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Woman Has Enough Of Husband’s Friend Who Excuses His Behavior With Autism, Kicks Him Out
A young man packs clothes into a suitcase on a bed after a woman kicks him out over his behavior.

Woman Has Enough Of Husband’s Friend Who Excuses His Behavior With Autism, Kicks Him Out

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There are probably few things as frustrating as having to repeatedly tell someone to stop doing something, and them persisting anyway. It’s bad enough when it happens in the wild, but in your own home, among people who should have your back? That can be downright infuriating.

That’s exactly the position one woman found herself in after she reluctantly agreed to let her husband’s best friend stay with them. She’d never really “vibed” with him and didn’t like the way he spoke to her, but her husband said he’d keep him “in line.” Unfortunately, that turned out to be easier said than done. Between unsolicited critiques and one “hon” too many, what was supposed to be a week-long stay quickly turned into a full-blown standoff.

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    A woman reluctantly let her husband’s best friend stay with them, even though she’d never liked the way he talked to her

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    It didn’t take long for his condescending comments to push her to her limit

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    The poster explained that her husband usually has her back, just not when Tod is involved

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    Commenters sided with the poster, agreeing she wasn’t the jerk in the situation

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    Cas Wilmot
    Cas Wilmot

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    Cas is a writer at Bored Panda. She lives in the Eastern Cape of South Africa, where she enjoys taking long walks with her dogs, getting immersed in true crime stories, dabbling in various arts and crafts, and building puzzles (when her cat permits it).

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    Cas Wilmot
    Cas Wilmot

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Cas is a writer at Bored Panda. She lives in the Eastern Cape of South Africa, where she enjoys taking long walks with her dogs, getting immersed in true crime stories, dabbling in various arts and crafts, and building puzzles (when her cat permits it).

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    Justinas Keturka

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    I'm the Visual Editor at Bored Panda, responsible for ensuring that everything our audience sees is top-notch and well-researched. What I love most about my job? Discovering new things about the world and immersing myself in exceptional photography and art.

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    Justinas Keturka
    Justinas Keturka

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm the Visual Editor at Bored Panda, responsible for ensuring that everything our audience sees is top-notch and well-researched. What I love most about my job? Discovering new things about the world and immersing myself in exceptional photography and art.

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    Karl
    Community Member
    1 hour ago

    Sounds just like my brother. He is relentlessly blunt/rude and finds it really funny when it's pointed out and says he's just "being honest". However, he reacts very badly to any criticism or observation about himself. His Aspergers is no excuse for being downright rude. Probably why I haven't seen him in many a year.

    Paul C
    Community Member
    49 minutes ago

    I completely agree with the last commenter (SharksAndFrogs), they have summed it up brilliantly on the whole Autism side. I also think that the bigger problem here is a hubby one. He's being a total d**k over this. You don't make excuses for anyone who insults your wife, you come down hard on them.

    Tamra
    Community Member
    59 minutes ago

    So the first problem cropped up when she told her husband she wasn't comfortable with his friend staying with them, and he ignored her.

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    Karl
    Community Member
    1 hour ago

    Sounds just like my brother. He is relentlessly blunt/rude and finds it really funny when it's pointed out and says he's just "being honest". However, he reacts very badly to any criticism or observation about himself. His Aspergers is no excuse for being downright rude. Probably why I haven't seen him in many a year.

    Paul C
    Community Member
    49 minutes ago

    I completely agree with the last commenter (SharksAndFrogs), they have summed it up brilliantly on the whole Autism side. I also think that the bigger problem here is a hubby one. He's being a total d**k over this. You don't make excuses for anyone who insults your wife, you come down hard on them.

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    Tamra
    Community Member
    59 minutes ago

    So the first problem cropped up when she told her husband she wasn't comfortable with his friend staying with them, and he ignored her.

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