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Mom Pulls Last-Minute Babysitting Trick On Teen, Regrets It When 6YO Leaves Screaming Metal Lyrics
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Teenagers are often balancing a lot, from schoolwork to their social life, and the pressure to grow up quickly without much guidance. So when responsibilities are unexpectedly dropped on them, especially without any communication or preparation, the results can be unpredictable.
This is especially true when adults assume teens will simply adapt to any situation they’re thrown into, no matter how unreasonable. And that was the mistake made with today’s Original Poster (OP), who was thrown into a babysitting duty she never agreed to and wasn’t equipped for. At the end of the day, she did exactly what was asked, but on her own terms.
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Sometimes, parenting means calling in backup, but when that backup is a teenager with zero prep and a playlist full of metal, things can go sideways fast
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The author’s mom invited a classmate over for a study session, and she unexpectedly brought along her 6-year-old daughter
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The author was then told to babysit the child, even though she had her own studying to do and wasn’t informed in advance
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Left with no child-friendly options, she entertained the child with heavy metal music and a big bag of candy
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After two hours, the child was hyper, racing around the house like a sugar-fueled tornado
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The mom was shocked by the aftermath, but the teen reminded her that she was just following instructions literally
It was a typical Saturday, and the OP was minding her business with her head buried in serious AP coursework. That was when her mother, who was back in college to get her degree, informed the OP that she had a classmate who was coming over. It was no big deal until the classmate showed up with a 6-year-old in tow.
In that moment, the OP was thrown into babysitting duty with no heads-up and even less gratitude. Turns out, it was a sneaky plan by her mom all along, as she knew the answer would’ve been a hard no if asked to babysit. The OP noted that the 6-year-old was polite and easy to handle, but there was nothing remotely appropriate or interesting for the girl in her room.
The only things she had were music, which she stated was explicit, and some candy, so if your guess is that the OP and the young girl listened to heavy metal while munching on all kinds of candy, you guessed right. When her mom’s study session finally wrapped up, the girl was vibrating like a caffeine-chugging hummingbird.
She tore down the stairs and bounced off walls, and her mom had to wrangle her into the car. Back at the door, the OP’s mom’s face mirrored horror, and the OP calmly reported what had happened, explaining that she had just followed the instructions as given—watch the child, no more, no less.
To better understand why teens sometimes engage in malicious compliance, Bored Panda spoke with licensed family therapist Nike Folagbade, who explained that this behavior is “not necessarily defiance,” but often “a mix of protest, emotional expression, and a quiet plea for clearer boundaries.”
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Rather than outright rebellion, she described it as a teen’s creative way of saying, “I’m following the rules, but I’m not okay with them.” This form of passive resistance is common as teens test limits while carving out their identity. Folagbade advised that parents should see these moments as opportunities to “strengthen communication and show that they’re listening,” since deep down, teens just want to be understood.
We also asked about the effects of relying on teens as unexpected caregivers without preparation or appreciation, and she warned that this can lead to what’s known as “parentification,” where teens feel overly responsible for others at the expense of their own needs.
Folagbade emphasized that “teens shouldn’t be expected to quietly take on adult responsibilities as they need validation to turn tough moments into healthy growth, not lasting resentment.” Without proper support, these teens may develop anxiety, blurred boundaries, and the belief that love must be earned through self-sacrifice, potentially harming their future relationships.
Finally, we sought advice on how parents can set expectations while respecting teens’ growing autonomy, to which she suggested parents shift from “command and control” to “coach and connect” by fostering “open, respectful dialogue.”
Folagbade explained that “teens respond better when they feel included and respected, not blindsided,” recommending parents be specific, flexible, and mindful of their teens’ time and stress. Creating space for teen voices and avoiding last-minute demands, she said, “leads to mutual respect and a much smoother path to shared responsibility.”
Although this event happened years prior, netizens applauded the OP’s clever response to the unfair situation, praising her creativity in handling the surprise babysitting task.
What do you think about this situation? What would you have done if you were put in charge of a surprise babysitting situation like this? We would love to know your thoughts!
Netizens applauded the author for maliciously complying in this instance
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Kombatbunni 4 months ago
This is exactly what I would have done, I’d adopt this woman in a heartbeat 😂
Sonja 4 months ago
Shugar rush may not be real, but it is much easier hyping up a kid into a fenzy with a little help of a not so little dose of sugar. Simply because they'll feel great and energetic. If you give them those sweets without hyping them up, nothing will happen. But adding sweets and you can get them really hyped up if you press those buttons! It's just as good as having sugar while learning. It really sticks. Positive reinforcement style! So, a young child+ Pantera alone won't do much, but add some good ol conditioning with super pisitive sugary reinforcement? Bam! Metalhead! Everything is great. Everything is cool, and the little demon will scream those lyrics for days!
Ace 4 months ago
The 'sugar rush causes hyperactivity' thing is a myth. It has been demonstrated that parents believe their kids get hyperactive when they're told the kids have been give lots of sugar, whether they actually have or not, and the reverse is also true.
Lee Gilliland 4 months ago
Not necessarily. We were at an SF con near NYC and one of my "friends" and one of my acquaintances filled up marshmallows with pixie straws (these are little paper straws filled with sour tasting sugar) fed them to my son. He spent the rest of the evening bouncing between the twin beds in the room. I was ready to strangle these two. I had no idea until I heard the pair of them laughing at how hyper they got this kid. Until I mentioned in a rather chilling voice that he was my kid. You have never seen two men turn into little tiny scared globs so fast in your life. It exists.
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Kombatbunni 4 months ago
This is exactly what I would have done, I’d adopt this woman in a heartbeat 😂
Sonja 4 months ago
Shugar rush may not be real, but it is much easier hyping up a kid into a fenzy with a little help of a not so little dose of sugar. Simply because they'll feel great and energetic. If you give them those sweets without hyping them up, nothing will happen. But adding sweets and you can get them really hyped up if you press those buttons! It's just as good as having sugar while learning. It really sticks. Positive reinforcement style! So, a young child+ Pantera alone won't do much, but add some good ol conditioning with super pisitive sugary reinforcement? Bam! Metalhead! Everything is great. Everything is cool, and the little demon will scream those lyrics for days!
Ace 4 months ago
The 'sugar rush causes hyperactivity' thing is a myth. It has been demonstrated that parents believe their kids get hyperactive when they're told the kids have been give lots of sugar, whether they actually have or not, and the reverse is also true.
Lee Gilliland 4 months ago
Not necessarily. We were at an SF con near NYC and one of my "friends" and one of my acquaintances filled up marshmallows with pixie straws (these are little paper straws filled with sour tasting sugar) fed them to my son. He spent the rest of the evening bouncing between the twin beds in the room. I was ready to strangle these two. I had no idea until I heard the pair of them laughing at how hyper they got this kid. Until I mentioned in a rather chilling voice that he was my kid. You have never seen two men turn into little tiny scared globs so fast in your life. It exists.
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