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Woman Refuses To Take Niece To School, Sister-In-Law Starts Family-Wide Meltdown
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Woman Refuses To Take Niece To School, Sister-In-Law Starts Family-Wide Meltdown

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Life is full of minor inconveniences. Sometimes, others adapt to us, and sometimes, it’s we who have to adjust.

However, one woman recently refused to compromise for her sister-in-law when she was asked to take her child to school every day (even though it’s a pretty short walking distance).

The sister-in-law then escalated the issue and went around the family, talking negatively about her behind her back.

So the lady asked the internet who, in their opinion, was in the right.

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    To many, a short walk sounds much better than having to rely on someone else to drive them

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    But this woman’s sister-in-law expects her to take her child to school every day instead of doing it herself

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    Parents often do need help, but guilt-tripping your relatives isn’t the answer

    The Pew Research Center found that most American parents (62%) say being a parent has been at least somewhat harder than they expected, with about a quarter (26%) saying it’s been a lot harder.

    This is especially true for mothers, 30% of whom say parenting has been a lot harder than expected, compared with 20% of fathers.

    At the same time, about four in ten parents (41%) say parenting is tiring, and 29% say it’s stressful all or most of the time. Mothers are again more likely than fathers to be affected—47% vs. 34% report it’s tiring, and 33% vs. 24% report it’s stressful.

    Because of this, it’s all hands on deck — according to a survey of 2,000 working parents of children under the age of 10, they rely on an average of six different people to support their child’s growth and development.

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    Family members such as the child’s grandparents (46%), extended family such as aunts, uncles, and cousins (27%), and siblings (26%) are included in their “village,” as well as their best friend (17%) and neighbors (8%).

    However, only 16% of working parents say they depend on external support every single day of the week, and if a mom or dad needs to manipulate others into helping, they should find another arrangement.

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    In-laws fight about a lot of different things

    Childcare is just one of many reasons that tear families apart. A survey conducted for Newsweek by Talker Research revealed that the most common subjects Americans argue about with their in-laws are:

    • Politics – 31%
    • Lifestyle choices – 22%
    • Disputes about their partner – 21%
    • Money – 19%
    • Parenting decisions – 18%
    • Cultural issues – 14%
    • Home-related issues – 13%

    Interestingly, the survey showed that only one in ten (10%) would be happy with their in-laws looking after their children, over their own parents.

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    People who read this particular story said the aunt cannot be blamed for refusing to help with her niece

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Writer, Senior Writer

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Paul C
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No loony YTAs today. Even they couldn't find an excuse why it is not possible for a mother and six year old, both able bodied, to walk 15 mins to school.

    arthbach
    Community Member
    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the not the aunt's responsibility to get the child to school. It's the parents' job, and they need to work it out. And, a 15 minute walk sounds like a perfectly reasonable time for a 6 year old to walk. When my child was 4 years old they would 25 minutes (uphill) into town. We'd do what we needed, and then 20 minutes downhill to get home.

    Crystalwitch60
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    3 months ago

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    Ikr sil would never have handled my childhood days living on farm in the sticks lmao half hour walk to primary school , n a busy main road to cross in between n I did it on my own from 5 really ,my gran I grew up with had farm to run ,n here in uk it’s what we did lol , n then comp ,it was walk a long way to bus stop lol n this sil don’t even f kin work ,bar a Sunday like REALLYu got legs. S k a n k USE EM

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    KatSaidThat
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who wants to bet that they will never be moving out of mom's home now? Also, why ask OP to adjust her schedule when she is not the parent? Are these people sniffing glue?

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sniffing glue, using it to stick to their own routines at the expense of their child.

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    Paul C
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No loony YTAs today. Even they couldn't find an excuse why it is not possible for a mother and six year old, both able bodied, to walk 15 mins to school.

    arthbach
    Community Member
    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the not the aunt's responsibility to get the child to school. It's the parents' job, and they need to work it out. And, a 15 minute walk sounds like a perfectly reasonable time for a 6 year old to walk. When my child was 4 years old they would 25 minutes (uphill) into town. We'd do what we needed, and then 20 minutes downhill to get home.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 months ago

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    Ikr sil would never have handled my childhood days living on farm in the sticks lmao half hour walk to primary school , n a busy main road to cross in between n I did it on my own from 5 really ,my gran I grew up with had farm to run ,n here in uk it’s what we did lol , n then comp ,it was walk a long way to bus stop lol n this sil don’t even f kin work ,bar a Sunday like REALLYu got legs. S k a n k USE EM

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who wants to bet that they will never be moving out of mom's home now? Also, why ask OP to adjust her schedule when she is not the parent? Are these people sniffing glue?

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sniffing glue, using it to stick to their own routines at the expense of their child.

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