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Woman Ruins A Trip After Conveniently “Forgetting” To Take Her Meds, Friend Loses It
Woman Ruins A Trip After Conveniently “Forgetting” To Take Her Meds, Friend Loses It
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Woman Ruins A Trip After Conveniently “Forgetting” To Take Her Meds, Friend Loses It

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Planning a trip with a large group of friends is not an easy task. That’s why it’s even more upsetting when certain plans fall through when the trip actually happens.

For this redditor, it was one of the friends who was responsible for repeatedly altering the group’s plans. Her disability would cause flare-ups, which would cut certain activities short, and while the OP tried being understanding, her patience eventually ran out.

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    This redditor had to repeatedly cut certain activities short during a trip because of her friend

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    Roughly one-in-four Americans live with some sort of a disability

    Even though the OP was upset with her friend, she understood that it was a disability that kept her from fully immersing herself in the group activities. The redditor wasn’t sure what was the exact condition Sadie was dealing with, but it clearly affected her everyday life, which is the reality of nearly one fourth of people in the US.

    According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, roughly 27% of Americans live with some sort of a disability. For the majority of them, it affects their mobility and cognition the most, making it difficult for them to walk or climb stairs, as well as concentrate on or remember things and make decisions. Certain conditions also commonly affect people’s senses, such as hearing or vision, or their ability to live independently.

    Fortunately, some conditions can be managed with the help of certain medications. As a matter of fact, according to Statista’s 2021 data, roughly a third of Americans take prescription meds daily for one reason or another; one-in-five do it more than once a day.

    Not all people stick to taking their meds as prescribed

    Even though doctors and medicine can help manage numerous conditions nowadays, it’s important for both the medical professional and the person receiving the prescription to be on the same page; that typically involves taking the medication as prescribed or instructed.

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    The US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) pointed out that non-adherence is the reason behind 30-50% of chronic disease treatment failures. (The majority of patients with chronic diseases reportedly take less medication than prescribed or stop the medication altogether after just six months of taking the meds.) What is more, roughly 20% to 30% new prescriptions end up never being filled at the pharmacy in the first place.

    The FDA suggested that following certain tips can help a person keep up with their medications; for example, carrying a pill container or using a “medicine calendar”. It also pointed out that taking the meds at the same hour every time can make it easier to stick to the routine, which is when a timer can likely come in handy.

    In the redditor’s story, Sadie seemingly only set timers for taking her meds during the day that she had planned for the friend group. That and certain activities cut short eventually led to a confrontation with the OP, which split the online community into camps over whether the latter was a jerk in the situation or not.

    The OP provided more information in the comments section

    Fellow redditors shared their advice and opinions

    Some didn’t think the OP was being a jerk in this situation

    Others considered the redditor a jerk

    The redditor provided an update after reading netizen’s comments

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    Miglė Miliūtė

    Miglė Miliūtė

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    A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee.

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    Miglė Miliūtė

    Miglė Miliūtė

    Writer, Community member

    A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee.

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadie's TA. I, as a Bipolar person, have to take medication daily, or my condition turns me into an unbearable c**t, which I know harms both me and my loved ones. So what do I do? I take the medication. Daily. Be responsible for your s**t, Sadie.

    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m with you on this. I take a medication daily that keeps me ‘sunny side up’, if I miss a day then it impacts on me within the next 12-24 hours, I, like you become unbearable for others, possibly even a bit of a see you next Tuesday. It’s not on anyone else to be responsible for my meds or my condition. We’ve all got s**t to deal with, if we don’t manage ourselves then it comes as no surprise that someone will and maybe should call us out for being irresponsible tw@s.

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    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i agree with the others she is doing it on purpose as she remembered when it was her day to plan an activity the way OP spoke to her was a bit harsh i am all for helping people who have disabilities but some people use that as a way to do and say what they want and thats not okay

    The Mom
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a person that must take meds daily I say Sadie is TA in a big way.

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadie's TA. I, as a Bipolar person, have to take medication daily, or my condition turns me into an unbearable c**t, which I know harms both me and my loved ones. So what do I do? I take the medication. Daily. Be responsible for your s**t, Sadie.

    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m with you on this. I take a medication daily that keeps me ‘sunny side up’, if I miss a day then it impacts on me within the next 12-24 hours, I, like you become unbearable for others, possibly even a bit of a see you next Tuesday. It’s not on anyone else to be responsible for my meds or my condition. We’ve all got s**t to deal with, if we don’t manage ourselves then it comes as no surprise that someone will and maybe should call us out for being irresponsible tw@s.

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    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i agree with the others she is doing it on purpose as she remembered when it was her day to plan an activity the way OP spoke to her was a bit harsh i am all for helping people who have disabilities but some people use that as a way to do and say what they want and thats not okay

    The Mom
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a person that must take meds daily I say Sadie is TA in a big way.

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