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Person Shows Up For Interview Only To Be Met With Hostility And Forced To Wait 30 Minutes, Decides To Leave
Person Shows Up For Interview Only To Be Met With Hostility And Forced To Wait 30 Minutes, Decides To Leave
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Person Shows Up For Interview Only To Be Met With Hostility And Forced To Wait 30 Minutes, Decides To Leave

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Various business publications today are full of interviews with managers of different companies, big and small, totally upset by how difficult it is to find a good employee nowadays, and how many important vacancies remain unfilled. Of course, this problem exists, but companies often provoke it themselves.

Yes, we are talking about job interviews, and the internet is also full of stories about how unprofessional HR managers and bosses sometimes behave when negotiating with job seekers. And sometimes, in order to actually get to even an already scheduled interview, you have to go through a real quest.

For instance, this story appeared a few days ago on the Reddit Antiwork community, and as of today has around 11.2K upvotes and nearly 900 different comments. The internet is quite divided over this, so let’s just try to figure everything out together.

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    The author of the post once was invited to a job interview and deliberately arrived several minutes early

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    So, the author of the original post says that they recently went to an interview scheduled by the manager at 1pm at their local harbor freight. As the jobseeker recalls, they showed up a few minutes early, and one of the employees in the company’s office said that they would have to wait a few minutes. The original poster didn’t see this as a problem, as they had deliberately arrived a few minutes early anyway.

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    But time passed – and the HR manager never showed up. After 15 minutes of waiting, the OP decided to check with another manager when the interview would begin, but received just the answer that “everything will start any minute!” After another 15 minutes, the applicant decided that their time was more valuable than trying to get a job at that very company, so they got up and left, stating that “waiting 30 minutes for an interview scheduled by someone in the store was unprofessional.”

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    After 30 minutes of fruitless waiting for the recruiter, the jobseeker finally lost their temper and left

    The original poster then claims that they were greeted with hostility by the other manager, who explained that the HR employee was in a meeting with her own manager at that time, and this was the main reason for such a delay. But according to the author of the post, they did not consider this reason to be valid enough to delay the interview for half an hour.

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    The author claims that the same day, they attended another interview and accepted the offer

    On the other hand, the OP further admits that on the same day, they attended one more job interview and accepted an offer from another company. So it is quite possible that the time gap between two interviews turned out to be very small, and if the first was delayed, then the jobseeker would have simply been late for the second. In addition, the author of the post admits that this was not their dream job at all – otherwise, of course, they would have waited much longer to get that position.

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    Making the job applicant wait so long looks really unprofessional, an expert supposes

    “The situation looks rather uncomfortable to me,” says Alexey Shkurat, founder and CEO of Peach art studio, who was asked by Bored Panda for a comment on the story. “Of course, it’s unpleasant when you are kept waiting, but this person themselves admits they were explained the reason for the recruiter’s delay, and the company was perhaps interested in attracting them as a new employee.”

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    “However, it doesn’t look that professional to keep a recruiter at a meeting when she has a job interview scheduled. For a prospective employee, it looks like they are not valued in advance, and the value of the employer in the eyes of the applicant certainly falls. I don’t know how important this meeting was for the company, however, the HR manager should probably try to leave it and still conduct an interview – albeit late, but not for so long. In any case, the external image of the company suffered,” Alexey notes.

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    Most people in the comments agree that the company exposed themselves as unfriendly and praise the author for leaving

    Many people in the comments also supported the original poster, arguing that making a jobseeker wait half an hour and probably longer (if they hadn’t left) is overkill. Thus, as some of the commenters note, the company undervalues prospective employees straight from the interview stage, clearly demonstrating that people are not so respected here. And, of course, the commenters praised the OP for showing strong will and are glad that they found a new job as well.

    However, it should be noted right away that the situation that happened to the author of this story is far from the most outrageous. For example, no one managed to even meet the hero of this post of ours, who showed up for an interview at a fairly large hospital. And this jobseeker managed to get an interview, but when the company representatives found out that they were unemployed at that time, their salary offer immediately decreased. In any case, we’re glad the original poster has found a new job, and besides, we’re already looking forward to your own comments below this post.

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    Mike Fitzpatrick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about this scenario, mgr comes out and directly says something like "listen, I'm tied up with my boss right now. It should only take 30 minutes or so, if you want to grab a cup of coffee and come back that would be great." Communication, that's the key.

    Yeah, okay.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, if a manager treats people they are interviewing that disrespectful, that's a red flag they will treat their employee worse. No thanks.

    Fantastic Mr Fox
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s completely up to you and the company but I think 30 minutes late from either side and it’s generally over. No second chance.

    Liam Lowenthal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd get s**t for being ten minutes late to work, and chances are high you'd had explained through a call in the first place. I think the same could be expected from your higher ups. I'd rather live in my car than be that much of a bootlicker I couldn't have at least a minute amount of self worth.

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    PK
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People bashing him for leaving must like their min wage jobs.

    Fat Harry
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guarantee the people bashing him are, by and large, American. They have this weird hard-on for appeasing the employer and going "above and beyond" for corporate. In Europe we value ourselves more than that.

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    Joe Hurd
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refuse to wait more than 10 minutes past a scheduled time regardless of the job. If you suck at time management you're likely to suck at paying properly also

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, no. If they don't respect your time as a non-employee, it would only get worse as one. I was in management and would never treat someone that way. I also have left appointments of all kinds saying my time is valuable too before leaving.

    Sparkle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the college I went to, students were allowed to leave class once the professor was 15 minutes late. I now hold employers to this same standard, because it would be unacceptable for me to be so late.

    Crafty mama
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! Employers need to realize this goes 2 ways. I'm glad you respect yourself and see yourself as a prize. Yes, you need a job but they need a good employee. You shouldn't work for someone who shows you no respect during the interview. It would probably only get worse when you worked there. A full time job takes half of your waking hours. It needs to be something you can stand doing with people who respect and treat you well. Anyone who have criticism does not understand this and is either that terrible boss or miserable and under appreciated.

    PK
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like manager has head up their a*s. They should have asked to reschedule.

    sofacushionfort
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Business math has long held: only hire new staff when they generate four times the value of their pay. Because a contradiction also holds that “labor = overhead,” workers are not fully appreciated like, say, a piece of equipment that represents capital asset. Still, would the sales staff blow off the level of customer value that HR routinely does in labor value? “No big deal boss, I lost that client, but there’s plenty more customers out there.”

    Khandnalie E
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Business math accidentally points out the inherently exploitative nature of capitalism by illustrating how workers are always paid less than their labor is worth.

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    Mike Fitzpatrick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about this scenario, mgr comes out and directly says something like "listen, I'm tied up with my boss right now. It should only take 30 minutes or so, if you want to grab a cup of coffee and come back that would be great." Communication, that's the key.

    Yeah, okay.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, if a manager treats people they are interviewing that disrespectful, that's a red flag they will treat their employee worse. No thanks.

    Fantastic Mr Fox
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s completely up to you and the company but I think 30 minutes late from either side and it’s generally over. No second chance.

    Liam Lowenthal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd get s**t for being ten minutes late to work, and chances are high you'd had explained through a call in the first place. I think the same could be expected from your higher ups. I'd rather live in my car than be that much of a bootlicker I couldn't have at least a minute amount of self worth.

    Load More Replies...
    PK
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People bashing him for leaving must like their min wage jobs.

    Fat Harry
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guarantee the people bashing him are, by and large, American. They have this weird hard-on for appeasing the employer and going "above and beyond" for corporate. In Europe we value ourselves more than that.

    Load More Replies...
    Joe Hurd
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refuse to wait more than 10 minutes past a scheduled time regardless of the job. If you suck at time management you're likely to suck at paying properly also

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, no. If they don't respect your time as a non-employee, it would only get worse as one. I was in management and would never treat someone that way. I also have left appointments of all kinds saying my time is valuable too before leaving.

    Sparkle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the college I went to, students were allowed to leave class once the professor was 15 minutes late. I now hold employers to this same standard, because it would be unacceptable for me to be so late.

    Crafty mama
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! Employers need to realize this goes 2 ways. I'm glad you respect yourself and see yourself as a prize. Yes, you need a job but they need a good employee. You shouldn't work for someone who shows you no respect during the interview. It would probably only get worse when you worked there. A full time job takes half of your waking hours. It needs to be something you can stand doing with people who respect and treat you well. Anyone who have criticism does not understand this and is either that terrible boss or miserable and under appreciated.

    PK
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like manager has head up their a*s. They should have asked to reschedule.

    sofacushionfort
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Business math has long held: only hire new staff when they generate four times the value of their pay. Because a contradiction also holds that “labor = overhead,” workers are not fully appreciated like, say, a piece of equipment that represents capital asset. Still, would the sales staff blow off the level of customer value that HR routinely does in labor value? “No big deal boss, I lost that client, but there’s plenty more customers out there.”

    Khandnalie E
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Business math accidentally points out the inherently exploitative nature of capitalism by illustrating how workers are always paid less than their labor is worth.

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