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Selena Gomez Responds After Being Slammed For Posting Herself Crying For “The Children”
Selena Gomez Responds After Being Slammed For Posting Herself Crying For “The Children”
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Selena Gomez Responds After Being Slammed For Posting Herself Crying For “The Children”

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Selena Gomez is facing backlash after sharing a video on her Instagram where she was seen crying in response to the latest immigration policies issued by the United States’ current administration.

“All my people are getting attacked, the children. I don’t understand. I’m so sorry, I wish I could do something but I can’t,” the 32-year-old said.

“I don’t know what to do. I’ll try everything, I promise.”

Highlights
  • Selena Gomez faced backlash after posting a video crying about immigration policies.
  • Critics accuse Gomez of making the issue about her instead of focusing on impacted lives.
  • Gomez deleted her video and followed up with a message addressing the criticism.

While the actress’ intentions and tears may have been genuine, the reaction on social media was far from supportive, with many users accusing Gomez of putting herself at the center of a situation that wasn’t about her. 

“Selena always finds a way to make it about her feelings. This isn’t the time for performative tears, it’s about real lives being affected,” one netizen wrote.

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    Selena Gomez was forced to delete a video of her crying about immigration after netizens accused of “making it about herself”

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    “Instead of crying on camera, maybe Selena should use her platform to share resources, donate, or raise awareness in a more constructive way,” another user argued. “Celebrities crying into their phones doesn’t help at all.”

    The backlash got so bad that Gomez was forced to delete her video, posting a follow-up story with a black background that read: “Apparently it’s not ok to show empathy for people.”

    Selena Gomez crying while wiping tears.

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    Gomez is not a stranger to showing her emotions publicly, becoming known for wearing them on her sleeve in videos and charitable events.

    The actress has made an effort in the past to connect herself to the plight of immigrants, emotionally sharing her family’s immigration story in a 2019 Netflix docuseries called Living Undocumented.

    Selena Gomez crying while wiping tears.

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    Gomez was also recently snubbed at the Oscars, receiving no nominations for her work, which some of her fans believe has put an extra layer of pressure on her shoulders, making the recent news about immigration hit much harder.

    “Oh Selena. You can show empathy without making it a spectacle. When you make it a dramatic spectacle, you make it less about the cause and more about you,” a user wrote.

    The actress has contributed to many charities over the years, delivering emotional speeches at events and fundraisers

    Selena Gomez in a white robe with smoky eye makeup, looking reflective under bright lights.

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    The actress has made a conscious effort to participate in as many charities as possible, including UNICEF and the Rare Impact Fund, a non-profit dedicated to fund research on mental health issues.

    Selena Gomez sitting on a couch, wearing headphones and a cozy outfit, exuding a calm demeanor.

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    For instance, in October 2024, Gomez similarly cried on camera during a charity event, after a young fan introduced her as someone who “leads generations with confidence, style, and grace.”

    Black screen with text overlay: "Apparently it's not ok to show empathy for people," related to Selena Gomez's response.

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    The emotional moment came after the singer announced that the sales of her makeup brand, Rare Beauty, will go towards helping the Rare Impact Fund with their efforts.

    “Your support means so much to me, and I couldn’t be more grateful to have the opportunity to #MakeARareImpact for the second year. Thank you guys,” she said.

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    Despite her emotional transparency, both fans and critics agreed that her crying publicly over the delicate matter of immigration was doing more harm than good.

    Many pointed out that the center of attention should be on the consequences of the measure, rather than her feelings this time around.

    “She’s an angel.” While many criticized her for crying on Instagram, others offered words of encouragement and thanked her for her charity work

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    Tweet about Selena Gomez showing sympathy and support amidst controversy, highlighting her caring nature.

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    Tweet supporting Selena Gomez's advocacy for children, highlighting her impactful voice and inspiring change.

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    Tweet discussing emotional response to children’s suffering and challenges faced by undocumented families.

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    Tweet about Selena Gomez's right to cry, discussing issues of deportation and immigrant parents.

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    Social media comment questioning Selena Gomez's intentions after her emotional post.

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    Abel Musa Miño

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    Abel Musa Miño

    Abel Musa Miño

    Writer, Entertainment News Writer

    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

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    Jamie Mayfield
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not going to waste the energy to attack those who show public displays of sympathy towards children when that energy could be spent calling your congress members, or actually voting. Who cares if she is acting or not? If people are that mad they could vote, they could volunteer, they could write their senators and congress reps. Why have things gotten this terrible in the first place? Because the people mean nothing to congress or the senate, they only care about the corporations who pay them, and part of that is us not participating in government in the first place. Call these people, write them letters, hound them, lobby outside their offices, go to public meetings, start holding people in office accountable to the actual people instead of shouting at celebs that have nothing to do with it.

    Nova Rook
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Showing empathy or discussing mercy is not in favour with the new fascists. America is different now.

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    Nice Beast Ludo
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people have so much empathy but most seem to have none. Or maybe the Internet just makes it look that way. I worry about eviction every month. I'm one month away from being unable to pay rent and being in the streets if things turn the wrong way. I can't imagine not being secure in your own country and waiting for the knocking of a deportation squad. I can't imagine living with that kind of fear.

    Nice Beast Ludo
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I meant to say in your home, but some people have been here since they were little children or are little children and to them, this is the only country they know.

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    Jamie Mayfield
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not going to waste the energy to attack those who show public displays of sympathy towards children when that energy could be spent calling your congress members, or actually voting. Who cares if she is acting or not? If people are that mad they could vote, they could volunteer, they could write their senators and congress reps. Why have things gotten this terrible in the first place? Because the people mean nothing to congress or the senate, they only care about the corporations who pay them, and part of that is us not participating in government in the first place. Call these people, write them letters, hound them, lobby outside their offices, go to public meetings, start holding people in office accountable to the actual people instead of shouting at celebs that have nothing to do with it.

    Nova Rook
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Showing empathy or discussing mercy is not in favour with the new fascists. America is different now.

    ADVERTISEMENT
    Nice Beast Ludo
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people have so much empathy but most seem to have none. Or maybe the Internet just makes it look that way. I worry about eviction every month. I'm one month away from being unable to pay rent and being in the streets if things turn the wrong way. I can't imagine not being secure in your own country and waiting for the knocking of a deportation squad. I can't imagine living with that kind of fear.

    Nice Beast Ludo
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I meant to say in your home, but some people have been here since they were little children or are little children and to them, this is the only country they know.

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