“My Recruiter Is Crying, I’m Crying”: Perfect Candidate Rejected For Wanting To Be Paid
Recruiting is all about finding and hiring the right people. However, the criteria that describe the term “right” might be different depending on who you ask. Even within the same company.
A recent post from r/RecruitingHell highlights this dilemma.
Created by a person who goes by the nickname DutchTinCan online, it describes a situation their company ended up in when it finally received approval to fill a critical role.
The position was a tough sell—boring and repetitive, yet demanding enough to require a sharp, capable individual. After a lengthy search, they found one person who seemed like the perfect candidate—until the hiring panel started raising concerns about his motivation.
Companies invest plenty of resources to find the right people for the right positions
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And sometimes, they reject even those who seem like the perfect candidates
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Employees can have different motivations and writing someone off that easily could be a mistake
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In a huge meta-analysis comprised of 120 years of research and findings from 92 quantitative studies, Tim Judge and his colleagues showed that the link between salary and job satisfaction is pretty weak.
The reported correlation indicates that there is less than a 2% overlap between pay and job satisfaction levels. Furthermore, the correlation between pay and pay satisfaction was only marginally higher (4.8% overlap), indicating that people’s satisfaction with their salary is mostly independent of their actual salary.
Interestingly, employees earning salaries in the top half of their data range reported similar levels of job satisfaction to those in the bottom half of their data range.
However, a study by Yoon Jik Cho and James Perry offers more nuance on the topic. The researchers analyzed real-world data from a representative sample of over 200,000 U.S. public sector employees. While the results showed that people’s engagement levels were three times more strongly related to intrinsic than extrinsic motives, the data also revealed that both motives tend to cancel each other out.
In other words, when employees have little interest in external rewards, their intrinsic motivation has a substantial positive effect on their engagement levels, and when employees are focused on external rewards, the effects of intrinsic motives on engagement are significantly diminished.
But don’t these numbers just mean that people who don’t like their jobs have nothing to think about other than the money? Or does focusing on money prevent you from enjoying your job?
Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, the Chief Innovation Officer at ManpowerGroup and a professor of business psychology at University College London and at Columbia University, believes that ultimately, one size does not fit all.
“Our relationship to money is highly idiosyncratic,” he writes. “Indeed, in the era of personalization, when most things can now be customized to fit our needs — from social media feeds to potential dates, to online shopping displays and playlists — it is somewhat surprising that compensation systems are still based on the premise that what works for some people will also work for everyone else.”
“Other than its functional exchange value, pay is a psychological symbol, and the meaning of money is largely subjective. For example, there are marked individual differences in people’s tendency to think or worry about money, and different people value money for different reasons (e.g., as a means to power, freedom, security, or love),” Chamorro-Premuzic explains. “If companies want to motivate their workforce, they need to understand what their employees really value — and the answer is bound differ for each individual.”
As the story went viral, others shared their own similar experiences, highlighting that this isn’t a standalone case
People have had a lot of reaction to this hiring practice, especially the managers’ priorities
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LOL at the comment who is complaining about "corporate America". OP literally stated they're Dutch and working for a Dutch company.
I teach English at a technical university and one of the things we talk about with my students is job interviews (in English, obviously). When we get to the question "Why do you want to work here?" they all instinctively want to answer "to have money for bills", and I have to explain the song and dance you have to do about how you want to be a part of the company because it's so great bla bla. They always find it funny.
"Why do you want this job?" "Because money can be exchanged for goods and services"
Because I've always been passionate about being able to afford food
Load More Replies...My work also has this idea that they should be able to hire someone who will do it for the love of it. Something strange happens to the brain when people get into management positions.
I love my job, basically fixing electronic / programming stuff. I do it at work and at home, for friends free. What I hate is the politics of work. Dealing with pig ignorant managers that try to micro manage just so the can show they are doing something to earn their six figure salaries. Not just the incompetence and ignorance, they are proud of it. When I try and explain even the most simple concepts that are important to what we sell they behave like Bart Simpson sticking fingers in their ears and singing la la la la.
too bad the grocery store, my landlord, the utility companies, and the local gas station don't take intrinsic motivation in exchange for their goods and services.
Saying you want the job for money is like being completely honest on your resume. You fake it until you make it with BS answers they want to hear. But if you hear in the interview something like that they are looking for "someone with a passion for the work and not about the money" then run away.
It baffles me that the same company that is a COMPANY for the money, wants employees "not motivated by money"... if you're not motivated by money, buy a house in a remote location and live from your own grown vegetables and hunt for meat... no one that has a COMPANY isn't motivated by money...
Load More Replies...It baffles me how employers expect money to be nowhere near the top of the list of things a prospective employee prioritises. Had many arguments with my boss about this, coz he believes people should be motivated by passion towards their craft... or some other bøllocks like that. Sure if you enjoy your job both your life and the work will probably be better, and money isn't the only thing that matters. But most people work to live, not the other way round. And i, for one, will pick a job that pays me 20% more, even if i'm going to enjoy it 20% less - the net result will be better peace of mind and, most probably, a better work/life balance
I do have passion for my craft… but it doesn’t pay very well so that’s why I need a day job!!
Load More Replies...LOL at the comment who is complaining about "corporate America". OP literally stated they're Dutch and working for a Dutch company.
I teach English at a technical university and one of the things we talk about with my students is job interviews (in English, obviously). When we get to the question "Why do you want to work here?" they all instinctively want to answer "to have money for bills", and I have to explain the song and dance you have to do about how you want to be a part of the company because it's so great bla bla. They always find it funny.
"Why do you want this job?" "Because money can be exchanged for goods and services"
Because I've always been passionate about being able to afford food
Load More Replies...My work also has this idea that they should be able to hire someone who will do it for the love of it. Something strange happens to the brain when people get into management positions.
I love my job, basically fixing electronic / programming stuff. I do it at work and at home, for friends free. What I hate is the politics of work. Dealing with pig ignorant managers that try to micro manage just so the can show they are doing something to earn their six figure salaries. Not just the incompetence and ignorance, they are proud of it. When I try and explain even the most simple concepts that are important to what we sell they behave like Bart Simpson sticking fingers in their ears and singing la la la la.
too bad the grocery store, my landlord, the utility companies, and the local gas station don't take intrinsic motivation in exchange for their goods and services.
Saying you want the job for money is like being completely honest on your resume. You fake it until you make it with BS answers they want to hear. But if you hear in the interview something like that they are looking for "someone with a passion for the work and not about the money" then run away.
It baffles me that the same company that is a COMPANY for the money, wants employees "not motivated by money"... if you're not motivated by money, buy a house in a remote location and live from your own grown vegetables and hunt for meat... no one that has a COMPANY isn't motivated by money...
Load More Replies...It baffles me how employers expect money to be nowhere near the top of the list of things a prospective employee prioritises. Had many arguments with my boss about this, coz he believes people should be motivated by passion towards their craft... or some other bøllocks like that. Sure if you enjoy your job both your life and the work will probably be better, and money isn't the only thing that matters. But most people work to live, not the other way round. And i, for one, will pick a job that pays me 20% more, even if i'm going to enjoy it 20% less - the net result will be better peace of mind and, most probably, a better work/life balance
I do have passion for my craft… but it doesn’t pay very well so that’s why I need a day job!!
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