Woman Called Heartless For Refusing To Give Her Golden Retriever To A Random Family

A dog is one of the most loyal companions you’ll ever have. But not everyone seems to understand that.

One dog owner had a surprising encounter that they recently shared with the TikTok account @lisa.divass. During a walk in the park with their sweet, friendly Labrador, a little girl came over to pet the dog. It was a heartwarming moment—until her parents reached out days later asking to adopt the pup, claiming their daughter had formed a “special bond.”

It quickly became clear they didn’t quite grasp that pets aren’t up for grabs. Read the full story below.

The dog owner was walking their Labrador when a little girl came up to pet her

Woman sharing story about parents demanding stranger's dog because their daughter connected with the pet in a home setting.

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But what seemed like a sweet moment took a strange turn days later, when the girl’s parents contacted them, asking to adopt the dog

Young girl hugging a golden retriever dog outdoors, capturing a heartfelt moment with parents demanding the stranger's dog.

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Parents demand stranger's dog for daughter after rare connection, but owner declines adoption request firmly.

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Watch the full video below

@lisa.divass I already think we know the answer to this one but you guys do surprise me with your responses sometimes 😂 #daisy#dog#goldenretriever#adopt#adoptadog#connection#entitledparents#entitled#amiwrong#aita#aitah♬ original sound – Lisa Diva

How hard is it to adopt a dog?

There are so many tail-wagging, soft-eyed pups out there patiently waiting in shelters and rescues for a chance at a loving home.

But even though there are plenty of dogs looking for families, anyone who’s been through the adoption process knows, it’s far from easy.

So the idea of a stranger approaching someone on the street and asking them to give up their dog because their child “felt a connection” is extremely bold. Especially when you consider how much time, effort, and care actually goes into adopting a dog properly.

First, there are long and detailed application forms to fill out. These forms often ask everything from your financial stability to your daily schedule and when you’d plan to walk the dog. It can take hours.

Then, many organizations require a home visit to make sure the environment is safe and appropriate. If you’re approved, there’s often an adoption fee, which can range anywhere from $50 to $800. And even once the dog is yours, many rescues check in later to ensure the animal is adjusting well.

It’s a process, and for good reason. It’s designed to make sure dogs end up in responsible, prepared homes.

Because the truth is, a lot of people underestimate just how hard it is to raise a dog.

According to one study, nearly one in five dog owners say raising a baby is easier than training a puppy. And research from the Royal Veterinary College (RVC) found that 33% of dog owners found training more difficult than expected.

Dr. Rowena Packer, a lecturer in companion animal behavior and welfare science at the RVC, and lead author of the study, explained that many people simply don’t do enough research before getting a dog.

“I think a lot of new owners go in with very high hopes [of] their dog’s behavior and then when they realize actually training is quite tough, that’s where a third of them were really struggling,” she told The Guardian.

Another issue, she said, is how people often project human emotions onto their dogs, like calling them “naughty” instead of understanding their behavior needs guidance.

“Dogs don’t come off the shelf ready to know how to spend a day walking around on a lead meeting other dogs, going into social spaces with other people—all these things need to be taught,” she added.

Unfortunately, not everyone understands that a pet is not a toy, no matter how often it’s said.

So let’s give dogs the love and respect they deserve. Not treat them like they’re up for grabs, but instead prepare thoughtfully: with time, care, money, and real understanding of what it means to give a dog a home.

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