We've all heard about this beautiful, faraway land of the rising sun. Japan is known for its incredible culture, customs and rich traditions that are as old as history itself. So it's quite likely that if you’re a traveler there, you may run into stark cultural differences and get yourself some very weird looks on the way.
But thanks to Tina, a traveler and TikTok creator with a whopping 1.3M followers, we now have a very clear list of things you should never, ever do in Japan.
Shared in a series of fun and lighthearted TikTok videos, Tina warns that eating and drinking (yep, coffee counts too!) is a big no-go and that talking on your phone on public transport is disrespectful. Scroll down below to find out what other things you should not do in Japan!
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Don't put your bag on a free train seat. That should be a universal thing.
Imo it depends on the situation. If the train/bus is mostly empty I dont see the problem. But if it gets fuller then you should take it out.
Not just in japan in portugal if you do the same people will ask to remove it so that they can sit. Its very unpolite
Don't try on clothes without a face cover. This prevents makeup from staining the material.
Just put a plastic bag over your head anyways is what theyre getting at
Load More Replies...This is the opposite of everything they taught me when I was 5 - do not put a bag over your head lol
That's common sense. You don't spoil an item that doesn't belong to you.
I don't know why you got downvoted. Here is an upvote for you.
Load More Replies...I don't need new clothes but some people say I'd benefit from wearing a bag over my head.
So, apparently it's a lot more specific than the post makes it out to be: 46e403e0b2...b3a95e.jpg
Yes and I have never heard of it. I have seen so many items I wanted to buy but wasn't sureI would get the foundation or lipstick out so passed!
Load More Replies...I always have a scarf in my bag in case i decide to try something on.
Don't pull open the taxi door. Japan's living in 3020, remember? They open automatically.
not all of them. when i went a couple of years ago every single one i went in was an older kind :)
Further away from Tokyo the less far into the future you are... Take a trip from say Fukuoka to Osaka and you see start to see kids get taller and even overweight!
Load More Replies...At least since last year it was a regular thing in Tokyo and in taxis outside of main train stops. Every taxi we took had a sign on the door and on the seats about not opening the door in 3 or 4 different languages
Load More Replies...The West is so backwards. Japan had things in the 1960's that are just now making it over here as cutting-edge technology.
Yeah, those manually operated taxi doors are so 1960's groovy cutting edge....
Load More Replies...As somebody who lived in Japan for a sixth or her life, let me tell you this, THEY DON'T
Not "automatically", your driver opens it via a lever and rod mechanism.
They don't open automatically, the driver has a handle he pulls to open the door for you.
Previously, a Lithuania-based Japanese language expert Kotryna Kvietkauskaitė told Bored Panda in an interview that the Japanese are very welcoming of foreigners who put in the effort to speak their language and absorb their culture.
“In Japan, when a foreigner speaks Japanese, they can often get praise for their language skills, even if they simply introduced themselves which is one of the first things that students learn to do,” she said that you’ll often get points for trying, even if what you’re saying isn’t at native-level standards yet.
No talking on the phone on public transport. You will get judgy stares.
Yes, if you talk into a banana in public, the world will judge you. Face it, the world is cruel.
What if that's the one time of the day you actually get to sit down for a chat? If you are talking at a respectful volume it should be ok.
Load More Replies...Is the guy with black rimmed glasses sitting in the background is smoking....?
Don't stand on the wrong side of the escalator. Keep left if you're not in a hurry.
On the East coast people stand to the right if the are not walking but that’s the only place I have seen this in the US
Load More Replies...Right side in most EU countries, but I guess you can see what side other people use and follow them
it's because Japan drives on the left, so it's the same for escalators.
Load More Replies...right?! and it may depend on the station, the two in my old neighborhood were opposite as far as which side was for slow vs fast ppl. For those who have never been to Japan, look for the arrows on the ground or walls and do as others are doing! Plus there are clerks at every station to assist.
Load More Replies...In San Francisco, CA, we stand on the right-side of the escalator.
When living in Hawaii a little old Japanese lady would spend half the day riding the escalator at the department store I worked in. She loved loved loved to stop at the bottom of the escalator and not move off causing everyone behind her to quickly move to try an avoid crashing into her.
Well, I guess that's one way to spend your time.
Load More Replies...Weird in Canada we stand to the right if not in a hurry.... though half the time people don't do it. Usually I just stand next to my wife or whoever I'm with, and if I notice someone coming up behind that wants to walk up them, I'll move over. And obviously say "sorry" for standing in the way, because Canada, need to fit the stereotype
Don't leave your backpack on inside public transport. No one wants a backpack in the face.
I usually take the aisle seat on flights and have lost count of the number of times someone has whacked me in the face with their carry-on and not even noticed. Almost everything that is a rule in Japan should be a rule in other countries. Japan = think of others first. Western countries = think of yourself first (and there is no second, either).
Load More Replies...The exception is wearing the backpack on your front, many people do that on public transportation there
still making you the size of two people and hitting people with it
Load More Replies...Not a backpack wearer or a public transport user soooo - how do most people handle it? Do they put it on the floor? Do they hold the pole with one arm and hold the back pack with the other?
That's what I was wondering, but now I think of it, when I was catching the train into uni If I had a big shoulder bag I would take it off and kind of hold it over my feet to make me as small as possible. If I had a backpack I'm not sure what I would do.
Load More Replies...It’s common courtesy everywhere, it again, some folks don’t care, alas…
What are you supposed to do with it? I don't want it touching the gross floor and holding it in front of me is probably just as bad.
Can’t put it in a seat, can’t keep it on your back, where do you put it?
Between your feet 🙂. People are bulkiest at the torso and thinnest at the ankles, so putting bags there, whether sitting or standing, doesn't take any additional space on a crowded train. It makes a huge difference!
Load More Replies...Kotryna also said that learning any language, including Japanese, is a personal experience. Everyone moves at their own pace and we shouldn’t be in a rush to compare ourselves to others in our own journeys. “One person might take 5 years until they learn to read Japanese fiction without any problems while another person might take 10 years. In other words, there isn’t a clearly-defined point that can be reached after which a person can confidently state that they know Japanese as well as the average native,” she said.
Don't blow your nose in public. It's bad manners and just kinda gross. Sniffle it back in or go to the bathroom to let those boogers out.
This is such a cultural difference to where I live. Growing up, sniffling was considered so rude that even now as an adult, I gag when I hear it. Here, it's considered much less rude to blow your nose than to repeatedly sniff.
I think it's considered rude or at least annoying in a lot of western countries.
Load More Replies...I knew about this and I know it's cultural but I still think that sniffling it back is much more gross than making your nose clean.
yeah... I had an allergy attack while visiting Tokyo, there was not way I could keep that goo inside... sorry population of Tokyo for grossing you out that summer.
I hate it when people are constantly sniffing. Especially when they're particularly bunged up and you can tell it's thick and gloopy from the sound. Yuck! Blowing your nose to end that awful assault on my ears if far better imo. Guess I'd just be rude in Japan then?
But, what is a person supposed to do when/ IF your nose "decides" to "run" w/o warning? *(As in, allergies, or just because???)
In Brazil they do in public, without tissue and still throw it anywhere
Don't bargain the price. It's not like the other Asian countries. In Japan most things are legit.
But just like other countries, if you do not speak the language or you are rude...expect the price to go up.
Don't expect everyone to know English. Try to learn some Japanese.
That should be the rule for visiting any country! It’s good manners to learn at least the basics.
When someone says that I always bring up my trip to the Czech Republic. My wife insisted to learn some basic phrases in Czech, at least greetings, thank you, goodbye and so on. It seems like tourists never do this in Prague and everyone always assumed that we spoke Czech.
Load More Replies...We were walking to the metro in Tokyo early morning, stopped for coffee, this construction worker followed us, tapped me on the shoulder and says "hello, I'm learning English, would you practice with me?" Best encounter ever.
Okay but what use does it have to talk to someone in basic japanese when you can't possibly understand their answer?
I think the idea is more just learning things like "hello" "please" and "thank you" along with maybe "where is the toilet?". Just enough to show you took the time and effort.
Load More Replies...Wow that's kind of extreme!! Meanwhile i work in touristic industry and people very often don't know English (I'm not in UK or USA) and demand you speak to their language!!! Like sure I'll learn 10 different languages so you can all be happy!!! I'm wondering how many will be speaking Greek if i demand it abroad!!!!
I did try to say cab instead of taxi when I visited :) For some reason people found it hard to understand when we said coke though
Load More Replies...A great tip from someone I lived abroad with: The first word to learn is 'thank you'.
Sure.... the phrase: "My dream is to be village leader (head ninja)" comes in handy in so many situations.....
Don't worry.. although you don't speak japanese or they don't speak english, they will help to make anything works for you. But remember, this is only for tourist. And we have Google Translate (and the other) - sure, it's not perfect - but it'll help
Don't walk into fitting rooms with shoes on. Take them off before entering to keep everything clean.
It seems like it would be more hygienic if everyone just kept their shoes on....
This is a pretty standard norm in many Eastern countries. You will often be provided with slippers or cozy socks that you can wear inside. To anyone saying "Ewww" that's unhygienic-- Japan places a huge emphasis on hygiene and cleanliness.
Are there more foot infections in Japan because this seems like a good way to pick up a verruca or athletes foot?
In asia and middle east people take off their shoes in a lot of places and there is not much trouble.
Load More Replies...I'm still going to take my shoes off to try pants on. But you are right, the amount of pins are insane! I think I've been in two dressing rooms in my life that had a pin cushion.
Load More Replies...Don't poke or squeeze fresh produce at supermarkets. Trust me, they only put out the best ones, just grab and go.
So that people just buy the overripe or unripe stuff? Why would I do that? I want to know if I can eat it before I spend money on it...
Load More Replies...Don't place money directly into the cashier's hands. Put it on a tray.
I always think the opposite, it’s rude to make the cashier pick it up!
Personally, I don’t like being handed money directly. I don‘t feel comfortable touching a stranger‘s hand who might have just scratched their butt, have sweaty palms, have corona or the flu etc.
Load More Replies...This is an offshoot of the rule that you NEVER touch someone without their permission. Plus, putting the money on the tray means that no one can claim they gave the cashier a bigger bill than they actually did. It's right out in the open where everyone can see.
And they will put your change on the tray also. So don't take it directly from cashier hands
It was the same when we went to Germany many years ago. The cashier looked at me like I had two heads!
YES PLEASE! Or drop it in front of me, i do not care and just don´t do wired s**t, like "funny" guys do. I have in one shift 300+ people and you are not funny. Oh and please stop counting your trash penny´s in front of several people, that's just rude and not necessary. Especially if you an slow counter. Have it right the first place, or go to the local bakery or something.
Interesting. I thought most of Asia was to always exchange small things using both hands??
Yes, but money is dirty so never direct contact. You might give it in an envelope.
Load More Replies...Don't eat or drink while walking. Drinking coffee counts too. You will get judgy stares.
And judgey. What do they care if one drinks while walking?
Load More Replies...Judge me all you want! I can handle it to be able to drink coffee as I walk around
Right?! If I don't have my water or a coffee in the am in my hand I'm not walking anywhere. We were early arrivals to a PGA tourney and I hadn't finished my Speedway coffee because it was too hot. The police officer let me go in with it anyhow because the coffee inside was terrible and I was going to stand there and finish. It's been over ten years and I still think of that woman! Lol
Load More Replies...If I'm hungry I eat. I have a biological body with biological needs. Nobody tells me when to eat if I'm starving and nowhere near home. Nobody tells me when to go to the loo or not either.
This is also a load of s**t. I keep saying this on this one. You know how many food stands are in Japan? You know how many of those places have no place to stand or sit and eat what you just purchased? Now imagine this times a hundred or more people a hour, especially during peak tourist hours.. I’ve seen it. Get your food and go. If you can eat it there, that’s good. Let them know it was delicious, they like that. But in all seriousness, if everyone’s out food and did this, it would be a huge clusterduck and no one would be getting through anywhere.
Don't go barefoot or wear house slippers into the toilet. Use toilet slippers.
Does a family share toilet slippers or does each family member have their own pair stored by the bathroom door?
And there's an extra pair for guests? I wouldn't want to wear shoes or slippers others have already worn. So I need to bring my own house slippers AND toilet slippers?
That's a lot of slippers. I mostly go barefoot in my house. But we also don't have carpet in the bathroom. Washable bath mats are a thing.
Load More Replies...Funniest thing ever was seeing my 6ft 4in partner trying to squeeze his enormous feet into tiny toilet slippers while in a restaurant in Nagano. The Geisha staff thought it was hilarious!
So, what do people in Japan do if they have prosthetic feet that are built into a pair of shoes? They can't have 5 different sets that they haul around, they can't go barefoot or just in socks...and to the casual observer they don't appear different. Just how structly are these "rules" adhered to, and what accomodations are made for people who can't comply?
Don't get into PDA. Just save it for the hotel room, okay?
There are things in Japan called sex hotels, and if you are traveling, you would most likely have a hotel room or a place to stay where you could show affection for your partner. Sex hotels are convenient if you are stranded with no where to go, but they are used for... well, sex. Essentials are provided. Lube, condoms, even nail clips. Some rooms are themed, and the beds are really nice. There are showers too, and you can rent a room for 3 hours I think.
Load More Replies...I feel like this is why the hand holding/back hug/gentle kiss in K-dramas and J-dramas are such big deals.
These "Hey look this" list misses context ---- there's a few reasons behind all of these (hygiene being the dominant theme)... A line or two of explanation would make this a 10x more interesting post (and remove the constant "wow how weird" reactions) as it shows a world view tying them together.
Their country, they get to set the rules. It's a physically small country with a LOT of people, so when you're up to your armpits in armpits, courtesy/consideration get _real_ important.
One thing the poster doesnt share is her tatoos are also a bit taboo in Japan, most hot springs ( Onsen , ithink theyre called) will not let you in if you have tattoos.
Legit question, pls forgive my ignorance: is it palms together then a bow of the head/shoulders, or a bow without the 'prayer' hands, like arm across the torso and deeper bow? I like the idea of bowing being a part of everyday interaction ^-^
Load More Replies...I'd be kinda interested to see odd social rules for other countries. It's been way overdone for Japan.
Also don't mention Japan's historical oppression of Korea, comfort women, generally being a hostile environment even for 2nd, 3rd, 4th generation Japanese-Koreans, etc.
Also don't Bring up the Congo in Belgium, Algiers in France, Nazism in Germany, Gulags in Russia, The Great Famine in the UK, Slavery in the US. All countries have commited evil in the past.
Load More Replies...In a perfect world, everyone would have such high standards of hygiene and respect for others.
These "Hey look this" list misses context ---- there's a few reasons behind all of these (hygiene being the dominant theme)... A line or two of explanation would make this a 10x more interesting post (and remove the constant "wow how weird" reactions) as it shows a world view tying them together.
Their country, they get to set the rules. It's a physically small country with a LOT of people, so when you're up to your armpits in armpits, courtesy/consideration get _real_ important.
One thing the poster doesnt share is her tatoos are also a bit taboo in Japan, most hot springs ( Onsen , ithink theyre called) will not let you in if you have tattoos.
Legit question, pls forgive my ignorance: is it palms together then a bow of the head/shoulders, or a bow without the 'prayer' hands, like arm across the torso and deeper bow? I like the idea of bowing being a part of everyday interaction ^-^
Load More Replies...I'd be kinda interested to see odd social rules for other countries. It's been way overdone for Japan.
Also don't mention Japan's historical oppression of Korea, comfort women, generally being a hostile environment even for 2nd, 3rd, 4th generation Japanese-Koreans, etc.
Also don't Bring up the Congo in Belgium, Algiers in France, Nazism in Germany, Gulags in Russia, The Great Famine in the UK, Slavery in the US. All countries have commited evil in the past.
Load More Replies...In a perfect world, everyone would have such high standards of hygiene and respect for others.
