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Woman Keeps Blocking Driveway For Mom Of Autistic Kid Who Can’t Walk, She Finally Loses It
Woman Keeps Blocking Driveway For Mom Of Autistic Kid Who Can’t Walk, She Finally Loses It

Woman Keeps Blocking Driveway For Mom Of Autistic Kid Who Can’t Walk, She Finally Loses It

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Neighbors blocking someone’s driveway is honestly an ancient story; I mean, how many times have we heard it? We might think that by now, people would know better, but apparently not, because there are some folks who don’t really think of the inconvenience they might cause others.

This lady who has been blocking the original poster’s (OP) driveway while picking up her kid from school on the same street is not even a neighbor, but a random woman. The OP is super annoyed by this as it makes things difficult for her autistic child to walk from the car to the house, so she sought advice online.

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    Random folks blocking people’s driveways is an age-old story, unfortunately, people never learn from it

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    The poster’s house is on the same street as a school and a mom is always blocking her driveway by parking her car there while picking up her kid

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    Image credits: Lefmry

    Image credits: Nathan Dumlao / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    This creates problems for her autistic kid to travel from the car to the house if the poster parks it somewhere else

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    Image credits: Lefmry

    Image credits: Zhen Yao / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    She has told the woman many times to stop it, but she has never listened, so the poster went online seeking advice

    Today, we dive into the age-old conflict of folks blocking someone else’s driveway as the same thing has been happening to OP. She lives on the same street as a school and a random woman always blocks her driveway with her car and simply ignores her when told to stop.

    Now, the problem is that she is often parked there whenever OP returns from picking up her autistic kid, and for the poster to park somewhere else and then walk to the house is quite difficult. She even mentions that if not for the kid, she wouldn’t really mind it, but since the child has severe additional needs, it really must be challenging for her. 

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    After her complaints fell on deaf ears of this random woman, OP was downright irked, because she is already looking after her eldest autistic child, another 20-month-old kid, and a 4-week-old baby! Well, after giving birth recently, she mentioned that she already has other things to do, and this is just an unnecessary hassle.

    Frustrated with her situation, she vented online and asked people whether noting down the number plate and complaining to the school would be helpful or if there’s anything else that she could do. As always, people came to her rescue and suggested quite a few things.

    Many of them agreed that going to the school would be a good idea, as they might be able to find the parent and tell her off for doing so. However, others argued that the woman sounds quite entitled as it didn’t phase her at all when OP told her so many times to not do it. They felt that even if the school contacted her, she wouldn’t really be bothered by it much.

    Image credits: Bruno Martins / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

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    One person commented that the poster should look at the Highway Code, which clearly instructs, “DO NOT stop or park: in front of an entrance to a property”. Folks joked around that she should make a big printout of this and stick it to the lady’s windshield. 

    Others jested that she could hold a large cardboard poster with the vehicle number, stand in front of the school, and call out the lady loudly and publicly. Someone even suggested that when she comes back from picking up her son, she could go near the woman with her car and keep honking until she moves. However, many flagged down this idea as it might disturb her neighbors.

    They said that she could take legal action against the woman by taking her pictures whenever she parks there—as evidence— and then report her on FixMyStreet so the council can take action. OP has already taken her pictures, which didn’t even deter the woman a little bit, and she could present them to the council when they ask for proof.

    Quite a few netizens advised that she should apply for a blue badge from the council as it states that a person can do so if they care for a child who’s disabled or has a health condition that affects their mobility. People suggested that she could post it in her driveway and see if that would somehow affect the entitled woman’s attitude.

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    So many genius solutions, aren’t they? Netizens never disappoint when someone comes asking for advice! OP mentioned in a comment that her husband has some time off coming up and she could ask him to take a serious look into the matter. 

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    If you were in her shoes, what would you do? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

    Netizens came up with quite a few genius solutions for the poster and even shared a few jokes about the situation

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    Denis Krotovas

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    I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last post is absolute BS, of all the discriminatory rubbish to think about the rights of residents on a school street, this is bottom feeding level Pond scum. These are the types that do all these terrible things to the residents cos "bad luck, your fault for living here".

    Binny Tutera
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right! And there is absolutely no "discount" for buying a house near a school. Quite the opposite. Blocking a driveway is not harmless, it is PRIVATE PROPERTY.

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    Sunny Day
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parking where you block a driveway is illegal. Call the police and let her get ticketed. Either that or rent a monster truck so you can drive over her car and into your driveway.

    JK
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an option in the UK. Tend to have to have cars abandoned for several days, then inform the police, wait for them to arrange towing. All in can take about a week to have a car removed by towing

    Load More Replies...
    Sa Ruuu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg the last comment "you're unreasonable here" makes me wanna throw hands. Park on MY property without MY permission and call ME unreasonable, like good Lord how entitled people can be

    Patricia Grande
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last commenter on this post probably blocks people’s driveways or parks like an a*****e.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last commenter on this post probably smells his own farts. No, that's a definitely.

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    Nilsen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ages ago I lived in the end of a dead end street (300 meters long) where the school was about half way in. Not a single child lived longer than 700 meters from the school, the majority less than 500. And a lot of the parents said they HAD to drive their kids to school, because of all the heavy traffic in the street. That traffic was partents driving their children to school + maybe ten houses on the inside of the school.... Back in my day (yes, I know I'm ancient) walking up to two kilometers was the norm for 6-10 year olds, and I can count on one hand the times my parents drove the 1,5 km to my school....

    Mark McCawley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Find a local small towing company, give them your address and the school times and let them know any car blocking your driveway is good to get towed off.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then invite people to park in front of your house for pickup for $20/month. Step 3: profit

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    leendadll
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to accept never trying to leave or return to my house between 2:30 and 3:15pm. One day, my neighbor came home to THREE cars parked in his driveway, with parents waiting for their kids! I'm in the US and police simply aren't available to ticket these people. A couple times a year, they'll set up "stings" for drivers who ignore the 4-way stop & crosswalks, which is immensely satisfying to watch, but the old habits return as soon as the sting operation ends.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call the police as you park behind them. Get photos of plates and people in cars. Video them as they peel through your lawn to avoid a ticket once they figure out your play. When cops come, you've got them for trespassing, blocking the drive, destruction of property, and probably a few more depending on their reactions to the mess. Tell them you ALWAYS press charges the first time so people learn their lesson. Word will spread, you'll only play this game once.

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    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time you can’t get in or out of your own drive, make a report to the police. Write to the school and let them know that it happened. Write to your local council and let them know that it is happening. Do not vandalise the vehicle yourself! Don’t give anyone any ammunition they can use against you.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder who would be at fault if you just backed down your driveway and totalled the offending car with full force. "Well gee officer I was in a hurry and never expected Karen to be parked somewhere blatantly illegal!" Your insurance will almost assuredly have your back to avoid paying. Perp will get a ticket for illegal parking, making fault easier to establish. I'm curious what the results would be

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    sweet emotion
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a big proponent of the "write a message in nail polish on the windshield" retaliation, but in this case the driver knows who the homeowner is - or at least, knows her address - and will probably sue for damages. But it's still fun to think about.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's going to have a fun time proving that was my nail polish just because I live there. Just because you know I'm rightfully pissed off at you doesn't mean that all my neighbors don't also hate you. So be a good neighbor and go nail polish the cars when you see them blocking your neighbors drive, rather than your own.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last post is absolute BS, of all the discriminatory rubbish to think about the rights of residents on a school street, this is bottom feeding level Pond scum. These are the types that do all these terrible things to the residents cos "bad luck, your fault for living here".

    Binny Tutera
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right! And there is absolutely no "discount" for buying a house near a school. Quite the opposite. Blocking a driveway is not harmless, it is PRIVATE PROPERTY.

    Load More Replies...
    Sunny Day
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parking where you block a driveway is illegal. Call the police and let her get ticketed. Either that or rent a monster truck so you can drive over her car and into your driveway.

    JK
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an option in the UK. Tend to have to have cars abandoned for several days, then inform the police, wait for them to arrange towing. All in can take about a week to have a car removed by towing

    Load More Replies...
    Sa Ruuu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg the last comment "you're unreasonable here" makes me wanna throw hands. Park on MY property without MY permission and call ME unreasonable, like good Lord how entitled people can be

    Patricia Grande
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last commenter on this post probably blocks people’s driveways or parks like an a*****e.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last commenter on this post probably smells his own farts. No, that's a definitely.

    Load More Replies...
    Nilsen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ages ago I lived in the end of a dead end street (300 meters long) where the school was about half way in. Not a single child lived longer than 700 meters from the school, the majority less than 500. And a lot of the parents said they HAD to drive their kids to school, because of all the heavy traffic in the street. That traffic was partents driving their children to school + maybe ten houses on the inside of the school.... Back in my day (yes, I know I'm ancient) walking up to two kilometers was the norm for 6-10 year olds, and I can count on one hand the times my parents drove the 1,5 km to my school....

    Mark McCawley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Find a local small towing company, give them your address and the school times and let them know any car blocking your driveway is good to get towed off.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then invite people to park in front of your house for pickup for $20/month. Step 3: profit

    Load More Replies...
    leendadll
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to accept never trying to leave or return to my house between 2:30 and 3:15pm. One day, my neighbor came home to THREE cars parked in his driveway, with parents waiting for their kids! I'm in the US and police simply aren't available to ticket these people. A couple times a year, they'll set up "stings" for drivers who ignore the 4-way stop & crosswalks, which is immensely satisfying to watch, but the old habits return as soon as the sting operation ends.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call the police as you park behind them. Get photos of plates and people in cars. Video them as they peel through your lawn to avoid a ticket once they figure out your play. When cops come, you've got them for trespassing, blocking the drive, destruction of property, and probably a few more depending on their reactions to the mess. Tell them you ALWAYS press charges the first time so people learn their lesson. Word will spread, you'll only play this game once.

    Load More Replies...
    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time you can’t get in or out of your own drive, make a report to the police. Write to the school and let them know that it happened. Write to your local council and let them know that it is happening. Do not vandalise the vehicle yourself! Don’t give anyone any ammunition they can use against you.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder who would be at fault if you just backed down your driveway and totalled the offending car with full force. "Well gee officer I was in a hurry and never expected Karen to be parked somewhere blatantly illegal!" Your insurance will almost assuredly have your back to avoid paying. Perp will get a ticket for illegal parking, making fault easier to establish. I'm curious what the results would be

    Load More Replies...
    sweet emotion
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a big proponent of the "write a message in nail polish on the windshield" retaliation, but in this case the driver knows who the homeowner is - or at least, knows her address - and will probably sue for damages. But it's still fun to think about.

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's going to have a fun time proving that was my nail polish just because I live there. Just because you know I'm rightfully pissed off at you doesn't mean that all my neighbors don't also hate you. So be a good neighbor and go nail polish the cars when you see them blocking your neighbors drive, rather than your own.

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