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Woman Ends Up Arrested After Trying To Make CPS Take Away Stepdaughter’s Kids
Woman with crossed arms wearing a white blazer and gold jewelry, looking concerned about suspected food theft by step-mom.

Woman Ends Up Arrested After Trying To Make CPS Take Away Stepdaughter’s Kids

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When someone threatens parents with calling CPS, it can definitely send them into a panic. However, data shows that in the U.S., up to 64.3% of maltreatment reports turn out to be unsubstantiated. Still, that doesn’t stop family members from causing parents unnecessary stress and stirring up drama.

The kind of drama this “Hamburgler” stepmother unleashed on this young family is one for the ages. The wife shared their story online in a seven-part saga, and what started off as stolen food from the pantry and a call to CPS turned into a Hollywood-worthy thriller involving a golf club to a window, police, and a heartbreaking loss of a pregnancy.

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    A mother of two had to deal with her unhinged stepmom’s threats to involve CPS

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    It all started when she saw the parents as “unfit” because they had trouble getting groceries

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    Two years later, it turned out the husband wasn’t the perfect loving man, either

    In the “Hamburgler” saga, the woman’s husband comes across as a caring, doting man. Perhaps he’s not home that often because of his work, but many readers probably thought that she had a good anchor and source of support in him.

    Sadly, that turned out to be false. After two years, the Redditor came back with another story, this time about what drove her to separate from her husband. Apparently, one evening, he threw a tantrum about dinner and almost got physically violent.

    He didn’t like the way she had prepared the meatloaf and started yelling at her. Then, as she went to check her blood sugar, he grew even angrier, claiming that she only has diabetes because it’s convenient when they fight.

    “He ripped the monitor from my hands and chucked it at the wall, busting it open,” u/petrichorluna wrote. “While I stood there in shock, he threw away the case with all of my extra strips and lancets, then opened my glucose tablets and dumped them out in the trash too. He dumped out the meatloaf I had just spent hours making too.”

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    The wife chose not to escalate the argument, finished her dinner, put the kids to sleep, and went to bed herself. “The next day was payday for me, and I spent every cent of my check on deposits for an apartment for me and my boys,” the woman detailed.

    As for the husband, he went to stay with his mother in another state. “The last couple weeks have been hard as hell, and he’s been super nasty, and I’m still not even sure how to go about getting a divorce in Louisiana, but at least I don’t live with someone who thinks I’m making up a disease I’ve had the entire time I’ve known him just so he doesn’t scream at me about dinner,” the Redditor wrote.

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    Luckily, she was able to get away from him together with her children

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    In her last update three years ago, u/petrichorluna shared how she was able to get out of the marriage with full custody of her children. A few days after the violent incident, the woman went to the police with a recording of the whole ordeal from their kitchen security camera and pressed charges.

    She didn’t go into detail about what happened next, but later updated people that she’s living with her two boys, divorced from her husband. “The kids and I are safe – the two-year-old is four now, and the big kid is about to turn 8. Life isn’t super easy, but we’re together and they know nothing but love.”

    She explained how there were always minor red flags in her husband’s behavior; she just chose not to see them back then. “He didn’t scream at me and he told me he loved me, he was wonderful and ‘kind’ even as he did everything he could to make me completely reliant on him.”

    “As our marriage progressed, things got steadily worse. This incident was the first time I was able to recognize what he was doing was [mistreatment], but when you look back there was always a pattern,” the Redditor now sees clearly. “I’ve done a lot of healing and can recognize what I’ve been through.”

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    Commenters urged the mom to hold her father accountable and rein in the evil stepmother

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    However, the father refused to believe his wife was capable of any of this, driving a wedge between him and his daughter

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    “Hopefully changing the locks would be enough to prevent her from trying again,” invested commenters wrote

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    Then, the stepmother returned for a visit with the alleged CPS worker, which resulted in an explosive confrontation

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    “What an awful woman!” people reacted. “If she continues this she will end up in jail”

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    In her next mini update, the mom detailed how this wasn’t the first time the rogue CPS worker crossed professional boundaries

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    The situation became worse after the woman visited her OB

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    After the stepmother found out, she went berserk and broke into the family’s home again

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    In her last update, the woman discovered her stepmom didn’t remain in jail

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    At least the dad finally had enough: “They’re officially separated now”

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    I am a Visual editor at Bored Panda, I'm determined to find the most interesting and the best quality images for each post that I do. On my free time I like to unwind by doing some yoga, watching all kinds of movies/tv shows, playing video and board games or just simply hanging out with my cat

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    Indrė Lukošiūtė

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    I am a Visual editor at Bored Panda, I'm determined to find the most interesting and the best quality images for each post that I do. On my free time I like to unwind by doing some yoga, watching all kinds of movies/tv shows, playing video and board games or just simply hanging out with my cat

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I'm usually all for just reading these kinds of posts as if they were basically entertaining short stories, but this one was a little wild even for me to enjoy as "fiction". It's also worth noting that I checked OP's post history on Reddit to see if there were any further updates, and after slogging through a number of posts where OP is apparently asking for people on Reddit to loan them money(???), apparently her "teddy bear" husband who "has never in his life dreamed of laying a hand on another person" apparently ALSO turned out to be a complete psycho and screamed at her and slapped her glucose monitor out of her hand because he doesn't "believe" she has diabetes. So. I dunno XD I can usually just enjoy these as fiction, but it really felt like OP was writing some crazy fanfic in the "poor me" genre here.

    Nicely
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's actually very reassuring, thanks for putting in the legwork Wolf

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    KatSaidThat
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm having a hard time believing all of this.

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    Jaya
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it just me or does this story sound fake?

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I'm usually all for just reading these kinds of posts as if they were basically entertaining short stories, but this one was a little wild even for me to enjoy as "fiction". It's also worth noting that I checked OP's post history on Reddit to see if there were any further updates, and after slogging through a number of posts where OP is apparently asking for people on Reddit to loan them money(???), apparently her "teddy bear" husband who "has never in his life dreamed of laying a hand on another person" apparently ALSO turned out to be a complete psycho and screamed at her and slapped her glucose monitor out of her hand because he doesn't "believe" she has diabetes. So. I dunno XD I can usually just enjoy these as fiction, but it really felt like OP was writing some crazy fanfic in the "poor me" genre here.

    Nicely
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's actually very reassuring, thanks for putting in the legwork Wolf

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    KatSaidThat
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm having a hard time believing all of this.

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    Jaya
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it just me or does this story sound fake?

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