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Woman Doesn’t Want To Be Near Screaming Kids, Proposes An Idea For Child-Free Neighborhoods
Woman Doesn’t Want To Be Near Screaming Kids, Proposes An Idea For Child-Free Neighborhoods
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Woman Doesn’t Want To Be Near Screaming Kids, Proposes An Idea For Child-Free Neighborhoods

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It’s no big secret that every human is entitled to hold their own opinions, even if they’re highly controversial. 

One of the topics that constantly seems to be making the internet rounds is children – specifically, people calling on businesses to stop bending over backward for parents and to start offering a bunch of random services, such as flights, pools, cinema screenings, amusement parks, high-end restaurants, etc., as child-free ones. 

Well, the star of today’s article is no exception. Kitch Catterall, who goes by the name Baby Soja online, recently took to TikTok to propose the development of adult-only neighborhoods.

The Melbourne woman recorded a video of herself at the gym’s parking lot, venting about “screaming” children as she finally reached her boiling point. Many netizens sided with the idea – however, some didn’t quite agree with it. 

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    The idea of child-free things has been the subject of intense internet discussion for what seems like forever

    Image credits: @soybabie__

    “I know I’m evil, but they’re SO loud. Please, I want peace and quiet. Are there adults-only pools in Melbourne??” – an Aussie influencer, Kitch Catterall, took to TikTok to “officially” (and perhaps controversially) call for child-free neighborhoods. The video gained over 262K views and 27K likes, and a heated debate ensued in the comments section.

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    TikToker goes viral with 262K views after calling for “adult-only” neighborhoods

    Image credits: @soybabie__

    “I would like to know when somebody is planning on opening an adult-only suburb where everything in it is only for adults?” the woman said rhetorically at the beginning of her video. Kitch revealed that she is sick and tired of having to tolerate screaming kids wherever she goes. The TikToker shared that when she went for a swim, she noticed that the little ones practically overtook the lap pool despite having their own one. She argued that “evil,” children-hating people like her should have their own suburb where they can be undisturbed. 

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    Kitch Catterall, also known as Baby Soja, proposes creating suburbs with strict “no-kids” policies as she’s “sick” of dealing with noisy children

    Image credits: soybabie_

    As we all know, the internet can be a nasty place, and even if you’re just expressing your personal viewpoint and doing no harm to anyone, people will still criticize you. Kitch received a fair amount of backlash and even had to specify that she was “not bagging on families existing, just sometimes want a quiet break” to a mum who happened to side with her proposal. 

    One commenter sent the TikToker straight to Antarctica, presumably to finally get away from the noisy children; another one said that the ultimate child-free place is already a thing and is called a retirement village. The point is, it seems like a lot of people are quick to label you as this wicked villain for wanting to live a life free of having to encounter screaming and tantrum-throwing kids, but is it really such a bad idea?

    The now-viral video sparked a heated debate amongst fellow TikTok users

    Image credits: soybabie_

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    The woman made a follow-up video where she further explained her position. “So many people [are] pressed in the comments. Like, sorry that some people don’t want to be around kids 24/7. I’m not saying kids shouldn’t be allowed at the pool, it’d just be nice if there were more places that were JUST for adults to enjoy, and that includes parents wanting a break from their kids too. Chill.” 

    Wanting an occasional break, especially if you yourself are child-free, is not criminal. Perhaps it was the delivery that incited all the hate, or maybe the internet is just not a friendly place – whatever it is, we can all agree that a kid-free pool is a heavenly idea. Always. 

    What do you think about this? 

    You can watch the video here:

    @soybabie__ I know im evil but theyre SO loud please i want peace and quiet are there adults only pools in melbourne?? #fyp#kidfree#childfree♬ original sound – Baby Soja

    And while some people supported the woman’s suggestion, others thought her position was quite controversial

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    BoredPandaSucks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i wish there was an a$$hole free neighborhood too, but tough sh!t

    RossJones
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    2 years ago

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    I am making $92 an hour working from home. I never imagined that it was honest to goodness yet my closest companion is earning $16,000 a month by working on a laptop, that was truly astounding for me, she prescribed for me to attempt it simply. Everybody must try this job now by just using this website....................... 𝐖𝐰𝐰.𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝟐𝟒.𝐜𝐨𝐦

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    Ami Tokuda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have a problem with her wish (to each her own), but how is she so optimistic that adults would be better behaved? Drunk adults are louder than kids.

    Lea S.
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all of them. My two favorite bars are pretty quiet places. I run a daycare during the day - the daycare is MUCH MUCH louder.

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    Clara Stallworth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be nice to have one of those, wouldn't it? Problem is, child-free singles get together, hook up, and, nine months later, here comes baby! Suddenly, it's no longer a "child-free" neighborhood, so what, do the couple (or at least the woman) get banished by the community for having a child? (Sounds like a premise for an M. Night Shyamalan movie!) Js...

    Max
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is a lack of child spaces. Not spaces where your kids are allowed, places optimised FOR children. When I was a kid, there were three or four play places on the local high street that were free to use, very cheap, or in stores/cafes and were free with purchase. Also, a lot of places like banks and cafes had a small area with toys (like the bead tracks, or legos) for kids to entertain themselves whilst their parents did boring adult stuff. These give the kids an opportunity to let off steam, and thus they're less screamy and annoying. Nowadays, these things are all gone because they don't make lots of profit, so public spaces with kids in are full of overstimulated, under-exercised children who are loud and cranky.

    Ches Yamada
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! This is 100% an issue - I completely agree kids need to let off steam. Even screaming once in awhile. But we need places for them to do it where it's okay, and safe. Not just open your back door and let loose the little he11ions... take them to a park or something. It's the same as if I don't walk my dog enough and he's fussy and barking. Why is that not allowed but kids can scream like banshees right outside my bedroom? Let them get it out of their systems someplace else.

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    Damira Balent
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all share one world. And there are various anoying factors all around us. I don't mind kids, I mind a******s and a*****e parents who don't parent their children. But you can't control everything in your soroundings. There's traffic, drills, landmowers, dogs barking, teenagers playing loud music etc. The best solution for this girl is to marry a bilionaire and live on some huge property or to go live in Alaska, Siberia, Tibet... Those are pretty child free 😏

    April Stephens
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. I think the best thing for her would be to build her own backyard pool, swim at a friend's backyard pool, or maybe join a gym that doesn't allow kids with a pool. I don't know if she can afford it.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the adults in the neighborhood are responsible adults, then children will not be a problem. If the adults in the neighborhood are not responsible adults, you've got big problems whether there are children there or not.

    LA Murphy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I completely agree. Children have taken over every space and their behavior has become much worse. Children used to know how to be seen and not heard (like keep your voice down inside and don't disturb other people), but now they are just obnoxious. And what is with girls just screeching/screaming like they are being murdered when they are playing outside? Annoying.

    The crushinator
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oof, i feel you. I'm currently in a flat that's part of a block that surrounds a playground (moved there out of nessecity at the time) and for someone who's pretty sensitive to sound, the screeching is absolute torture. I don't blame the kids because if you're can't screech and act like a fool on the playground, where are you going to do it?? But i really, really hope i am in a position to move soon because the screeching man, it hurts my soul.

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    Nattie Rice
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a single, 35+ woman I can say this with all the honesty in my heart, I would love an adult only neighborhood. I hate kids and haven't had any of my own for a reason, so how come every time I go somewhere with my friends (non-alcoholic places) I have to put up with other people's? From restaurants, to movie theaters, to grocery/clothing shopping, someone has brought their kid and they're completely unable to keep the damn thing quiet. So I would pack up my animals and move in a heartbeat to an adult only neighborhood, just add my name to the wait list for it.

    Bex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally get this, as there are times I want to tape the mouths of my kids shut just to get some quiet. But, I think it needs to be recognized that the problem isn't the kids - it's the parents who let the kids behave this way in public. Yes, the brach, a playground, etc are places where kids can and should be allowed to run around and be loud, but, they should have been taught to do that with consideration to the other people there, or be supervised by a parent/adult making sure they are considerate for the other people. So many time individual groups get blamed for problems (it's the kids/parents/boomers/millennial, etc who cause the problem) when really it's a lack of common courtesy and consideration for other people that is causing the problem.

    Ches Yamada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely agree it's the parents! But that doesn't help the fact that the source is an annoyance.

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    Brandy P
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just glad I'm not the only person (woman, especially) who doesn't have positive emotions about children. I was once told I had to "heal" because I didn't want kids. At work. By a subordinate. To my boss.

    Susan Schlee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's BS. I was once told by co-workers I had to have kids because my mother needed grandchildren. I told them she does- they're just four legged and furry! I get so tired of people assuming a woman MUST have kids. Nope- don't want them- didn't want them when I was a kid, thus I will never have them, and no, I will NOT miss out on anything in life.

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    BoredPandaSucks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i wish there was an a$$hole free neighborhood too, but tough sh!t

    RossJones
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    2 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

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    Ami Tokuda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have a problem with her wish (to each her own), but how is she so optimistic that adults would be better behaved? Drunk adults are louder than kids.

    Lea S.
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all of them. My two favorite bars are pretty quiet places. I run a daycare during the day - the daycare is MUCH MUCH louder.

    Load More Replies...
    Clara Stallworth
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be nice to have one of those, wouldn't it? Problem is, child-free singles get together, hook up, and, nine months later, here comes baby! Suddenly, it's no longer a "child-free" neighborhood, so what, do the couple (or at least the woman) get banished by the community for having a child? (Sounds like a premise for an M. Night Shyamalan movie!) Js...

    Max
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is a lack of child spaces. Not spaces where your kids are allowed, places optimised FOR children. When I was a kid, there were three or four play places on the local high street that were free to use, very cheap, or in stores/cafes and were free with purchase. Also, a lot of places like banks and cafes had a small area with toys (like the bead tracks, or legos) for kids to entertain themselves whilst their parents did boring adult stuff. These give the kids an opportunity to let off steam, and thus they're less screamy and annoying. Nowadays, these things are all gone because they don't make lots of profit, so public spaces with kids in are full of overstimulated, under-exercised children who are loud and cranky.

    Ches Yamada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! This is 100% an issue - I completely agree kids need to let off steam. Even screaming once in awhile. But we need places for them to do it where it's okay, and safe. Not just open your back door and let loose the little he11ions... take them to a park or something. It's the same as if I don't walk my dog enough and he's fussy and barking. Why is that not allowed but kids can scream like banshees right outside my bedroom? Let them get it out of their systems someplace else.

    Load More Replies...
    Damira Balent
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all share one world. And there are various anoying factors all around us. I don't mind kids, I mind a******s and a*****e parents who don't parent their children. But you can't control everything in your soroundings. There's traffic, drills, landmowers, dogs barking, teenagers playing loud music etc. The best solution for this girl is to marry a bilionaire and live on some huge property or to go live in Alaska, Siberia, Tibet... Those are pretty child free 😏

    April Stephens
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. I think the best thing for her would be to build her own backyard pool, swim at a friend's backyard pool, or maybe join a gym that doesn't allow kids with a pool. I don't know if she can afford it.

    Load More Replies...
    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the adults in the neighborhood are responsible adults, then children will not be a problem. If the adults in the neighborhood are not responsible adults, you've got big problems whether there are children there or not.

    LA Murphy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I completely agree. Children have taken over every space and their behavior has become much worse. Children used to know how to be seen and not heard (like keep your voice down inside and don't disturb other people), but now they are just obnoxious. And what is with girls just screeching/screaming like they are being murdered when they are playing outside? Annoying.

    The crushinator
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oof, i feel you. I'm currently in a flat that's part of a block that surrounds a playground (moved there out of nessecity at the time) and for someone who's pretty sensitive to sound, the screeching is absolute torture. I don't blame the kids because if you're can't screech and act like a fool on the playground, where are you going to do it?? But i really, really hope i am in a position to move soon because the screeching man, it hurts my soul.

    Load More Replies...
    Nattie Rice
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a single, 35+ woman I can say this with all the honesty in my heart, I would love an adult only neighborhood. I hate kids and haven't had any of my own for a reason, so how come every time I go somewhere with my friends (non-alcoholic places) I have to put up with other people's? From restaurants, to movie theaters, to grocery/clothing shopping, someone has brought their kid and they're completely unable to keep the damn thing quiet. So I would pack up my animals and move in a heartbeat to an adult only neighborhood, just add my name to the wait list for it.

    Bex
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally get this, as there are times I want to tape the mouths of my kids shut just to get some quiet. But, I think it needs to be recognized that the problem isn't the kids - it's the parents who let the kids behave this way in public. Yes, the brach, a playground, etc are places where kids can and should be allowed to run around and be loud, but, they should have been taught to do that with consideration to the other people there, or be supervised by a parent/adult making sure they are considerate for the other people. So many time individual groups get blamed for problems (it's the kids/parents/boomers/millennial, etc who cause the problem) when really it's a lack of common courtesy and consideration for other people that is causing the problem.

    Ches Yamada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely agree it's the parents! But that doesn't help the fact that the source is an annoyance.

    Load More Replies...
    Brandy P
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just glad I'm not the only person (woman, especially) who doesn't have positive emotions about children. I was once told I had to "heal" because I didn't want kids. At work. By a subordinate. To my boss.

    Susan Schlee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's BS. I was once told by co-workers I had to have kids because my mother needed grandchildren. I told them she does- they're just four legged and furry! I get so tired of people assuming a woman MUST have kids. Nope- don't want them- didn't want them when I was a kid, thus I will never have them, and no, I will NOT miss out on anything in life.

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