Women Who Are Dating Shorter Guys Share Their Pics In A Viral Twitter Thread
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Size doesn’t matter. No, wait, hang on, that’s not what I meant. I was talking about height! So, yeah, height doesn’t matter when it comes to whether or not you’re a good person. Being shorter doesn’t automatically make you less great (we call that concentrated awesomeness). And being taller doesn’t automatically make you virtuous. Even so, the vast majority of women (and voters!) are attracted to tall guys.
A woman named Lizz Adams sparked a debate about dating tall and short guys when she posted a photo of her “king” of a husband who is just 5’5” (165 cm), while she towers over him in the pic. However, she and her husband were of the opinion that tall guys are simply bad people. A lot of cute couples posted photos of them and their shorter partners, while others pointed out the obvious fact that there’s no objective relation between your height and your character. Scroll down for Bored Panda’s exclusive interview with comedian Lizz where she clears up some misunderstandings and talks about the purpose of her Twitter thread.
While we’re on the topic of height differences, be sure to check out our wholesome post about the Perks of Being Short by the incredibly talented illustrator Brisa, creator of Three Under the Rain.
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Lizz’s picture of her and her shorter husband went viral
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Some people in relationships also posted their own pics where the guy is shorter
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Lizz’s viral thread got nearly 27k retweets and over 190k likes. But far from everyone was happy with what she had to say. However, Lizz cleared up any misunderstandings others had when she talked to Bored Panda towards tall guys.
Lizz told Bored Panda that the internet’s reaction to her short men tweets was big. “The reaction was much bigger than I’d anticipated, to be honest! It blew up after a couple of big accounts retweeted it, and I think it hit a nerve with a lot of people who misunderstood the intention behind it.”
“I’m a comedian, so I speak in hyperbole a lot, but a lot of people thought I was being dead serious or trying to speak badly about tall people which was not my intention. I am taller than my husband, who I love very much, but was just pointing out how arbitrary height requirements are, and that discounting a potential partner based on their height could prevent you from meeting someone really special,” she cleared up any misunderstandings.
“Being a good man has nothing to do with how you look”
We wanted to hear Lizz’s opinion about why a lot of men might feel insecure about being shorter than women. Here’s what she said: “I imagine it’s because of the reaction people have when they see a taller woman with a shorter man. I don’t think the stigma applies as much to non-hetero couples, but there’s this perception that women should be with men that are larger than them and that sort of toxic masculinity makes men feel like they have to be huge and strong to be manly, but being a good man has nothing to do with how you look.”
Lizz also had some advice to give to girls interested in dating shorter guys and guys interested in taller girls. “My advice would be to shoot your shot! Get to know the person you’re interested in, establish a connection, and go for it! If they’re not interested, that’s ok, they’re not the person for you, move on to someone who appreciates you for you, not just your optics!”
Finally, she had this to add: “I just wanted to add that the only thing I regret about my original tweet is making light of a very real disease that affects a lot of people. I didn’t mean to shade alcoholics or imply that all tall people abuse alcohol, it was a flippant tweet I sent off without thinking, and I appreciate the people who brought that to my attention and apologize for any offense in that regard!”
Different opinions about what it means to be tall
Bored Panda conducted an informal (but totally, totally scientific) survey of 6 local women to find out from what height onwards they consider a guy to be tall. The answers varied, naturally.
One respondent said that she considers guys who are 5’10” (178 cm) or more to be tall. While another said that a guy isn’t tall unless he’s at least 6’1” (186 cm). Meanwhile, another woman explained that she wouldn’t even consider dating a man if he were to be shorter than 6’11” (180 cm). A fourth said that she’s 5’3” (160 cm), so any guy her height or bigger than her is tall in her eyes. Respondent number 5 was very generous and said that all guys over 5’9” (175 cm) are tall in her opinion. While the final respondent explained that guys have to be 6’3” (190 cm) if they want her attention.
Scientists explain what human beings tend to think of taller people
Remember, when I mentioned that it’s not just women but also voters who adore tall people? Well, it’s not just an educated guess, scientists actually analyzed the claim.
The vast majority of us instinctively see taller people as being physically stronger. It’s part of our evolutionary path and most animals correlate size with strength as well. This meant that we tended to support tall people as leaders because their strength used to make the difference between life and death in ancient history.
Human beings also tend to think of tall individuals as being more competent at their jobs than they might be which is an offshoot of the Halo Effect. And American voters historically tend to vote for taller candidates, as well.
Here’s what some people thought of Lizz’s tweets
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Short guys are more fun because they are much more down to earth.
I think people took your joke a bit too seriously. I thought it was a clever pun.
The pretty lady of color who had her man in sweats by the ear was my favorite. I liked every image and I learned that the lady being taller makes for some very attractive couples.
Black. Just say it.
Every short man I met has been the meanest angriest person ever. They aren't down to earth they are closer to hell.
Really? Girlfriend. I grew up in a family of short men. Dad was 5'7", one brother is around that, the other two are closer to 5'5". My brother-in-law is only about 5'5" or 5'6" as well. None of them are the kind of bitter person you are talking about. They are all loving, kind, funny, smart gentlemen with lotos of friends and solid marriages that have lasted for decades. (36 years and 32 years for the married brothers; 23 for my sister.) My Dad was a great Dad, a good friend, and a devoted husband. You are making the same mistake this woman did originally, and conflating height with character. You need to know, frankly, that short guys get tired of the "jokes" about their height and the automatic attitude that they can't do anything as well as some guy who is six to ten inches taller. I think you need to be a little more empathetic and a lot less judgmental.
xD
Hmmm... no, wait... big HMMMMMMM! Let's not generalise. Seen both kinds of guys on both sides of the height spectrum.
I think that was a joke about them being closer to the ground, woooooosh.
Ummmmmmm...his was a bit of the ol humor there.
Me too
Couldn’t she have simply made the post about how she is taller than her husband and very happy and proud with that? Did she really had to compare their relationship to other alleged relationships of women dating taller guys who are alcoholics and so on? She has most likely been judged by people due to the difference in height between her and her husband but instead of being a bigger person and just be happy with what they are, she has to generalize that all tall man are bad, also judging other people based on their looks.
I agree with you that she didn't have to be negative but I don't blame her that much... having dated a shorter guy than me in the past, (it didn't work out for unrelated reasons) there was definitely a stigma there... people were judgmental, especially women. He told me stories where he was automatically rejected based on his height and nothing else. Some of the women he wanted to date had criterias on their profile that wouldn't consider dating guys under 6ft... I actually had a friend that said she'd rather date a mean tall guy than a nice short guy. Seriously. Sure its not all women, but, I feel like a lot of shorter guys go through similar and her post is a response to those kind of shallow women.
Ramona, it's just for fun, be easy and have a nice day.
Like her husband's "f--k tall people" party, the "imsults" are probably not intended literally.
It was a joke.
She did generalize, but not quite as broadly as you say. She did not say that all tall men are bad. She said that the tall men some women date may have flaws that offset any imaginary height virtue.
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Answer to your second question: Yes. She did. Because the point was that some women will accept a horrible asshole as long as he’s tall. How can you miss something so blatantly obvious and then make up lies / words she never said? Just wondering.
Felt like her point could of been made without the insults.
Agreed. And it feels like she is the one making it an issue. My husband and I are the exact same height and it never dawned on me that it might be an issue or some sort of cultural abnormal. I love wearing heels which puts me 2-3 inches taller and never even thought about it. I always figured that women refusing to date anyone under X height were along the lines of men who won't date a women with boobs smaller than X size.
Okay, that's your point of view. But again, as the daughter of a man who was 5'7" and the sister of three brothers who are shorter than that, you don't know what they put up with. My Dad's golf friends used to say all the time, "Hey Bobby, stand up. OH, you ARE standing up! Hahaha." Needless to say, he didn't appreciate the joke the way they did. I invited my youngest brother to a Super Bowl gathering at a friend's house last year. I've worked with this friend for 20 years, and I've talked a lot about my family and this brother, but it was the first time they ever met. When I asked my friend -- who is six feet, by the way -- what he thought of my brother, he said, "I thought he was sweet." OMG. Would he say that about my brother if he was 6'5" instead of 5'5"? Probably NOT. This is what you need to understand. It's a lot more complicated than preferring bigger boobs.
Doubtful it was put of the blue. Much more likely she got tired of the endless snickering and b.s. from randos. Highly doubt the origin of this was spontaneous and not a reaction to someone else's B.S.
The OP is a moron, frankly. "I once dated a 6'2' alcoholic dimwit therefore all men who are 6'2" are alcoholic dimwits" She has the critical thinking of a 9 year old.
It's *could've*. As in "could have". Not "could of". If you're going to say something negative about somebody, you should probably at least say it correctly...
Besides a slight grammatical error 🙄 I think you need to reread my comment. I said nothing negative about the woman. Just thought the point could HAVE been made without throwing insults.
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Could have not "could of".
Short guys are more fun because they are much more down to earth.
I think people took your joke a bit too seriously. I thought it was a clever pun.
The pretty lady of color who had her man in sweats by the ear was my favorite. I liked every image and I learned that the lady being taller makes for some very attractive couples.
Black. Just say it.
Every short man I met has been the meanest angriest person ever. They aren't down to earth they are closer to hell.
Really? Girlfriend. I grew up in a family of short men. Dad was 5'7", one brother is around that, the other two are closer to 5'5". My brother-in-law is only about 5'5" or 5'6" as well. None of them are the kind of bitter person you are talking about. They are all loving, kind, funny, smart gentlemen with lotos of friends and solid marriages that have lasted for decades. (36 years and 32 years for the married brothers; 23 for my sister.) My Dad was a great Dad, a good friend, and a devoted husband. You are making the same mistake this woman did originally, and conflating height with character. You need to know, frankly, that short guys get tired of the "jokes" about their height and the automatic attitude that they can't do anything as well as some guy who is six to ten inches taller. I think you need to be a little more empathetic and a lot less judgmental.
xD
Hmmm... no, wait... big HMMMMMMM! Let's not generalise. Seen both kinds of guys on both sides of the height spectrum.
I think that was a joke about them being closer to the ground, woooooosh.
Ummmmmmm...his was a bit of the ol humor there.
Me too
Couldn’t she have simply made the post about how she is taller than her husband and very happy and proud with that? Did she really had to compare their relationship to other alleged relationships of women dating taller guys who are alcoholics and so on? She has most likely been judged by people due to the difference in height between her and her husband but instead of being a bigger person and just be happy with what they are, she has to generalize that all tall man are bad, also judging other people based on their looks.
I agree with you that she didn't have to be negative but I don't blame her that much... having dated a shorter guy than me in the past, (it didn't work out for unrelated reasons) there was definitely a stigma there... people were judgmental, especially women. He told me stories where he was automatically rejected based on his height and nothing else. Some of the women he wanted to date had criterias on their profile that wouldn't consider dating guys under 6ft... I actually had a friend that said she'd rather date a mean tall guy than a nice short guy. Seriously. Sure its not all women, but, I feel like a lot of shorter guys go through similar and her post is a response to those kind of shallow women.
Ramona, it's just for fun, be easy and have a nice day.
Like her husband's "f--k tall people" party, the "imsults" are probably not intended literally.
It was a joke.
She did generalize, but not quite as broadly as you say. She did not say that all tall men are bad. She said that the tall men some women date may have flaws that offset any imaginary height virtue.
Perfect reply (=
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
Answer to your second question: Yes. She did. Because the point was that some women will accept a horrible asshole as long as he’s tall. How can you miss something so blatantly obvious and then make up lies / words she never said? Just wondering.
Felt like her point could of been made without the insults.
Agreed. And it feels like she is the one making it an issue. My husband and I are the exact same height and it never dawned on me that it might be an issue or some sort of cultural abnormal. I love wearing heels which puts me 2-3 inches taller and never even thought about it. I always figured that women refusing to date anyone under X height were along the lines of men who won't date a women with boobs smaller than X size.
Okay, that's your point of view. But again, as the daughter of a man who was 5'7" and the sister of three brothers who are shorter than that, you don't know what they put up with. My Dad's golf friends used to say all the time, "Hey Bobby, stand up. OH, you ARE standing up! Hahaha." Needless to say, he didn't appreciate the joke the way they did. I invited my youngest brother to a Super Bowl gathering at a friend's house last year. I've worked with this friend for 20 years, and I've talked a lot about my family and this brother, but it was the first time they ever met. When I asked my friend -- who is six feet, by the way -- what he thought of my brother, he said, "I thought he was sweet." OMG. Would he say that about my brother if he was 6'5" instead of 5'5"? Probably NOT. This is what you need to understand. It's a lot more complicated than preferring bigger boobs.
Doubtful it was put of the blue. Much more likely she got tired of the endless snickering and b.s. from randos. Highly doubt the origin of this was spontaneous and not a reaction to someone else's B.S.
The OP is a moron, frankly. "I once dated a 6'2' alcoholic dimwit therefore all men who are 6'2" are alcoholic dimwits" She has the critical thinking of a 9 year old.
It's *could've*. As in "could have". Not "could of". If you're going to say something negative about somebody, you should probably at least say it correctly...
Besides a slight grammatical error 🙄 I think you need to reread my comment. I said nothing negative about the woman. Just thought the point could HAVE been made without throwing insults.
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Could have not "could of".