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Woman Finally Snaps After Her BF Keeps Spoiling The Endings During Movie Night, Asks Who The Real A-Hole Is
Having a hobby that you absolutely love is great and being able to share it with someone really close to you makes it even more special. This not only means that you get to spend more time together but also helps to communicate better or even see the true colors of another person.
Reddit user @Keanulove99 decided to talk about her experience of sharing the same interest in movies with her boyfriend and ask for advice seeing that they don’t see eye to eye on some of the things.
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The user revealed that she is very much into movies, she enjoys watching her favorite actors play, and she even has certain rituals that she follows when she watches them. So she and her boyfriend decided to have weekly movie nights where he would come over and they would spend their time together doing something they both like. However, the woman revealed that her boyfriend has a very annoying habit of spoiling movie endings for her.
Reddit user decided to tell the story of how she tried to share the love for movies with her boyfriend
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Soon she encountered a problem of her boyfriend telling her the spoilers of the movies
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This kept happening, so the user decided to have a conversation with the boyfriend and ask him to stop this. The man explained this behavior as a “habit” but he agreed that it was wrong for him to act this way, so he promised to cut it. However, he did not keep his promise for long. This kept happening, so the user decided to have a conversation with the boyfriend and ask him to stop this. The man explained this behavior as a “habit” but he agreed that it was wrong for him to act this way, so he promised to cut it. However, he did not keep his promise for long.
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The couple decided to have their movie Thursdays as usual after the boyfriend (who the user called Andy) promised that he would not try to find the movie spoilers on the Internet. Some people might think that maybe there is nothing wrong with wanting to know something in advance, but the thing that triggered the narrator the most was that she didn’t want to know the end of the movie until she saw it herself. However, the boyfriend would spoil it for her too even after she explicitly told him not to do it.
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The user noticed that during the movie the man was uncomfortable but he didn’t do anything suspicious. That was until the girlfriend heard some noise that reminded a lot of phone keyboard when she realized that the boyfriend broke his promise and now was looking for clues about how the movie ended.
This made her really mad, so she decided to stop watching movies with him as he made it really difficult for her to enjoy his company. Now the woman is thinking and asking whether she was right by reacting this way.
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Even though the woman insisted to stop doing this and ruining movie endings for him, he still kept doing so until she decided to end their “movie Thursdays”
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People in the comments were pretty unanimous with their decision. They found the guy being disrespectful and selfish. A lot of users even agreed that they should break up because if he doesn’t take into consideration such small but clearly important things to his girlfriend, how their relationship can evolve into something more serious.
What do you think about this situation? Leave your thoughts in the comments down below!
People online agreed that his behavior was unacceptable and even suggested that she should break up with him
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D H 4 years ago
She should have texted him "Hey Andy, here's a spoiler I looked up, we do not have a happy ending and I end up dumping you"
Leah L 4 years ago
I’m seeing a trend on these advice threads. Dysfunctional relationships that people are desperate to make functional. It’s never about the issue at hand but what’s underneath. In this case he doesn’t respect or value her. This will manifest in a hundred other ways down the line. While perhaps fixable it’s early enough in the relationship that she should just find better
LeilaOdinis 4 years ago
Spoiled 14 movies. I would have dumped him after the second time he did it. What a manipulative dong.
Night Owl 4 years ago (edited)
Me too. First time I would explain why it's important to me and ask him to please stop doing it, second time it's over.
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Valisbourne Spiritforge 4 years ago
I jump. I flinch. I sometimes ask speculative questions of my wife (usually when I get TOO into a movie). She hates it and I try VERY hard not to do that (can't do much about the jumps and flinches). This guy acts like a chile and is a manipulative ass. He needs to go. You may be hoping to settle down and raise children some day. Don't take some other mothers unfinished man-child as your husband.
Kathryn Baylis 4 years ago (edited)
My husband and I like to watch mysteries and whodunits together. About halfway through them, we’ll call out who we think did it, or what the cause of, or solution for, the mystery is. Whichever of us calls it correctly gets congratulations and bragging rights. It’s just something we both started doing early in our relationship, and now it’s our “thing” when we watch those kinds of programs. But if either of us had initially objected, it would’ve stopped right away, and never happened again.
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Onie Ward 4 years ago
this isn't about movies. it's about control and manipulation. nope... red flag ..you don't need that on your life. time to move on from him.
Otter 4 years ago
IMHO it's about putting all her attention onto him, not the movie. Which is a whole shop full of red flags right there, someone who lacks boundaries and craves attention even if it's negative attention is... not good relationship material.
Load More Replies... StrawberryParfait 4 years ago
Nah, he's a passive-aggressive little creep, and his behaviour reeks of hostility. Leave him where you found him. The world is full of men who don't piss of their girlfriends for funsies. Go watch movies with one of them instead. Really. Don't try to convince this little s**t to respect you. The moment you have to convince a man to respect you is one moment longer than you should have stayed.
Anton Swanepoel 4 years ago
How does it even get this far - 14 movie endings ruined and she hasn't strangled him yet? I'm no expert, but if someone takes pleasure in spoiling things that give you pleasure, then I'm sure they'll be doing this in other areas of your life. You can't fix people like that, but you can certainly dump them.
Jerry Mathers 4 years ago
The thing this idiot is addicted to is ruining your fun. He knows it wasn't cool. It's a complete dong move. Want revenge? Get him ready for your after movie bed play, just before starting walk to the bathroom, let him hear a humming sound, then come out and tell him about your ending just before you send him packing.
D H 4 years ago
She should have texted him "Hey Andy, here's a spoiler I looked up, we do not have a happy ending and I end up dumping you"
Leah L 4 years ago
I’m seeing a trend on these advice threads. Dysfunctional relationships that people are desperate to make functional. It’s never about the issue at hand but what’s underneath. In this case he doesn’t respect or value her. This will manifest in a hundred other ways down the line. While perhaps fixable it’s early enough in the relationship that she should just find better
LeilaOdinis 4 years ago
Spoiled 14 movies. I would have dumped him after the second time he did it. What a manipulative dong.
Night Owl 4 years ago (edited)
Me too. First time I would explain why it's important to me and ask him to please stop doing it, second time it's over.
Load More Replies... Valisbourne Spiritforge 4 years ago
I jump. I flinch. I sometimes ask speculative questions of my wife (usually when I get TOO into a movie). She hates it and I try VERY hard not to do that (can't do much about the jumps and flinches). This guy acts like a chile and is a manipulative ass. He needs to go. You may be hoping to settle down and raise children some day. Don't take some other mothers unfinished man-child as your husband.
Kathryn Baylis 4 years ago (edited)
My husband and I like to watch mysteries and whodunits together. About halfway through them, we’ll call out who we think did it, or what the cause of, or solution for, the mystery is. Whichever of us calls it correctly gets congratulations and bragging rights. It’s just something we both started doing early in our relationship, and now it’s our “thing” when we watch those kinds of programs. But if either of us had initially objected, it would’ve stopped right away, and never happened again.
Load More Replies... Onie Ward 4 years ago
this isn't about movies. it's about control and manipulation. nope... red flag ..you don't need that on your life. time to move on from him.
Otter 4 years ago
IMHO it's about putting all her attention onto him, not the movie. Which is a whole shop full of red flags right there, someone who lacks boundaries and craves attention even if it's negative attention is... not good relationship material.
Load More Replies... StrawberryParfait 4 years ago
Nah, he's a passive-aggressive little creep, and his behaviour reeks of hostility. Leave him where you found him. The world is full of men who don't piss of their girlfriends for funsies. Go watch movies with one of them instead. Really. Don't try to convince this little s**t to respect you. The moment you have to convince a man to respect you is one moment longer than you should have stayed.
Anton Swanepoel 4 years ago
How does it even get this far - 14 movie endings ruined and she hasn't strangled him yet? I'm no expert, but if someone takes pleasure in spoiling things that give you pleasure, then I'm sure they'll be doing this in other areas of your life. You can't fix people like that, but you can certainly dump them.
Jerry Mathers 4 years ago
The thing this idiot is addicted to is ruining your fun. He knows it wasn't cool. It's a complete dong move. Want revenge? Get him ready for your after movie bed play, just before starting walk to the bathroom, let him hear a humming sound, then come out and tell him about your ending just before you send him packing.
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