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New Homeowners Want To Enjoy Their Yard And Pool Alone, Upset Neighbors When They Fence Their Land
Young homeowners standing at their door enjoying privacy in their yard and pool, causing neighbor upset about fenced land.

New Homeowners Want To Enjoy Their Yard And Pool Alone, Upset Neighbors When They Fence Their Land

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Some folks just can’t take a hint, and unfortunately, these people always seem to end up living next door. The kind of neighbors who act like they own the entire street and demand special treatment like they’ve got VIP access to your life… You know the type. From casually strolling into your backyard to using your pool as if it’s a community amenity, some neighbors can’t comprehend the concept of personal space.

And one Reddit user who knows this all too well shared a story detailing just how bold her neighbors have become. After moving into her dream beachside home, this woman soon realized that her biggest issue would be the people next door.

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    A new homeowner found out just how bold neighbors can be when they asked her to allow them to walk through her yard to reach the beach, and even use her pool

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    The woman and her husband bought their dream beachside home, complete with beach access, a pool and a beautiful yard, which they decided to fence in, angering their neighbors

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    One neighbor asked the woman if she would allow the residents to use her pool and walk through her yard every time they wanted to reach the beach, but she refused

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    The woman posted an update saying she contacted the police and the previous homeowners to confirm that she is not obligated to grant access to her neighbors

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    The woman and her husband refuse to allow her neighbors to use their pool or walk through their yard at their convenience, building a fence around the yard

    Just imagine that you bought your dream home – a beachside oasis complete with a pool, hot tub, fountains and a gorgeous view of the beach. Basically, your very own slice of paradise. For me, that sounds like a dream life.

    But for this 26-year-old homeowner, her relaxing beachfront haven quickly turned into a battleground with her neighbors from across the street. Why? Because they felt entitled to stroll through her yard whenever they wanted to reach the sandy beach and maybe even use her pool. Yes, her private pool.

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    The OP (original poster) of this story and her husband decided to protect their little oasis by putting up a fence around their yard. Reasonable, right? Well, not according to her neighbors from the condos across the street.

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    Marie, one of those neighbors, decided to pay the OP a visit. But she wasn’t there to deliver a friendly “Welcome to the neighborhood” basket. Oh, no, she had much bigger things in mind: access to the OP’s yard for her and all the condo residents.

    Turns out, the previous homeowners had been letting their neighbors use their private yard as a shortcut to the beach. Why walk 5 whole minutes to the public entrance when you can stroll through someone else’s private paradise, right?

    Not only that, but they’d even let people use their pool sometimes. Sounds like a community perk, except the OP wasn’t on board with continuing the tradition.

    When Marie asked if they could keep this little arrangement going, the OP’s response was a big No. She wasn’t interested in sharing her sanctuary with people she didn’t know, and who could blame her? After all, she bought the house for the yard, not to run a public pool party.

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    Marie didn’t take kindly to the OP’s refusal. In fact, she got downright mad. How dare the OP gate off the beach path and ruin their “way of life”? Marie even played the “think of the kids” card, saying parents would be devastated if their kids had to walk a whopping 5 minutes to reach the beach. The horror!

    Our OP, however, didn’t back down. She wasn’t about to turn her home into a community road for strangers just because it was more convenient for them.

    But Marie wasn’t alone. Soon enough, other condo residents were buzzing about OP’s “selfish” fence. Some even confronted her directly, questioning if she was really going to block off their precious shortcut. If only the beach drama could have stayed between the OP and Marie, but no, now she had an entire condo’s worth of opinions raining down on her.

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    While the OP’s friends and family were divided on the issue, legal experts, and a whole lot of Redditors, weren’t. In fact, experts say that property owners like the OP are 100% within their rights to limit access to their private property and are under no obligation to grant easement rights to neighbors, unless such an agreement has been made in writing, which, in this case, it hasn’t.

    “If you’re thinking about purchasing a particular piece of property, it’s important to know if there are any easements involved. The term easement refers to the right of persons or entities other than the legal owner to use or control a portion of the property. Easements often involve neighboring homeowners such as when a neighbor uses a shared driveway,” experts advise. Good to know.

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    This, however, is not the case in our story, and the OP made sure of that by contacting the previous owners of the home for confirmation. And, if that wasn’t enough, the local police also confirmed that the condo residents had no legal right to use her property as a beach path.

    So legally, the OP was in the clear. Plus, as many Reddit users pointed out, allowing people to walk through her yard isn’t just annoying but also a potential premises liability nightmare if any accidents were to occur on her property.

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    While the OP may not be winning any “Most Popular Neighbor” awards anytime soon, at least she gets to enjoy her little slice of paradise in peace. After all, that yard is the reason she bought the house in the first place.

    What do you think of this story? Is our poster a jerk for fencing in her yard and blocking access to her private property? Drop your comments below.

    Netizens side with the woman, saying she has every right to protect her private property and enjoy her home

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    Adelaide May Ross

    Adelaide May Ross

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    Multa Nocte
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wasn't this exact same article on BP some months back?

    Apatheist Account2
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thoughts exactly. I know there's a lot of similar stuff, but this one feels identical.

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    Ace
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    4 months ago (edited)

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    Deja vu. Just over a year ago. https://www.boredpanda.com/not-letting-neighbors-use-yard/?cexp_id=107309&cexp_var=2&_f=featured

    nottheactualphoto
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to decipher the new BP behavior... Both Trillian and Ace posted links to last year's version of this. Replies are disabled for both, otherwise I would have replied to one of them. But Ace's comment was "hidden" and Trillian's was not. Ace used the "http..." protocol prefix, and Trillian did not. Mysterioso.

    arthbach
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I noticed this sort of thing in another comments section. The top comment had something like +35, but was hidden. The next most popular was something like +19 and was visible. One theory is that if a person get to -4 it doesn't matter if they have any subsequent upvotes, we are still unable to reply to their post.

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    Multa Nocte
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wasn't this exact same article on BP some months back?

    Apatheist Account2
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thoughts exactly. I know there's a lot of similar stuff, but this one feels identical.

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    Ace
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    4 months ago (edited)

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Deja vu. Just over a year ago. https://www.boredpanda.com/not-letting-neighbors-use-yard/?cexp_id=107309&cexp_var=2&_f=featured

    nottheactualphoto
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to decipher the new BP behavior... Both Trillian and Ace posted links to last year's version of this. Replies are disabled for both, otherwise I would have replied to one of them. But Ace's comment was "hidden" and Trillian's was not. Ace used the "http..." protocol prefix, and Trillian did not. Mysterioso.

    arthbach
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I noticed this sort of thing in another comments section. The top comment had something like +35, but was hidden. The next most popular was something like +19 and was visible. One theory is that if a person get to -4 it doesn't matter if they have any subsequent upvotes, we are still unable to reply to their post.

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