sooner or later, everything can change over the slightest thing. Or the neighbors themselves can change too…

This is exactly what happened once to the user u/yzforce, the narrator of the story we’re about to tell you today. After ten years of comfortable living with polite and friendly neighbors, she had to endure a real ordeal with the folks who bought her neighbor’s house. Anyway, let’s just cut to the chase.

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    The author of this story has been living in her house for over 15 years, and the first decade was simply nice and calm, with polite and friendly neighbors

    Woman with determined expression standing outside her property, confronting rude neighbors over land dispute issues.

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    Text on a white background describing a woman’s experience maintaining her waterfront land despite challenges from rude neighbors.

    Woman describes rude neighbors encroaching on her land, tolerating years of disrespect before taking a stand to protect property.

    Image credits: yzforce

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    But then the nice neighbors moved out, and another family came, who were very rude and entitled

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    Text about a neighbor dispute and land ownership, describing a fence installation to protect her property at night.

    Image credits: yzforce

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    The new neighbors started occupying part of the author’s plot, storing some of their stuff there and even preparing for some construction work

    Text excerpt from a woman describing rude neighbors blocking her view and concern over building on her own land.

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    Text on a white background discussing tolerance and anger toward rude neighbors trying to steal part of her land.

    Text discussing neighbors setting pilings to block a partial view, highlighting compromise on land boundaries.

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    So the lady just got her land survey and planned to build a high viewing tower, completely blocking the neighbors’ water view

    So, meet the Original Poster (OP), a single lady who has lived in her house on a nice marsh creek for over 15 years. The first decade was simply wonderful. The neighbors were very polite and nice people, so the author didn’t even put up a fence so as not to spoil the water view from their windows. But all good things in this life, alas, come to an end…

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    The good neighbors left one day, and their place was taken by a family who, literally from the very first day, viewed our heroine’s plot as a place to store all sorts of junk belonging to them. The author repeatedly stated that this was unacceptable, but it in fact produced no results.

    Furthermore, it seemed the neighbors were seriously intent on stealing part of her plot and starting some construction there. Our heroine could no longer bear this, and she decided to resort to drastic measures. Fortunately, she had her land survey in hand and could no longer tolerate the insults and threats from this rude neighbor.

    Many homeowners around had already installed tall viewing towers on their plots, and the OP is genuinely interested in doing the same. Yes, she understands perfectly well that doing so would likely completely ruin the neighbors’ water view, but, ultimately, she wasn’t the one who started this feud. So the lady decided to enlist the support of netizens – just in case.

    Riverside land with wooden fence and treehouse illustrating neighbors trying to steal part of her land conflict.

    Image credits: yzforce / Reddit

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    Well, in terms of the legality of installing any structures on the property, if the original poster receives permission from the municipality and presents a proper construction project, the neighbors will be left fuming in impotent anger, watching their water view gradually disappear…

    This dedicated article at Find Law notes, for example, that neighbors in this situation actually have two options. If they are on good terms, they could try to resolve the matter amicably through negotiations. But that is clearly no longer an option in the situation described.

    In other words, now the neighbors can either appeal to the City Planning Commission or, if there’s an HOA in the area, try to enlist their support. And, as a last resort, the neighbors have the option of taking legal action too. However, judging by the photos provided by the author here, the neighbors don’t have much of a chance to prove anything…

    People in the comments also noted that if the neighbors wanted to preserve the beautiful water view, they should’ve simply bought that part of the property from the author, rather than engaging in such an ugly confrontation. “This is a lesson to folks: you can’t assume things will remain stagnant forever,” someone wisely wrote. So what do you, our dear readers, think about this whole story?

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    Most commenters gave the author their fullest support, claiming that she’s doing absolutely right here

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    Woman tolerates rude neighbors for years and finally fights back to protect her land from being stolen.

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    Oleg Tarasenko

    Oleg Tarasenko

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    After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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    Oleg Tarasenko

    Oleg Tarasenko

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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    Lee Gilliland
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turn it around. There is no way neighbor would hesitate, why should you?

    Jac Carr
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The current President has given everyone the right to be selfish & entitled and shout louder than others until they back down. They then whine like babies when the other side fights back. Keep fighting back

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    ॐBoyGanesh
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Entitlement abounds! The southeast corner of a somewhat populated, planned, mauka (uphill) community abuts the north northwest corner of our property. We maintain a “road” around the perimeter of our land to keep the jungle from encroaching on our developed space. Our property touches Oceanside and is adjacent to a popular neighborhood beach. People from the neighborhood tend to use our path and cut through our property to get to the beach. We’ve never really had an issue with that as long as they stay on the pathway/roadway. It became a problem when people started driving their cars & trucks on what isn’t even a proper road. It creates liability for us and is also a nuisance. We eventually had to put a fence up around the entire perimeter of our land as well as gates, blocking their ability to drive onto it. We left a gate sign stating they can walk through and when it would be closed and considered trespassing. We still deal with loud partiers, mostly Airbnb people, traipsing through our home on the way back from the beach late at night.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turn it around. There is no way neighbor would hesitate, why should you?

    Jac Carr
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The current President has given everyone the right to be selfish & entitled and shout louder than others until they back down. They then whine like babies when the other side fights back. Keep fighting back

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Entitlement abounds! The southeast corner of a somewhat populated, planned, mauka (uphill) community abuts the north northwest corner of our property. We maintain a “road” around the perimeter of our land to keep the jungle from encroaching on our developed space. Our property touches Oceanside and is adjacent to a popular neighborhood beach. People from the neighborhood tend to use our path and cut through our property to get to the beach. We’ve never really had an issue with that as long as they stay on the pathway/roadway. It became a problem when people started driving their cars & trucks on what isn’t even a proper road. It creates liability for us and is also a nuisance. We eventually had to put a fence up around the entire perimeter of our land as well as gates, blocking their ability to drive onto it. We left a gate sign stating they can walk through and when it would be closed and considered trespassing. We still deal with loud partiers, mostly Airbnb people, traipsing through our home on the way back from the beach late at night.

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