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Widower Repaints Stepchildren’s Rooms After They Move Out, Family Accuses Him Of “Erasing” Them
Man sitting on bed looking down, reflecting on stepfather prioritizing own children over remodeling stepkids rooms.

Widower Repaints Stepchildren’s Rooms After They Move Out, Family Accuses Him Of “Erasing” Them

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In times of sudden change, it’s important for people to stick together. Additional fights only complicate matters further.

So when Reddit user AsparagusMuch821 bid his wife farewell to the afterlife, he waited for a few months before doing anything to their home, which he now shared solely with his own children since hers had moved out to live with their biological father.

But after the man decided to repurpose their former rooms and adjust them to the new household, his late partner’s family were very much against it.

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    After this man became a widower, his late wife’s kids went on to live with their biological father

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    But they still didn’t want him to touch the kids’ rooms

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    The stepkids’ biological family showed no interest in the belongings they left behind

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    As the man’s story went viral, he answered some of people’s biggest questions

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    Most people thought the widower hadn’t done anything wrong

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    Some, however, thought he needed to wait a bit longer before making any changes to the house

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    And a few questioned his plan altogether

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Writer, Senior Writer

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    UnclePanda
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think biodad realized he didn't want to be a full time parent and now there's no going back.

    V
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother's husband started clearing out her stuff the day after her funeral. I was in my late twenties, had all my remaining stuff left at my mother's house that I could after 3 months. I lost my mother and my childhood home in threw months so I know how those boys feel. They are still minors, they don't have any real choices.

    Michelle C
    Community Member
    29 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the AH. The kids don't live there, he has no legal right to them, and since they left they haven't stayed over. He shouldn't have to let two rooms stay empty in his own house because people who don't pay the mortgage are sensitive about it.

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    UnclePanda
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think biodad realized he didn't want to be a full time parent and now there's no going back.

    V
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother's husband started clearing out her stuff the day after her funeral. I was in my late twenties, had all my remaining stuff left at my mother's house that I could after 3 months. I lost my mother and my childhood home in threw months so I know how those boys feel. They are still minors, they don't have any real choices.

    Michelle C
    Community Member
    29 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the AH. The kids don't live there, he has no legal right to them, and since they left they haven't stayed over. He shouldn't have to let two rooms stay empty in his own house because people who don't pay the mortgage are sensitive about it.

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