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Woman Hijacks An Entire Fridge At Work, Doesn’t Take Confrontation From A Coworker Well
Woman looks disappointed opening a crowded fridge, illustrating lack of space to keep lunch in the fridge at work
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Woman Hijacks An Entire Fridge At Work, Doesn’t Take Confrontation From A Coworker Well

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62% of American workers are extremely or very satisfied with their relationship with their manager or supervisor, and 67% say the same about their relationship with their colleagues. But Reddit user Ehtio isn’t part of that group.

In a post on r/AITAH, they described the conflict that has been brewing between them and a woman from the office, “Anna,” who has been using the shared company fridge to store dozens of homemade meals, leaving little room for anyone else’s food.

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    The office has its own etiquette, even when it comes to the fridge

    Woman looking frustrated inside an overcrowded office fridge, struggling to find space for her lunch.

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    And if one person tries to put themselves above everyone else, it usually causes trouble

    Man struggling to find space for his lunch in office fridge due to coworker storing homemade lunches.

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    Office fridge crowded with coworker’s multiple lunch containers, leaving no space for others’ food storage.

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    Angry woman yelling at coworker sitting at table frustrated over lunch space in office fridge issue.

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    Man has no space to keep his lunch in the fridge, coworker reports issue to HR causing workplace conflict.

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    There’s often a lack of clear guidance around the office kitchen, but that doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want in it

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    There are a lot of ways coworkers get under each other’s nerves. One survey found that the biggest office pet peeves are:

    1. Stealing food from the office fridge – 97%
    2. Loud personal calls in a shared space – 96%
    3. Interrupting and talking over others – 95%
    4. Desk hovering – 93%
    5. Coming into the office while sick – 91%
    6. Not respecting shared restrooms – 89%
    7. Filming yourself for social media while at work – 88%
    8. Eating loudly in meetings or shared spaces – 87%
    9. Leaving a mess in shared spaces – 86%
    10. Wearing overpowering perfume or cologne to work – 86%

    And while setting up your personal restaurant in the office isn’t on the list, it’s easy to imagine people hating such a venture when it’s clearly done at their expense.

    Maintaining a clean and hygienic shared kitchen is also an example of what’s often referred to as a “non-promotable task”, and if the same employee is stuck doing it day in and day out, it can slow their career progression.

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    Libby Sander, an assistant professor of organizational behavior at Bond University, Australia, explains that it can be a good indicator of overall office culture, too.

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    According to her, most employees don’t deliberately set out to disregard their co-workers’ feelings, but a lack of consequences for inconsiderate etiquette can lead to it becoming entrenched behavior.

    “[If the same people are constantly picking up the slack, it’s] going to lead to frustration and resentment, and maybe eventually going in and yelling at somebody, which is not the outcome that you want,” Sander explains.

    However, in our case, that’s precisely what the Redditor was pushed to.

    One of the difficulties of maintaining a clean office kitchen is it’s an area where there are often no clear communications or workflows in place to determine who is responsible for what, but Sander says it’s ultimately up to senior leaders to know what’s happening in their organization.

    So, it’s probably best for all that HR was notified.

    People have had a lot to say about the coworkers’ conflict

    Screenshot of a Reddit discussion about a coworker reporting a man to HR for having no space to keep his lunch in the fridge.

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    Reddit thread discussing a coworker reporting another to HR over lunch space issues in the office fridge.

    Comment discussing coworker issues about lack of fridge space for lunch, suggesting need for a second fridge at work.

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    Comment on a forum discussing a man having no space to keep his lunch in the fridge, sparking coworker complaint to HR.

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    Comment discussing the issue of limited fridge space causing problems for coworkers storing their lunch.

    Comment on a forum discussing a man having no space to keep his lunch in the fridge, suggesting getting a bigger fridge.

    Comment from coworker questioning HR’s role after man has no space to keep his lunch in the fridge at work.

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    Text post from Reddit user theinnocentincident sharing experience as a manager about HR and coworker issues related to lunch fridge space.

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    Comment discussing lack of fridge space for employees' lunches and need for bigger fridge at workplace.

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    Comment discussing lack of space in office fridge for lunches and coworker reporting the issue to HR.

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    Screenshot of a coworker reporting to HR about a man having no space to keep his lunch in the shared office fridge.

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    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it extremely hard to believe HR would let her sell lunches at work, stored inside company property. I can only assume the company lawyers haven't heard about what's going on. First person that gets sick or has an allergic reaction, company will be sued, and rightfully so.

    Rika
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was my first thought. I can't imagine a company allowing an employee to run a side business on their property, especially a food business.

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    Vinnie
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What might be missing here: the possibility that the fridge was not full before Anna started her business. The OP's colleagues may have been buying lunches outside the office or their lunches might have been smaller.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Furthermore, Anna may not simply be selling to people in her department but other departments as well. I’m shocked HR didn’t put a stop to her business when OP complained!

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    Babs McGurk
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA, but the easiest solution would be to buy an insulated lunchbox and a freezer pack, and keep your lunch in your own workspace. Before I retired I did this for years, and never had to deal with the office refrigerator drama.

    Cin
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have 2 huge fridges in my office & there are idiots who store their massive insulated lunch bags IN THE FRIDGE!!!

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    Angie May
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Luckily I documented all my interactions with Anna" ...how? Like what would possess this person to apparently record (because this is the only "documentation" that would make sense, it's not like Anna is going to sign a transcript of their chat) their conversations with a coworker especially if it was a quick "hey can you not use the fridge like this?". This one seems weirdly fake.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just learned about scenarios like this at work today. It was part of my workplace violence and harassment training. 1. OP did the right thing by calmly and inquisitively bringing up, what should be, a reasonable request. "Anna" reacted with anger and self-promoting. 2. OP going to HR in regards to bringing up the issue so they can work on a solution. There is nothing wrong with that and there should be expectation of no retaliation to go to HR. This is not harassment as Anna claims. 3. Anna retaliating by spreading rumors, alienating OP against other coworkers, that's possibly considered workplace harassment, maybe even violent behaviour, as violence in the workplace is not necessarily physical. Now, for the lunches, I don't know how big Anna's meal containers are, or what anyone else is bringing. Where I work, there are coworkers who keep food in the cupboards and fridge. But we have 2 fridges and they still get packed. Is this food being left in the fridge over the coming days?

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This person needs to call the health department. This woman's running an unlicensed food business, she needs health permits, a business permit, and a health inspection every 6 months. They will shut this down and fine the woman, who will then attempt to sue OP.

    Trashy Panda
    Community Member
    Premium
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't the fridge also belong to the employees buying her lunches? Where are they supposed to keep their food? It's the company's fault for not having enough fridge space for their workers.

    Shaena N. Spencer
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What Anna is doing is ILLEGAL!! She needs certain certifications to sell food to people!! If someone gets sick she is ROYALLY screwed. Maybe a tip to one of those agencies that investigate stuff like this!! I'm petty AF. Lie on me I'll spill your truths!!

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did I waste my time reading this? (because I am procrastinating at work)

    Uncle Panda
    Community Member
    Premium
    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I started working on campus the designated fridge for my use was also used by the grad students. The only thing I ever kept in there was a sleeve of bagels. I eventually bought my own mini fridge. I don't mind feeding a hungry grad student, I was one for a long time. But they kept taking the last bagel, and I just can't stand a stupid thief. You have to leave one to keep the mark engaged.

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    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it extremely hard to believe HR would let her sell lunches at work, stored inside company property. I can only assume the company lawyers haven't heard about what's going on. First person that gets sick or has an allergic reaction, company will be sued, and rightfully so.

    Rika
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was my first thought. I can't imagine a company allowing an employee to run a side business on their property, especially a food business.

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    Vinnie
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What might be missing here: the possibility that the fridge was not full before Anna started her business. The OP's colleagues may have been buying lunches outside the office or their lunches might have been smaller.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Furthermore, Anna may not simply be selling to people in her department but other departments as well. I’m shocked HR didn’t put a stop to her business when OP complained!

    Load More Replies...
    Babs McGurk
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA, but the easiest solution would be to buy an insulated lunchbox and a freezer pack, and keep your lunch in your own workspace. Before I retired I did this for years, and never had to deal with the office refrigerator drama.

    Cin
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have 2 huge fridges in my office & there are idiots who store their massive insulated lunch bags IN THE FRIDGE!!!

    Load More Replies...
    Angie May
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Luckily I documented all my interactions with Anna" ...how? Like what would possess this person to apparently record (because this is the only "documentation" that would make sense, it's not like Anna is going to sign a transcript of their chat) their conversations with a coworker especially if it was a quick "hey can you not use the fridge like this?". This one seems weirdly fake.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just learned about scenarios like this at work today. It was part of my workplace violence and harassment training. 1. OP did the right thing by calmly and inquisitively bringing up, what should be, a reasonable request. "Anna" reacted with anger and self-promoting. 2. OP going to HR in regards to bringing up the issue so they can work on a solution. There is nothing wrong with that and there should be expectation of no retaliation to go to HR. This is not harassment as Anna claims. 3. Anna retaliating by spreading rumors, alienating OP against other coworkers, that's possibly considered workplace harassment, maybe even violent behaviour, as violence in the workplace is not necessarily physical. Now, for the lunches, I don't know how big Anna's meal containers are, or what anyone else is bringing. Where I work, there are coworkers who keep food in the cupboards and fridge. But we have 2 fridges and they still get packed. Is this food being left in the fridge over the coming days?

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This person needs to call the health department. This woman's running an unlicensed food business, she needs health permits, a business permit, and a health inspection every 6 months. They will shut this down and fine the woman, who will then attempt to sue OP.

    Trashy Panda
    Community Member
    Premium
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't the fridge also belong to the employees buying her lunches? Where are they supposed to keep their food? It's the company's fault for not having enough fridge space for their workers.

    Shaena N. Spencer
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What Anna is doing is ILLEGAL!! She needs certain certifications to sell food to people!! If someone gets sick she is ROYALLY screwed. Maybe a tip to one of those agencies that investigate stuff like this!! I'm petty AF. Lie on me I'll spill your truths!!

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did I waste my time reading this? (because I am procrastinating at work)

    Uncle Panda
    Community Member
    Premium
    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I started working on campus the designated fridge for my use was also used by the grad students. The only thing I ever kept in there was a sleeve of bagels. I eventually bought my own mini fridge. I don't mind feeding a hungry grad student, I was one for a long time. But they kept taking the last bagel, and I just can't stand a stupid thief. You have to leave one to keep the mark engaged.

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