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IT Professional Warns Karen Of What Her Request Means, She Only Realizes When She’s Called In By The COO
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IT Professional Warns Karen Of What Her Request Means, She Only Realizes When She’s Called In By The COO

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One of the main hallmarks of a truly great workplace leader is that they’re open to listening to their employees. Bad managers, on the flip side, think that their opinions are all that matter. For them, anyone who disagrees with them is the ‘enemy.’ That sort of approach is awful for company morale, and it’s bound to affect the bottom line, too.

Redditor u/IllustriousReport482 regaled the Malicious Compliance online community with a story about what happens to leaders who never learn to listen. According to the IT pro, one manager forced them to take the company server down during office hours, despite all of the warnings. The chaos was immediate and immense. Scroll down to learn more details about the fallout.

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    An IT professional shared how an entitled and toxic boss forced them to shut down the company servers during work hours. The fallout was intense

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    Toxic workplace leaders lack empathy and self-awareness, avoid taking responsibility, and make your life hell in many other ways

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    Working under a bad workplace leader is awful for morale and motivation. According to the Harvard Business Review, just because your boss is annoying, dismissive, or frustrating at times doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re toxic.

    Truly toxic managers lack self-awareness and have low emotional intelligence. They’re often unable to recognize and control their emotions.

    “They tend to think that they are right about everything. This inhibits their ability to create resonance with teams and generates resistance to feedback,” HBR explains.

    Usually, these poisonous workplace leaders don’t take the time and energy to invest in relationships. They don’t prioritize empathy, nor do they understand how the way in which they communicate affects the rest of the company.

    They can’t relate to their employees’ emotions, perspectives, or challenges. The end result is very simple: low trust.

    Other red flags that you probably work with a toxic boss include the following:

    • Excessive motivation by self-interest, including attention-seeking and taking credit for others’ work
    • Inconsistent, unpredictable behavior, unclear communication, and favoritism
    • Taking advantage of power dynamics and weaponizing authority
    • Micromanaging and controlling staff, which leads to disempowerment and a lack of trust
    • Setting unreasonable expectations, unachievable deadlines, and results, and having unclear goals
    • Making belittling and demoralizing comments
    • Blaming others when mistakes are made, instead of accepting responsibility for one’s actions
    • Being overconfident about their knowledge and overestimating their skills

    These bosses don’t care about the ideas and input of their subordinates. For them, the only opinion that matters is theirs

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    Meanwhile, Verywell Mind stresses that toxic bosses don’t listen to other people and refuse to accept feedback.

    “Another red flag of a toxic boss is the inability (or outright refusal) to listen and accept input. When leaders ignore feedback, shut down ideas, or make decisions without accepting other ideas, it’s often a sign of authoritarian leadership. Such leaders have a ‘my way or the highway’ approach to management. They tend to rule teams using fear and intimidation and aren’t willing to listen to team members’ ideas.”

    These managers also don’t respect you as a team member, dismissing your ideas, interrupting you, and disregarding your input.

    Aside from trust within the organization taking a strong hit, working alongside a toxic workplace leader also leads to greater fear and anxiety, low morale, and burnout.

    That’s on top of an increased risk of developing serious health issues (depression, PTSD, anxiety, premature aging, high blood pressure) and an increased employee turnover.

    To put it bluntly, people don’t want to work with colleagues who decrease their job satisfaction and undermine their self-worth. So, they start looking for jobs elsewhere.

    The consequences of this type of mismanagement are immense. You end up directly harming workers’ health, motivation, and well-being, forcing many talented employees out

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    This leads to brain drain and a loss of talented employees, eventually affecting the company’s efficiency and quality of work, leading to a worse reputation and lower profits. Not to mention the added costs of hiring and training replacements for those workers who left.

    “No one should be working for someone who doesn’t respect them, makes them feel undermined, or makes their work life hell. While you can do all that you can to maintain high work standards to protect yourself from unwarranted criticism, a toxic boss may still find ways to belittle you. If a boss’s toxic behavior has become intolerable and all else fails, actively seek out other opportunities,” HBR suggests.

    “If the company you’re working for is a place you like, you could reach out to HR and talk about other roles within the company. If you feel the toxicity is a widespread issue within the organization, look for opportunities outside. Working for a toxic boss can be devastating and can have a lasting impact on your mental and physical health. No one should suffer at the hands of a toxic boss.”

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    What do you think of the way the IT professional handled their toxic manager? Who is the very worst workplace leader that you’ve ever had to work with? Did you ever maliciously comply with their (awful) demands to make them have a taste of the consequences of their actions? How do you deal with toxic coworkers in your company? Let us know what you think in the comments.

    As the IT pro’s post started going viral, they interacted with some of their readers and shared additional context

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    The internet loved the online story. Here’s how some readers reacted to the phenomenal tale

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    Unfortunately, bad bosses are far too common. Some workers had similar stories that they wanted to share

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 64, so an old fart to the young IT folks. But even at my age, I f*****g know better than to demand the entire system be shut down during peak working hours, because I have an understanding of what that means, ffs! Did she not realize that shutting the entire system down meant that EVERYTHING would shut down? All the networks, orders, packaging, shipping, scheduling, time clocks, accounting, maintenance, IT, EVERYTHING? That the entire company would come to a HALT at the busiest time of the workday? Cripes, how stupid and out of it can you be? I have been working computerized jobs since the 1980s, and have seen and worked with all the changes and improvements our technology has gone through. So anyone my age or younger—-and even a little older as well—-is a f*****g Luddite if they have worked anywhere that is computerized, and you’d have to be doing manual labor in the middle of nowhere not to, and not increased their knowledge or at least their familiarity with computers and computer systems, with every advancement as they happened through the years. What cave did she crawl out from before she filled out an application?

    JB
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reads like a revenge fantasy written by someone who thinks others don’t know about nor understand typical business critical systems change management protocols. Having worked in IT for ~30 years, I can tell there *was* a process established as evidenced by in-writing communication that this server would be down for scheduled maintenance on Sunday and no one replied there would be an issue. Maybe they hadn’t set up required approvals. Doesn’t matter. All he had to do was refuse, give his reasons and tell her to escalate as high as she liked if she had a problem with that. No competent sysadmin would maliciously comply by pulling the plug during office hours causing disruption to all users. OP even claims they didn’t shut the server down properly, again, NOT something someone competent would do. The cherry on top of this very fake sounding story is him being commended for his ‘professionalism’ and given a bonus. It might not be Karen’s job to understand the implications of what she was demanding but it was 100% his.

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    g90814
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is when you loop in other management. You don't do stuff like this based on one uninformed persons demand.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely, BCC is your friend in this instance.

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    Joe Reaves
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the one commentator who pointed out that when someone asks you to confirm something in writing you should stop. It doesn't *necessarily* mean you shouldn't do what you wanted to do but you definitely need to ask them to talk you through what they believe the consequences of that course of action are because they are trying to ensure they don't get fired, sued, or arrested. Sometimes you do need to go outside the rules, but you better be d**n sure you know absolutely every consequence of pushing that button and can explain to your boss in detail why the consequences of not pushing it were worse.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, please confirm in writing is the biggest hint you can drop that s**t is about to go sidewards and you requested it.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 64, so an old fart to the young IT folks. But even at my age, I f*****g know better than to demand the entire system be shut down during peak working hours, because I have an understanding of what that means, ffs! Did she not realize that shutting the entire system down meant that EVERYTHING would shut down? All the networks, orders, packaging, shipping, scheduling, time clocks, accounting, maintenance, IT, EVERYTHING? That the entire company would come to a HALT at the busiest time of the workday? Cripes, how stupid and out of it can you be? I have been working computerized jobs since the 1980s, and have seen and worked with all the changes and improvements our technology has gone through. So anyone my age or younger—-and even a little older as well—-is a f*****g Luddite if they have worked anywhere that is computerized, and you’d have to be doing manual labor in the middle of nowhere not to, and not increased their knowledge or at least their familiarity with computers and computer systems, with every advancement as they happened through the years. What cave did she crawl out from before she filled out an application?

    JB
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reads like a revenge fantasy written by someone who thinks others don’t know about nor understand typical business critical systems change management protocols. Having worked in IT for ~30 years, I can tell there *was* a process established as evidenced by in-writing communication that this server would be down for scheduled maintenance on Sunday and no one replied there would be an issue. Maybe they hadn’t set up required approvals. Doesn’t matter. All he had to do was refuse, give his reasons and tell her to escalate as high as she liked if she had a problem with that. No competent sysadmin would maliciously comply by pulling the plug during office hours causing disruption to all users. OP even claims they didn’t shut the server down properly, again, NOT something someone competent would do. The cherry on top of this very fake sounding story is him being commended for his ‘professionalism’ and given a bonus. It might not be Karen’s job to understand the implications of what she was demanding but it was 100% his.

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    g90814
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is when you loop in other management. You don't do stuff like this based on one uninformed persons demand.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely, BCC is your friend in this instance.

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    Joe Reaves
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the one commentator who pointed out that when someone asks you to confirm something in writing you should stop. It doesn't *necessarily* mean you shouldn't do what you wanted to do but you definitely need to ask them to talk you through what they believe the consequences of that course of action are because they are trying to ensure they don't get fired, sued, or arrested. Sometimes you do need to go outside the rules, but you better be d**n sure you know absolutely every consequence of pushing that button and can explain to your boss in detail why the consequences of not pushing it were worse.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, please confirm in writing is the biggest hint you can drop that s**t is about to go sidewards and you requested it.

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