“It Made Me Feel Like I Was A Joke”: 23YO Quits $116K Job After Male Co-Workers’ Degrading Comments

A young woman was forced to leave her dream job in construction after enduring degrading comments from men.

Tavia Lynn always knew she wanted to be in the construction industry. “I got into construction because I enjoy creating things,” she told news.com.au. “It helped me feel peace being able to see my progress instantly and the results after each day of hard work.”

The first negative reaction came from a family member, who “laughed in [Tavia’s] face” and told her she wouldn’t be “taken seriously” at the workplace.

Determined to prove him wrong, the woman persisted in her ambitions. By 19, she had already started her own renovation business, teaching herself skills through YouTube tutorials.

Tavia Lynn, 23, said she quit her job in construction due to unwanted comments from men

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Within two months, she’d made an impressive A$30,000 (approx. $19,500) and was on track to earn around A$180,000 (approx. $116,800) in a single year, Tavia told the outlet.

“I was doing everything from professional painting and refinishing cabinets to trim and flooring,” she said. “I loved it.”

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Despite her love for the business, Tavia soon faced a situation that became difficult to tolerate. She said different men, some as old as 60, would try to flirt with her on the job.

The 23-year-old recalled one of them telling her, “You’re getting paid all this money just to look pretty. You’re just here as eye candy.”

“It made me feel like I was a joke and that nobody was taking me seriously,” she expressed.

Tavia, who now works as a model, started a renovation business when she was 19

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Tavia said she had to deal with her male co-workers “making comments about my a**” or constantly “making all the talk at work s*xual.”

The woman suspects they even created group chats specifically to discuss her appearance.

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Additionally, one of the men, whom Tavia considered a friend, questioned why she had chosen to work in a male-dominated industry, telling her it wasn’t the right place for her.

“He asked if I really wanted to do manual labor for the rest of my life, and he said, ‘If I looked as hot as you, I would not be doing this,” she recounted.

“I was doing everything from professional painting and refinishing cabinets to trim and flooring,” she said

Image credits: itzjusttavia.xx / Instagram

Image credits: itzjusttavia.xx / Instagram

Tired of constant unwanted comments from men about her looks or profession, Tavia decided to leave the industry.

According to her Instagram bio, she now works as a model, entrepreneur, and artist. Last year, she walked the runway at Las Vegas Swim Week.

The Women in Construction ‘Have Your Say’survey, which received 1,792 responses, found that 65% of women felt they needed to work harder than men to receive the same recognition. Also, more than half of respondents (53%) across all company sizes and locations reported experiencing s*xual harassment at work.

However, men questioned why she was at the job and told her she was there as “eye candy”

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Earlier this year, a Sydney worker named Shianne Foxx sparked a heated debate after claiming she was denied the chance to work in a bikini.

Shianne, who was employed as a landscaper and had previously worked in the mines, called out what she described as a “double standard” in the industry. Working in 40°C (104°F) heat, she said she wanted to perform her tasks topless, just like her male counterparts.

However, she was reportedly told by her boss that she couldn’t, as it would be a “distraction” to others.

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“It was such a hot day. Obviously when you work in the industry, lots of the boys have their tops off,” she told news.com.au. “I thought it was only fair if I could get mine off too. I have no shame in getting my b**bs out.”

Shianne argued that her body shouldn’t be considered “distracting” because breasts are “just a natural thing.”

“If you’re going to be childish and feel like they’re going to be distracting, then you should just grow up,” she added.

Tavia ultimately quit the job, which she said made her feel like a “joke”

Image credits: itzjusttavia.xx / Instagram

Image credits: itzjusttavia.xx / Instagram

The woman, who has dubbed herself the Bikini Tradie, has been working in male-dominated jobs for the last four years.

Unlike many other women in her industry, Shianne said she hasn’t experienced catcalling by her male co-workers. “From my experience, if you just go in there with your head held high and if you don’t let men have it over you (…) they won’t do anything,” she said, encouraging women to “stand [their] ground.”

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