Everyone’s quick to spot red flags in other people. Your friend who replies to texts within ten seconds every time? Red flag. The coworker who has to disagree with everything in every meeting? Also a red flag. Somehow, it’s a lot harder to notice the ones we carry ourselves.
And we all carry at least one. Maybe you’ve spent three hours overthinking a two-word reply. Maybe you go quiet when things start feeling real. Or maybe you go a little overboard with grand gestures before anyone’s asked for them. None of that makes you a bad person – just someone with a pattern or two worth knowing about.
Think of this quiz as a friend who’s finally going to tell you the truth. 27 questions – no judgment, just honesty wrapped in a little humor.
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#12 - "Vague feedback from boss." Having my last principal evaluate my teaching would have been like having Stevie Wonder analyze my handwriting.
The Ghost: Now you see them, now you don't. You have a talent for vanishing right when things start to get real, and you've perfected the art of the slow fade. It's not that you don't care. You just find it easier to step back than to deal with the messy parts. People who love you often feel like they're chasing someone who's always one foot out the door. Your challenge isn't showing up for the fun parts. It's staying when things get uncomfortable and trusting that people can handle the real you.
Rather a harsh evaluation, don't you think? The real me isn't particularly interested in having relationships and, honestly, what the hell does a choice of colours have to do with anything? I can be there for a friend when it *really* matters. I just don't waste time on pointless side quests.
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The Ghost: Now you see them, now you don't. You have a talent for vanishing right when things start to get real, and you've perfected the art of the slow fade. It's not that you don't care. You just find it easier to step back than to deal with the messy parts. People who love you often feel like they're chasing someone who's always one foot out the door. Your challenge isn't showing up for the fun parts. It's staying when things get uncomfortable and trusting that people can handle the real you.
Rather a harsh evaluation, don't you think? The real me isn't particularly interested in having relationships and, honestly, what the hell does a choice of colours have to do with anything? I can be there for a friend when it *really* matters. I just don't waste time on pointless side quests.
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