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Women Share What Made Them Realize Their Boyfriend Or Husband Didn’t Even Like Them (30 Tweets)
How do we know our love interest really likes us? I mean, how do we know for real. This simple, yet somewhat alarming thought may break into even the tightest relationships. Because there’s always ‘what if’ and ‘what now’...
So when Twitter user @Oloni wrote: “You ever think about the men who said they liked you before and suddenly realized they actually really hated you,” it struck a chord with many. Amassing 29.8K likes, the thread quickly became a safe space to talk about hard things where people shared the exact moment they realized their love did not quite love them.
So let’s get ready to dive into the sea of real-life stories on how crushes suddenly crash, in cases ranging from cheating to those that are much more sinister.
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Pecho Muh 5 years ago
Oh dear 3 out of 5 top posts are from ladies about the moment of giving birth.... Girls, please be mindful, I know it's really specific depending on the particular situation, but that kind of attitude should have been detected before reaching the point of having a kid together. Minor red flags, attitude towards other people and animals, 3rd party opinion of that guy, by your friends e.g., intuition... don't ignore those. And if the child is not planned simply because that guy refused to wear protection, screw him right away
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Jo Johannsen 5 years ago
Normal people don't use condiments? There's an entire industrial sector down the drain.
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deanna woods 5 years ago
My parents drove all the way back home after I got in a car accident. They in another city when it happened.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
And he gets all douchey like that when 100% of the attention isn’t on him.
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AzKhaleesi 5 years ago
Well at least he was honest...I guess. My ex was such a narcissistic F**K that everything was EVERYONE else's fault. Didn't matter what it was, it was always someone else.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago
That “damn” was him being selfishly pissed off at the delayed/canceled booty call, because he canceled other plans with his bros for it. Nothing more. Hope you dumped him right then.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
Hope you dumped him, because being with him would ruin your life.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
No one makes us do anything, unless they’re physically forcing us to. Otherwise, we CHOOSE our reactions, even if we don’t realize it. He could’ve chosen not to cheat, but instead he gave in to his impulses, then tried to project his guilt on you. You are innocent. He’s the guilty party. Hope you dumped his cheating ass.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
I’m 60, and discovered decades ago that some adults are so childish—-rude, impulsive, selfish, and totally lacking in critical thinking skills, empathy, and a filter between their brains and their mouths—-that they DO need to be told to be nice to others. Sometimes they’re so devoid of even the most basic social skills that they actually need to be taught HOW to be nice to others, as well. We need to do a better job raising our children, folks, so this population of sociopaths decreases instead of increases.
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Aunt Messy 5 years ago
Drive away in your new car and don't look back. Let him abuse his new fuckpuppet.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
“Best friend”, my ass. Leave him to her. He’ll soon learn the grass isn’t always greener somewhere else. It happened to me a couple times when I was single. They both came running back pretty quickly, knocking on my door, and begging me to forgive them and to take them back. They both got my door slammed in their faces, and I couldn’t give a s**t just how long they stood there before it dawned on them that they weren’t going to be let in my house, that they pissed on—-and lost—-the affection of a much better person than the ones they left me for, and it was all their own stupid horndog fault.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
I know some commenters are going to work themselves into a lather over this, but I don’t care. If it was me, and I was in med school, got pregnant, and the douche I was dating said something like that to me, I would have an abortion. I would not want his child, definitely would not want anything that would obligate me to have anything to do with him ever again. He would be totally cut out of my life. I would wait to have a child with someone wonderful who would be totally worth the wait.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago
My reply would’ve been, “then I hope you and League will be very happy together, and you’re now officially an incel”.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago
I think they call that “negging” these days. I don’t know why people still do it. I’m 60, and it didn’t work when I was young, it didn’t work when my mother was young, so it isn’t going to work now, and still won’t work in the future. Time to flush that tactic down the shitter where it belongs. Have a f*****g funeral for it. Get rid of it. Once and for all.
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deanna woods 5 years ago
This guy sounds like a real sociopath and I hope you got away from him.
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Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago (edited)
No dear, that’s not the French word for what you’re thinking.
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Carol Emory 5 years ago
One of my coworker's sisters was married to a military guy that was such a scum bucket that he expected his wife to give him sex the day after she came home from giving birth to his son. She refused. A few weeks later, he was caught sneaking in through the bedroom window of a neighborhood girl (15 y.o.) and attempting to rape her. He was arrested, dishonorably discharged, convicted and sent to federal jail for 15 years. She divorced him and filed for sole custody of their son. She also has a restraining order against him and his family which she renews each year. And if that doesn't shock you enough...dude thought he could get away with all of this knowing that his father-in-law was a deputy warden at the local men's prison......
Jane Alexander 5 years ago
Me too, few if any leave us anything to upvote, not even a bucket of icewater over their head, nothin'....
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Cathy Mitchell 5 years ago
These made me think about an ex, we were together 1.5 years when my grandpa passed away. I called him crying and he told me he can't handle that crying sh×t and hung up. A week later, I was on a business trip 1000 miles away and he calls to tell me that he's actually still with his baby mama and been using me for my money this whole time, and she was in on it. I get home from the trip, my car battery is dead because he left the lights on, he also lost the keys and there was period blood on the passenger seat. To top it all off, when I confronted him in person, somehow he got my work credit card and racked up $5K. I didn't notice it missing until I rec'd an email that I was over my limit. I was fired from the job I had for almost 15 years because of him.
Cory Tollman 5 years ago
You and your work couldn't file a stolen card report with the credit card company and contact the police to have him arrested?
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Carol Emory 5 years ago
One of my coworker's sisters was married to a military guy that was such a scum bucket that he expected his wife to give him sex the day after she came home from giving birth to his son. She refused. A few weeks later, he was caught sneaking in through the bedroom window of a neighborhood girl (15 y.o.) and attempting to rape her. He was arrested, dishonorably discharged, convicted and sent to federal jail for 15 years. She divorced him and filed for sole custody of their son. She also has a restraining order against him and his family which she renews each year. And if that doesn't shock you enough...dude thought he could get away with all of this knowing that his father-in-law was a deputy warden at the local men's prison......
Jane Alexander 5 years ago
Me too, few if any leave us anything to upvote, not even a bucket of icewater over their head, nothin'....
Load More Replies... Cathy Mitchell 5 years ago
These made me think about an ex, we were together 1.5 years when my grandpa passed away. I called him crying and he told me he can't handle that crying sh×t and hung up. A week later, I was on a business trip 1000 miles away and he calls to tell me that he's actually still with his baby mama and been using me for my money this whole time, and she was in on it. I get home from the trip, my car battery is dead because he left the lights on, he also lost the keys and there was period blood on the passenger seat. To top it all off, when I confronted him in person, somehow he got my work credit card and racked up $5K. I didn't notice it missing until I rec'd an email that I was over my limit. I was fired from the job I had for almost 15 years because of him.
Cory Tollman 5 years ago
You and your work couldn't file a stolen card report with the credit card company and contact the police to have him arrested?
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